Hey mate, was the stuff we were discussing when I PM'ed you. Ok, for people who asking here is the short version without any of the details. Context: I have previously had a thing going with Tan for best part of 2 years. It was intermittently great and not so great. She got busier and busier and let me know that she had other 'special' friends.
I got jealous but then had a good hard look at myself and the situation and ended it about 9 months ago. Was a bit of an angry ending on both sides. Over the time I got friendly with most of her staff and her sister. I won't speak to Tan's relationship with her old husband, all I will say is it was rocky. Anyways, for past 9 months I've only been going there infrequently and mostly seeing Hom or Pan either at the house or the shop.
So much for context.
Fast forward to before Xmas last year and I get a message from Tan as I usually do when business is slow as I'm sure most of you do. But of back and forth and arranged to see her at the shop. Last few messages announce she has a new partner. Bit shocked but I congratulate her. Then next few messages are about missing our good times and some kissy emojis. Weird but ok maybe wants a last playtime.
I go to the shop and see Tan is busy, she seems surprised to see me. Tells me to wait 10 mins. There is a fella sitting in front so I sit down. Introduces himself as Tan's new partner and proceeds to tell me they've been together for a while and he is now managing the business. Um, ok?
Tan is ready and I go into the room and it's awkward. They're talking to each through the door and it's not relaxing because Tan seems annoyed. I cut it short to 45 mins and just leave making some excuse.
Over the next 2 weeks I get a bunch of messages from 'Tan' and then 'Pan' where the English used every now and then is a little too good. I have the private numbers of some her staff so I just messaged them and they confirm the new partner has been managing both phones at various times. He's been a bit paranoid about Tan's previous 'friends' so is trying to figure out if anything is still going on I guess?
I got it to stop my writing a lengthy response and concluding that I don't want any part of it. When I heard he was staying in the house with current husband and daughter still there I just thought "Whew! bullet dodged"
I think a lot of guys on here are much more plugged in to the Thai scene here than I am so maybe know more but the feedback I got from her staff was the guy was acting like a bit of a dick to them and customers. They also didn't like the treatment of the old husband and daughter.
Thankfully the messages have stopped now and if I want a massage I just use the private numbers to arrange.
For all I know he is on here so I will just wish them well and hope the situation resolves itself without too much more drama.