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How long should sex last?

johnmatilda

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Just reading your post on the things I must do to attract a woman with sex unlikely to be on the menu after all the work was in itself exhausting to think about. As I've often said, it's TMW (too much work). All I need is a 30 minute root, not a bonding, connection or relationship.

Many a woman have said that they want a man to make them laugh and to make them happy. My response is that they need to go to the circus and look for the clown. Blokes, a woman's happiness is not your responsibility but it is your problem.
 

johnmatilda

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Just reading your post on the things I must do to attract a woman with sex unlikely to be on the menu after all the work was in itself exhausting to think about. As I've often said, it's TMW (too much work). All I need is a 30 minute root, not a bonding, connection or relationship.

Many a woman have said that they want a man to make them laugh and to make them happy. My response is that they need to go to the circus and look for the clown. Blokes, a woman's happiness is not your responsibility but it is your problem.
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Nev

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How long should sex last?​



  • When sex lasts less than 3 minutes, this is a cause for clinical concern
  • Sex that lasts 3 to 7 minutes is considered “adequate”
  • Sex that lasts 7 to 13 minutes is considered “desirable”
  • Sex that lasts 10 to 30 minutes is considered “too long”
Do these expected time frames depend on position? I used to come much faster doing doggy but I prefer being cowgirled, particularly if she's taller than me so can hold my head still with her feet. I can comfortably drive for well over 10 minutes at a slow rhythm (needed with fresh piercing - ask @Jamie Jackson for review) without me coming if she just rides at whatever angle she wants.

I'm sensitive about timing because I normally need lots of massage to warm up, only come once, sometimes don't come, and I'm unhealthy enough that my GP says rude things to his computer about me. Thanks.
 

johnmatilda

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  • When sex lasts less than 3 minutes, this is a cause for clinical concern
  • Sex that lasts 3 to 7 minutes is considered “adequate”
  • Sex that lasts 7 to 13 minutes is considered “desirable”
  • Sex that lasts 10 to 30 minutes is considered “too long”
Do these expected time frames depend on position? I used to come much faster doing doggy but I prefer being cowgirled, particularly if she's taller than me so can hold my head still with her feet. I can comfortably drive for well over 10 minutes at a slow rhythm (needed with fresh piercing - ask @Jamie Jackson for review) without me coming if she just rides at whatever angle she wants.

I'm sensitive about timing because I normally need lots of massage to warm up, only come once, sometimes don't come, and I'm unhealthy enough that my GP says rude things to his computer about me. Thanks.
I don't think that duration of sex matters as long as both are happy with it. However, that is rarely the case. I've been with a woman who complained that I took too long and also said "are you done already?" 🤷‍♂️
 
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DavyBlaid

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For me, it's all about the vibe and connection. When you're into each other and the chemistry's sparking, time kinda flies, you know? It's not about watching the clock but more about being present and enjoying the ride. Sometimes a quickie can be just as intense and satisfying as a marathon session—it's all about that energy and connection. As for "ai sexting," well, that's a whole new twist in the game, right? Technology's adding some spicy options to keep things interesting. It's like sending your partner a digital love note that amps up the anticipation. Whether you're into emojis or full-on messages, it's about keeping that playful, flirty vibe alive.
 
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SillyOld

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Finding a good match can be tricky, and it’s often about putting yourself out there in the right places. One resource you might want to check out is a site that focuses on connecting people with specific interests.
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