Punk Zebra
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No, you are right, pure lust wins out every time
I love this way of handling the booking. I hate exchanging money with regular clients that I trust. I would rather it seem like a fun catch up for everyone.I have a deal with the young lady I see privately... we don't discuss the money at all... she set out the options and $$$ at the start of our arrangement... when we organise to visit I just tell her the length of time. then we never discuss the money again..
I leave it for her in an envelope on the couch, she doesn't take it when I'm around.. it just vanishes at some stage during the evening and that's it...
it works for us and I get to feel that GFE feeling for that time because I haven't thought about the $$ after it goes in the envelope.. and we do couple things.. we go for dinner, hold hands.. PDA is fine.. its like an awesome evening with someone special...
Is sex more fulfilling when you have an emotional connection ?
Oh dear........did I kill the discussion..........
Thank god you said that. Yes I % 100 agree!OK.....let's throw a cat among the pigeons..........."is sex better with a lot of feeling?".......not necessarily. If the chemistry is right and you find somebody extremely hot for a limited time......and you both know there won't be any strings attached etc........honestly I had the best sex in those situations. No questions after, no worries, just pure lust. I don't need an emotional connection to have great sex. I think emotional connection can complicate and limit great sex.
Intimacy is a different question. For me intimacy is connected to feeling.........and the more you feel for the person the better the intimacy.
To me the best sex has not been the pron star multiple positioned acrobatic mind blowing stunts.
Its just deep connection and a mutual wanting. Just passionate with embraces before during and after.
Even I fail to justify what I am trying to describe with words. ....
Great minds think alike............Thank god you said that. Yes I % 100 agree!
Connection is awesome it produces the greatest results. Though sometimes switching off from the connection is not easy. This is where I find the job becomes conflicting.
Very true........usually I do solve the situation with not reacting on an impulse. Let's not forget that as much as our part is a fantasy....the client we believe we have connected with is very likely a fantasy as well....right for the time and the moment.........but later on??????? I always avoided a second look outside work for a lunch or a dinner and maybe a relationship of some kind. It will only create complications. No thank you! I rather cherish the memory of a beautiful and fulfilling booking.Connection is awesome it produces the greatest results. Though sometimes switching off from the connection is not easy. This is where I find the job becomes conflicting.
I could not agree more Rochelle things could get pretty awkward outside the room.Very true........usually I do solve the situation with not reacting on an impulse. Let's not forget that as much as our part is a fantasy....the client we believe we have connected with is very likely a fantasy as well....right for the time and the moment.........but later on??????? I always avoided a second look outside work for a lunch or a dinner and maybe a relationship of some kind. It will only create complications. No thank you! I rather cherish the memory of a beautiful and fulfilling booking.
I think two people being sexually and emotionally satisfied long term in a relationship is virtually unheard of, hence why the industry exists.Sex and emotions may the two never meet unless you are married.
Sure you can have a connection with sparks with a WL and have a fantastic incredible time.
However after your time together it is best to put the memories and the feelings away and walk out that door a happy puppy.
Satisfying ones sex drive is easy but satisfying two peoples emotions so both are happy is in the lap of the Gods.
I think two people being sexually and emotionally satisfied long term in a relationship is vertically unheard of, hence why the industry exists.
Yes that's exactly what I'm saying. AhahahaAre you saying the industry is horizontal?
Please explain...............I guess punters walk sideways after their sessions. lol...
Please explain...............
and finally..............
..............because they are punters???????????
.....so when did you have your last "shagedelic"??????????Yes they are, they've all been shagedelic baby...