Im going to puke.
There were enough wanna be doms out there before but now its just intolerable. As soon as a see any hint of a notion in a persons profile name or written profile about 50 SOBS I just go meh NEXT.
Ok so not a large percentage of the population understand what BDSM is all about. They just see something different and say "OhThats a bit naughty" and turns them on a bit. Much akin to a guy or girl thinking a bit of same sex fun looks a bit naughty and turns them on. The majority of people fall back to their base values. But!
Your base value does not equate to my base value.
Some people are born with kink and fetish. Just as some people are born (for simplicity Ill say) gay or straight.both have equally valid reasons for thinking their way of life is how normal people should live.
What people may think as extreme kink or fetish to others born with it is like giving your hubby a quick bj cause your glad to see him.
Why do I puke ???
I know a Dom/Domme when I meet one. You have a better chance with me if you pretend to be Willy Wonka.
Why?
Cause your hands have a better chance of massaging melted chocolate over my body than what they do spanking my bum?
I need chocolate now subby boy