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My face is MY FACE... It is not a "tool of my trade".
Guys messing up your hair and make-up during sex
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I actually like having my hair played with/touched/fingers run through it...Gently, of course. The whole "grab a handful of my hair and pull it hard" thing I don't find the least bit sexy or enjoyable...All my regulars they do know that if his hands are covered in lube- he cant touch my hair..But if his hands are clean-then of course,go for it!!!...I dont like to be ''Miss DONT TOUCH ME''...But simple rules make us happy!!!
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I understand where you are coming from, and yes some girls do have Too many rules and take the f out of fun...however im sure you can understand that yes we are being paid for a service, but being intimate is a pretty big thing, and as working girls, we are entitled to have some sort of say as to what we like and dont like, as we are not blow up dolls and have a mind and soul as well If working ladies gave their EVERYTHING to EVERY client then there would be some pretty messed up girls walking around, if you can understand what i mean, for me personally my face is my one place that id prefer not to be touched, i mean your allowed to touch me everywhere else, surely asking for that small favour is not too much to ask ? And with the hair thing, i know my friends who have extensions it is hard to wash or for them their hair is just personal to them , just like for some girls dont like kissing, we are all entitled to have a little bit of ourselves that are just for ourselves.
If working ladies gave their EVERYTHING to EVERY client then there would be some pretty messed up girls walking around, if you can understand what i mean, for me personally my face is my one place that id prefer not to be touched, i mean your allowed to touch me everywhere else, surely asking for that small favour is not too much to ask ? And with the hair thing, i know my friends who have extensions it is hard to wash or for them their hair is just personal to them , just like for some girls dont like kissing, we are all entitled to have a little bit of ourselves that are just for ourselves.
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Well said!I understand where you are coming from, and yes some girls do have Too many rules and take the f out of fun...however im sure you can understand that yes we are being paid for a service, but being intimate is a pretty big thing, and as working girls, we are entitled to have some sort of say as to what we like and dont like, as we are not blow up dolls and have a mind and soul as well
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bottom line is i dont care how much or how little I was paying if i got the no this and no that (im talking just basic stuff)
theres not a hope in hell id be seeing her again.
like i always say its often the more reasnabally priced ladys you get the best service from
theres not a hope in hell id be seeing her again.
like i always say its often the more reasnabally priced ladys you get the best service from
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Ahoy excellent thread, as I said, I am old School and I respect women, the touching of hair and face was always a NO-NO rule. For me this rule has served me well in the past and I am sure in the future, due to the fact that I talk to women and ask them what is comfortable and what is not.
Cheers and Pass the Rum
Cheers and Pass the Rum
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For me it is less about the time spent on hair and makeup and more about my personal preference. Even outside of work I don't like people touching my hair or face. This is why I like to have a conversation with my clients before our time together. So if they are after a particular service that I don't provide then I can always find them another lady that will provide what they are after.
This way all my clients leave happy win win.
This way all my clients leave happy
win win.
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Dallas
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This is one of the best threads for ages. Great comment too bush seeker I think there's so many ifs and buts I could add to that, I might spend some time on some of the things that come to mind
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Yeah, nooooo.So no butt rubbing on d face then...or facebummed...lol..
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From a purely physiological point of view it's all about hormones. Burying my face in a women's soft locks as she moves on top of me is the single greatest pleasure I've ever had. Running my fingers gently through her hair as she goes down on me makes me feel even more stimulus.
This is good information for me though. I'm yet to be with a W/L and I probably would have made the mistake.
This is good information for me though. I'm yet to be with a W/L and I probably would have made the mistake.
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I agree! From personal experience I wouldn't give up on the idea. It depends on the working lady, your relationship with her and how long you have booked. All you can do is respect her wishes and assume no touching unless she says. I had a regular lady a while ago that wanted to keep her hair neat through her shift but if I booked her last two hours she'd undo it for me. Everyone is different
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I agree! From personal experience I wouldn't give up on the idea. It depends on the working lady, your relationship with her and how long you have booked. All you can do is respect her wishes and assume no touching unless she says. I had a regular lady a while ago that wanted to keep her hair neat through her shift but if I booked her last two hours she'd undo it for me. Everyone different
Communication seems to be key.
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I think so, it is a relationship like any other.. but the difference is the money is up front
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I'm also old school. The thought of playing with a girls hair when her boobs are right there has never in my life occured to me!!
Crazy new world i'm living in. Guys in 2014 want to cuddle and be all romantic all the time.
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Exactly!Gee-Whizz ladies
News flash, it is an untidy and sometimes messy business and expecting your hair and makeup to be immaculate afterwards is a bit like Chris Judd expecting to come off the footy field after a game wearing a spotless guernsey. (At least he doesn't have to worry about his hair).
For sex to be worthwhile kissing , stroking and other forms of foreplay must be allowed and if I am with a lady with lovely hair of course I am going to want to touch, stroke and smell it. Surely this will not cause any damage that a few minutes with a brush can't fix? Ask me nicely and I will even do it for you. Likewise if I smudge your lipstick how long does it take to wipe on another coat afterwards?
My suggestion to you, Brontee, is to keep your work grooming and makeup simple and easy to repair. You are playing a "contact sport" which is no place for a princess.
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Nothing worst than runny make up after a session of great sex...just ask the joker...
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To True, yeah they sure want to look good in the lounge but after a 2hr or so session in the room if a Lady expects it to be the way it was when she walked in then i certainly wouldn't be booking her again. I am not talking about kissing or touching a Ladies hair but if you have great sex for 2hrs plus how can a womens hair be neat and tidy when she is finished. Most i have been with have a shower anyway and start again. As far as ake up goes i have seen plenty that use sfa, i wouldn't even go with a Lady if she had to use a shitload of make up. As Sven has said it's about sex not your god damn hair or make up.Gee-Whizz ladies
News flash, it is an untidy and sometimes messy business and expecting your hair and makeup to be immaculate afterwards is a bit like Chris Judd expecting to come off the footy field after a game wearing a spotless guernsey. (At least he doesn't have to worry about his hair).
For sex to be worthwhile kissing , stroking and other forms of foreplay must be allowed and if I am with a lady with lovely hair of course I am going to want to touch, stroke and smell it. Surely this will not cause any damage that a few minutes with a brush can't fix? Ask me nicely and I will even do it for you. Likewise if I smudge your lipstick how long does it take to wipe on another coat afterwards?
My suggestion to you, Brontee, is to keep your work grooming and makeup simple and easy to repair. You are playing a "contact sport" which is no place for a princess.
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So annoying, hands covered in lube...but hey, if i'm into it... I don't care what I look like or how messy my hair is haha
But sweating all over my face is a big NO NO
But sweating all over my face is a big NO NO
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I understand where you are coming from, and yes some girls do have Too many rules and take the f out of fun...however im sure you can understand that yes we are being paid for a service, but being intimate is a pretty big thing, and as working girls, we are entitled to have some sort of say as to what we like and dont like, as we are not blow up dolls and have a mind and soul as well
Perfectly put.
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Actually.... I can't complain.. I let a client cover my entire body in chocolate icing and got sooo much in my hair.. on my face..
Tasted good.
Tasted good.
Joey Dee 289
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I like your work...maybe you should hold classes for some of the princesses......seriously....I can't believe there is so much anger over a guy softly running his fingers thru a womans hair in a moment of lust....
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I find putting my hair in a plait works well. They can still grab it to pull, but means my hair gets less messy
Rough sex is ok, But I work day shifts now, so there is more time in between clients (compared to nights) So I have enough time to fix my hair or make up if it gets messy lol.
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