Girls how do you let a client down gently?

sunyun

sunyun

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I think you just have to tell him straight up, "Hey, I think you're sweet, but this is a business arrangement, and I never date clients - too many tears involved down the track. if you want to see me again, I'll be here, just make the booking."

Letting him down 'easy' is often the hardest way of being let down - and if he starts getting the wrong message, it is a way to breed stalkers !

You don't want him to go away thinking, 'She really likes me, but was trying to keep to the House rules, so if I wait around outside and catch her on her way home, she wont have to worry about House rules, ......'

There should be no ambiguity in your message, "........ this is a business arrangement, ....... "

Cheers.
 
Kirra Bell

Kirra Bell

Little bad girl
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I use the "I'm a lesbian in my personal life," or "I have too much of an intimate relationship with my vibrators" or my favourite the gold old, "sorry, I don't date when I'm working."
The first two usually stun them to prevent further questioning, try it. ;)
 
SAO26.2

SAO26.2

Wiink. I'll Do the Rest
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Try saying this: We *are* friends, and I'm having the best time ever. Let's keep this great vibe going and don't lets talk about the future. Trying to plan the future bores me, and anyway whatever we plan is guaranteed not to work out just because that's what happens when someone tries to plan. I have so much yet to teach you, Silly.

This will send his mind in so many conflicting directions he will forget about his original question, and you will have regained the initiative.
 
Happy2

Happy2

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SAO26.2 said:
Try saying this: We *are* friends, and I'm having the best time ever. Let's keep this great vibe going and don't lets talk about the future. Trying to plan the future bores me, and anyway whatever we plan is guaranteed not to work out just because that's what happens when someone tries to plan. I have so much yet to teach you, Silly.

This will send his mind in so many conflicting directions he will forget about his original question, and you will have regained the initiative.
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Hes a bloke who is after sex and just had sex probably SAO
Short sentences please His brain is still getting the blood flow back
To much information :)
 
sparky

sparky

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happy2 said:
Hes a bloke who is after sex and just had sex probably SAO
Short sentences please His brain is still getting the blood flow back
To much information :)
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Just gives him hope to keep trying harder
 
Sir Cruiser

Sir Cruiser

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Jaz said:
I tell people that I made a rule for myself when I started in the industry that it was very important for me to maintain a firm distinction/boundary between work and the rest of my life, and I never break my own hard rules, sorry!
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BUGGER ;)
 
B

bushseeker

just tell him .. why would I see you for free when I can make money doIng it?
 
Happy2

Happy2

Legend Member
Kirra Bell said:
I use the "I'm a lesbian in my personal life," or "I have too much of an intimate relationship with my vibrators" or my favourite the gold old, "sorry, I don't date when I'm working."
The first two usually stun them to prevent further questioning, try it. ;)
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But you describe in detail why you are a Lesbian he may well find out he is a lesbian to

 
Farm Boy 2

Farm Boy 2

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Ginger Spice said:
Occasionally when in extended bookings with clients, when we are enjoying our time together I get the "so can we be friends" or "can I be your boyfriend" or " can I see you outside of here" etcetera etcetera

I try to tell them as nicely as I can that I don't see clients outside of work, however they ALWAYS look so damn sad when I reject them. I have a feeling I may be doing it wrong :/

Is there a line I could use? Anyway I can make them leave in a better mood, as I like my clients to leave with a smile on there face, not a frown.

Thanks girls xx
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Just smile sadly tell them you are a bad girl and charge extra to be friends .
 
Ginger Spice

Ginger Spice

Here Comes Trouble
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happy2 said:
So a Friend Experience is going to be dearer than a Girl Friend Experience I take it
Bizarre
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Haha, If it could that would be awesome. Its like, didn't you know you can buy me from friends r'us?? Plus maybe ill talk about all these other guys in my life and how they treat me so damn bad and say "why can't they be more like you" and ALWAYS keep you in the friend zone.

SOUNDS TEMPTING RIGHT?
 
Happy2

Happy2

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Ginger Spice said:
Haha, If it could that would be awesome. Its like, didn't you know you can buy me from friends r'us?? Plus maybe ill talk about all these other guys in my life and how they treat me so damn bad and say "why can't they be more like you" and ALWAYS keep you in the friend zone.

SOUNDS TEMPTING RIGHT?
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Depending on one thing
Can you talk cricket and Football over a few freezing cold beers?
 
Ginger Spice

Ginger Spice

Here Comes Trouble
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Alice of Wonderland said:
Guy are just looking for free sex, be a clear as possible "no way!" and tell them if they really want to see you again they will come in and book.
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Not always, Ive had clients who don't even have sex in the booking ask me this. They sometimes extend for another hour just to talk or convince me to change my mind lol
 
Sophie Lee

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