Fuck a duck!! Just did a damn good reply and the browser died in the ass again and didn't save. Grrr!!
Okay here goes again!....
So, I don't have alot of sex in my private life at the moment because I work 5-6 days a week usually. There isn't alot of time left over really. I can just about manage sleep, the gym and eating. On occasion I go out to a movie or show! We've established why I'm single in another thread
When I did have a partner, I'd say it was whenever there was a bed and privacy available. The last guy I was with could only really perform once a night as he was overweight and significantly older than me..as well as having a few emotional issues! Before that I was with someone that I tried SO hard with constantly, to be rejected most of the time, or things just didn't work. So gentlemen I can empathise with you being rejected! I wonder why neither lasted?
Having said that I haven't lived with a partner in a long time, and then only once, so it may be different. But if I wasn't working...I'd say probably at least 4-5 days a week, and the amount of times per day would depend on availability. Sometimes work and life gets in the way...as in you're on opposing shifts, or don't live together or have flatmates, whatever...not to mention a FIFO roster. If I did live with someone, I would say that the 4-5 days a week would be realistic with multiple times on the days off we shared in common. From the sounds of you all though, that seems like alot. Maybe I'm overestimating, but I don't think so. When I'm with someone and I'm into them, I like to be intimate and share my body as well as feel theirs. I'll confess to being a bit of a hand holder in public. Shock horror!! And keeping in mind I was like that BEFORE I had my first orgasm, I reckon I'd be pretty ready if I really liked the person now that I know what pleasure I can have as well as them.
But...if I am ever with someone, I do not want to get married. Everyone says it ruins everything, including the sex, so no thank you very much!!
xoxo
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