Having a Tiff

[Natalie]

Acknowledging and trying to understand what has annoyed your partner can go along way...... Being humble and sincere is also good

xoxoxo Natalie xoxoxox

 

[homer]

I don't mind having this Tiff though.

 

[Raye@Langtrees]

Yes Luxi HP has a very sexy gorgeous gal

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[Happy2]

Once upon a time in a different country where milk and honey flew.......or so we were told........I did have a relation ship without a single tiff. Fairy tail you think? Oh no....let me assure you...having no tiffs in a relation ship is not a sign of happiness........it is actually a sign of not being close enough to have a tiff.......or not caring enough to have a tiff.
Long live the tiffs.

I think you are spot on Rochelle Its how you deal with the tiffs Not letting them fester
Or finding the root cause if it is a common theme
Anyway I am sure many people who watch romances think a tiff Is a ruddy great row when it is, what it says, just a tiff get it sorted and Get Over It

 

[Rochelle]

I was just thinking........having a tiff.......sometimes it means that you have to replace certain things in your household........what is the most expensive item you "destroyed" while having a tiff?

 

[Happy2]

My dignity

 

[DDxoxo]

Once upon a time in a different country where milk and honey flew.......or so we were told........I did have a relation ship without a single tiff. Fairy tail you think? Oh no....let me assure you...having no tiffs in a relation ship is not a sign of happiness........it is actually a sign of not being close enough to have a tiff.......or not caring enough to have a tiff.
Long live the tiffs.

That's what people say ....
For me too hard...... I would stress with tiffs....

 

[DDxoxo]

I was just thinking........having a tiff.......sometimes it means that you have to replace certain things in your household........what is the most expensive item you "destroyed" while having a tiff?

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I have never seen any one in my family throw stuff or break stuff....Again I could not live with someone who did that!
Having said that.... I do throw my computer mouse all the time......

 

[HappyPirate]

Ahoy LOL I have seen ships been sunk, Ohhhhh well there goes the neighbor hood
Cheers and pass the rum

I was just thinking........having a tiff.......sometimes it means that you have to replace certain things in your household........what is the most expensive item you "destroyed" while having a tiff?

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[laceyjoy]

question to everyone
how many times would you forgive your lover on a mistake ????

say if he cheater ??? how many times would you try to work it out ??

No way cheating is not on...... a no,no. End of, jog on, computer says no.

 

[Rochelle]

hehehehe HappyPirate....why I am not surprised???????
I have thrown things.....books mainly and after a big tantrum back in the day at my parents place I jumped repeatedly on the two seater. Nerveless to say it gave way after a few jumps.
Another time....again many moons ago I kicked the wall.........mmmmmmm guess you can tell who ended up with the short end of the straw.......AUTSCH

 

[Bluegrass9]

I find saying "sorry" helps. And then be really really careful what you say in the next hour.

And we forgive each other as often as we have too because nobody is perfect, not even me.

 

[Luxi Summer]

Every time..

you much be very forgiving if its on everything

 

[Rochelle]

I find saying "sorry" helps. And then be really really careful what you say in the next hour.

And we forgive each other as often as we have too because nobody is perfect, not even me.

No doubt about it......'sorry' is one essential word when it comes to relationships. But it happens that people use it too quickly....not meaning it and just saying it to get out of a situation. Nothing wrong to get out of a situation but I do prefer the straight way........instead of 'sorry' something like 'I really don't want to fight about it right now....let's postpone it'.........yes....fine with me. (a 'sorry' just for the sake of it doesn't do it for me)

 

[Bluegrass9]

I say sorry and then explain why.
The movie 'LOVE STORY" there is a line.
"Love means you never have to say you are sorry."

Please note I was very careful not to just say sorry.

 

[Gina Ling]

No one perfect. We all making mistake some time !!!

 

[Gina Ling]

I say sorry and then explain why.
The movie 'LOVE STORY" there is a line.
"Love means you never have to say you are sorry."

Please note I was very careful not to just say sorry.

What about : my appologize !!!

 

[Gina Ling]

Sorry seem to be hardest word to say ...!!!
I love that song.

 

[Dallas]

question to everyone
how many times would you forgive your lover on a mistake ????

say if he cheater ??? how many times would you try to work it out ??

If she cheated on me the damage to the trust would be irreparable. So I would forgive her but it may not be enough to save the relationship.

 

[Kirra Bell]

This made me giggle, cause Russ was in my bad books today. I made him give me cuddles and back rubs and then forgave him... But mostly I make him buy me my favourite foods, and my banana milk. Oh and if he really wants to be in my good books, he washes my hair extensions that I use for work, gets my work outfits ready etc, and then comes and cuddles me when I'm sleeping.. hehe

 

[Raye@Langtrees]

Hate having to go to bed with unfinished issues
it's very uncomfortable for both parties you would think....
but when the other half just drifts off to sleep.... you're laying there
Awake fuming ....not good..they say you should never
go to bed angry....





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[Raye@Langtrees]

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[Ginger Spice]

Back tickles.

I had a wicked argument with my ex and he just grabs me, throws me over his shoulder and says "THATS IT WE ARE HAVING ANGRY SEX".... he may have been forgiven if I hadn't smacked my head on the door frame and got a concussion. Then he gave me back tickles.

 

[Rochelle]

remember those two "love is" characters????????

 

[Lucy Lake]

There is usually nothing he can do as I lose interest fast in someone who cant cut the mustard and do the right thing

 

[Madam Tracey]

Own your words and behavior...if you upset someone so be it, generally there is some sort of crazy logic behind the things we say and do and some people do get upset.
In a relationship don't start blaming the other person try to understand the WHY? If it's not a deal breaker...then agree to disagree and move on.
You will find out what really matters and not waste time with petty stuff.
I'm old...don't know about wise though....but here's a quick tip....
HORMONES/SUGAR RUSH/FATIGUE....& MOOD CHANGERS.....often the start of a tiff

 

[Raye@Langtrees]

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[Luxi Summer]

This made me giggle, cause Russ was in my bad books today. I made him give me cuddles and back rubs and then forgave him... But mostly I make him buy me my favourite foods, and my banana milk. Oh and if he really wants to be in my good books, he washes my hair extensions that I use for work, gets my work outfits ready etc, and then comes and cuddles me when I'm sleeping.. hehe

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