Girls how do you let a client down gently?

Ginger Spice

Ginger Spice

Here Comes Trouble
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Occasionally when in extended bookings with clients, when we are enjoying our time together I get the "so can we be friends" or "can I be your boyfriend" or " can I see you outside of here" etcetera etcetera

I try to tell them as nicely as I can that I don't see clients outside of work, however they ALWAYS look so damn sad when I reject them. I have a feeling I may be doing it wrong :/

Is there a line I could use? Anyway I can make them leave in a better mood, as I like my clients to leave with a smile on there face, not a frown.

Thanks girls xx
 
B

bushseeker

well I find it just freaking sad they would ask.
I learned a long time ago women only see you for what im offering them.
They sure as heck wont hang out with me for any other reason.
where the hell these dufus alternate reality is where it works any other way is beyond me.
the only ladys that dont contact me for money for sex are the ones that want me to get them money for sex.
no one gets in touch to just "catch up"
life is a financial transaction for them.
 
Smoggy

Smoggy

Foundation Member
Due to the intimate nature of the service its easy for some clients to forget that it is a service and a business transaction not the start of a relationship. They just have to be told straight and to the point as bushseeker has written.
I have visited inhouse establishments a few times and when I have picked a girl I feel really bad at rejecting the others but its a service and I guess they get used to it.
On the flip side it is a service and in that respect the girls have an obligation to provide that service within the boundaries agreed prior to the start of the service.
 
nextplease69

nextplease69

Silicone parts are made for toys.
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Ginger Spice said:
Like just say no?

They will usually ask why.
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I would put my hands on my hips and assume a you've been a naughty boy look on your face, then firmly but not angrily say "I don't see clients outside of work". Quirk an eyebrow at them and walk away to let them know the conversation is over.
He'll feel stupid, but he doesn't have to endure you seeing that and by walking away to do something you don't have to see the puppy dog eyes routine.
 
Happy2

Happy2

Legend Member
Ginger Spice said:
Occasionally when in extended bookings with clients, when we are enjoying our time together I get the "so can we be friends" or "can I be your boyfriend" or " can I see you outside of here" etcetera etcetera

I try to tell them as nicely as I can that I don't see clients outside of work, however they ALWAYS look so damn sad when I reject them. I have a feeling I may be doing it wrong :/

Is there a line I could use? Anyway I can make them leave in a better mood, as I like my clients to leave with a smile on there face, not a frown.

Thanks girls xx
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While I'm working I dont date anybody Sorry
If I wasnt working you would be right up there

Well It works with my girls All 500 0f them
Baabara
Baabette
Baarnerdette... All of em
 
homer

homer

Doh!
Legend Member
"so can we be friends" - yes we can, only when you cum vi$it.

"can I be your boyfriend" - For this, you can lay down some cold hard facts:

A. I won't stop working because of you.
B. You have to cope with the fact that I will hump at least 2 clients a day. More on a good day.
C. Don't expect CVC from me, ie. Cook, Vaccum and Clean. No time for them.
D. Being your GF doesn't mean that Sex is on the menu all of the time since I can get them from work.

"can I see you outside of here" - Yes you can, walk the client outside the door and tell them it's done. Then wave goodbye politely.
 
B

bushseeker

nextplease69 said:

Ha, so I'm not the only one.
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huh? this I dont get.
years of women laughing at the idea you might dare ask them out.... id gladly pay for the priveledge of putting the boot on the other foot.
comments like that just go to show no matter what is written men have far more of a conscience and empathy than women do
 
chibi

chibi

Diamond Member
You can put on a sad puppy-dog eyes look on your face, and then give him the official line:
"I'm not allowed to see clients out of work, it's company policy"
Using that look implies, "Sorry hon, it's out of my control" and also "if only I could see you," when you say it. Of course, you wouldn't actually say that. :shy:
 
chibi

chibi

Diamond Member
bushseeker said:
no chibi
that implies you would if you could.... and might not deter them
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Yeah I know mate, if I had my way, I'd just tell her to flat out say "no," but she is trying to let them off lightly.

As long as she doesn't actually say anything like "if I only I could" and just makes a saddish face, the punter can't turn around and say "But you said this!" etc etc...
 
Happy2

Happy2

Legend Member
sparky said:
Just say your BF or GF wouldn't appreciate that
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But if he is seen by Ginger as a sensitive soul He may be the sort who goes into a funk thinking he just F***ed another mans/ladies woman
Not withstanding he has walked into LTs as a customer originally
 
sparky

sparky

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happy2 said:
But if he is seen by Ginger as a sensitive soul He may be the sort who goes into a funk thinking he just F***ed another mans/ladies woman
Not withstanding he has walked into LTs as a customer originally
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If he cant handle that he shouldn't have gone there in the 1st place , and if he's like a lot of customers he already has his own GF
 
Jaz

Jaz

European traveller extraordinaire!
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I tell people that I made a rule for myself when I started in the industry that it was very important for me to maintain a firm distinction/boundary between work and the rest of my life, and I never break my own hard rules, sorry!
 
B

bushseeker

orr you could tell him the truth.
yes I can see you and marry you and have your kids......
but thats going to end up costing you a crapload more than just seeing a working lady
after I trade you in for a younger model . and take your kids your house your super. most of your income .... and thats if you get off lucky.....
so whats the better deal?
 
Ginger Spice

Ginger Spice

Here Comes Trouble
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Jaz said:
I tell people that I made a rule for myself when I started in the industry that it was very important for me to maintain a firm distinction/boundary between work and the rest of my life, and I never break my own hard rules, sorry!
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I love this one.
 
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