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Do You Feel Anxious During Sex? What do you do to feel better?

Anna

Anna

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Sex is supposed to be fun, liberating, pleasurable. It shouldn’t feel like auditions for a TV
talent show; complete with judges holding up scorecards and telling you whether you’ve got
the “XXX factor!” However, a lot of men or women do feel they need to perform well in bed, and the
anxiety gets in the way of the experience.

Have you been under a lot of stress lately? General anxiety — about work, family troubles,
body image, or your own self-esteem — and the massive amounts of stress hormones
flooding your body can affect your sex drive and testosterone levels, your ability to “let go” in
the bedroom. Sex feels like yet another area where you have to prove yourself.

Let's Talk and see if we could solve a problem here! What
 
I a still waiting for you lovely peeps to share your insights on this! Is this topic too boring for an interaction?😔😔
 
Evaluating myself I can only share that if I'm anxious/stressed a massage and/or sex is a medium to relieve.

I don't remember ever feeling performance anxiety leading into or during sex.

I was really under a lot of stress recently so thought a threesome might be the boost I needed, it ended up being a foursome with three gorgeous girls.

Result....when leaving I could have been floated out on a kite string, so relaxed.
 
Anna said:
Sex is supposed to be fun, liberating, pleasurable. It shouldn’t feel like auditions for a TV
talent show; complete with judges holding up scorecards and telling you whether you’ve got
the “XXX factor!” However, a lot of men or women do feel they need to perform well in bed, and the
anxiety gets in the way of the experience.

Have you been under a lot of stress lately? General anxiety — about work, family troubles,
body image, or your own self-esteem — and the massive amounts of stress hormones
flooding your body can affect your sex drive and testosterone levels, your ability to “let go” in
the bedroom. Sex feels like yet another area where you have to prove yourself.

Let's Talk and see if we could solve a problem here! What
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No, I don't feel anxious during sex! Instead, I focus on enjoying the moment and connecting with my partner.
 

Do You Feel Anxious During Sex?​


Nope, because her hubby is a submariner in the Navy and on deployment for 6 months....

What do you do to feel better?​


Put down his picture on her bedside table...

:excited: :excited:
 
Wish I could have someone to play with, so think now, that its been so long with a female I'd be shit scared!! I'd blow my load before even making her feel comfortable or relaxed! With casual guys, its seems so easy and fuck it doesnt matter if one of us blows early, the other will either wank or have a nice HJ.
 
@Strat as a precaution when I get a wax I use Edge Gel. Do you think something like this would help lessen sensitivity to prevent premature ejaculation? Available at supermarkets or Chemist Warehouse. @Obbie advised me of it.
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Strat said:
Wish I could have someone to play with, so think now, that its been so long with a female I'd be shit scared!! I'd blow my load before even making her feel comfortable or relaxed! With casual guys, its seems so easy and fuck it doesnt matter if one of us blows early, the other will either wank or have a nice HJ.
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I understand your concern. Have you thought of practising either by masturbating or with toys to learn how to delay cum. Or you could try the gel that WildBrumby suggested. Again practise with it before trying with a girl. With all products try out what works and how much. I heard a little of that gel is powerful but it might be vary for you. Hope this comes across helpful.
And I agree with Ozwarlock not many will volunteer about this subject.
Negative comments don't help.
 
@Smythie yes just a drop of the gel is sufficient for me, follow instructions.

@Strat maybe try and initial booking to get back into the saddle but be easy on yourself as it is a start.

Great username by the way, I used to own a Fender Strat.
 
WildBrumby said:
@Smythie yes just a drop of the gel is sufficient for me, follow instructions.

@Strat maybe try and initial booking to get back into the saddle but be easy on yourself as it is a start.

Great username by the way, I used to own a Fender Strat.
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Thanks WB, it was a great guitar, sadly I was a shit player!! But its gone to a good home and getting played a lot by serious musicians. Still not sure how to go about it, but I'll look out for the gel and see if it helps!
 
Strat said:
Thanks WB, it was a great guitar, sadly I was a shit player!! But its gone to a good home and getting played a lot by serious musicians. Still not sure how to go about it, but I'll look out for the gel and see if it helps!
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Coles sell it or chemist warehouses
 
@Obbie thanks for the reply, looking further into Ragging Bull it isn't something I would need at the moment. The Edge Gel I only use if getting a wax which appears to help.
 
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