An impossible love affair

[Rochelle]

Nothing is more tragic when 2 people are perfect together but factors such as circumstances and interference by other people keeping them apart.

I don't believe that two people can be perfect together. I believe people can be more or less compatible and then it does depend to a certain extend on the circumstances if they get a change to make something out of their compatibility.

 

[asianguy77]

Two people can be destined to meet, but circumstances and other external factors can determine the fate of whether they end up together..

 

[Master Yoda]

I don't believe that two people can be perfect together. I believe people can be more or less compatible and then it does depend to a certain extend on the circumstances if they get a change to make something out of their compatibility.

Words of wisdom. Try telling that to the person I am trying to get this message through to lol.

 

[homer]

I don't believe that two people can be perfect together. I believe people can be more or less compatible and then it does depend to a certain extend on the circumstances if they get a change to make something out of their compatibility.

Agreed. Perfection is in the hands of the being not of this Earth. As long as your of flesh and blood, perfection doesn't come upon you.

 

[DitaTempest1]

Oh yes! I certainly have been there... Ha! funny! I read this post and thought how I would have so much to say - I could tell the whole story... But, now I just feel overwhelmingly sad and more than just a bit nostalgic. I will say this, though: they were and will always remain for me, many sweet, beautiful frozen moments in time... And I would so much rather have five minutes of wonderful rather than a lifetime of nothing special...

 

[Miss Chloe]

Yes, I felt it almost straight away. This unusually strong connection. Three years and two relationships later; we finally had a chance to do something about it. Now after all the pleasure and pain we have a different sort of relationship. Like a secret friendship. Bittersweet.

But even though we both knew from the beginning it would never work out, we did it anyway and now I have some truly beautiful memories from our time together.

I would do it again, regardless of how it turns out.

 

[Thatguy]

the problem is when in a situation like this, as I currently am, and circumstances are just keeping you apart... at what point do you decide to part ways completely.. or do you try to keep some degree of contact, even if it is hurting you both badly ...

and if you do let them go.. how do you do it and move on knowing that the perfect person has just walked out of your life.. possibly forever..

 

[johnlou]

there is no rule of thumb , you do what you need ti do and when

 

[SAO26.2]

Enjoy the process and don't get so focused on the outcome. Remember this is supposed to be fun.

 

[Trigger]

Yeh happened to me about 10 years ago now. I was on top of the world and then she threw me away like yesterday's garbage. Still think about her every single day but it doesn't hurt anymore. It happened just before the Movie Alex & Emma came out and two quotes from that film remind me of how much a fool I was because I pretty much knew from the start it wasn't going to last and I was going to get hurt..

Quote one:

"There are some things that are nothing more than what they are, they're not meant to last. They just take their place in your heart and make you a little smarter the next time."

Haven't had the opportunity to be a little smarter the next time yet!

Quote two:

"I can't figure out what's worse, having to know every single detail of your desperate love for some other woman, or having to know that you obviously didn't even come close to feeling the same way about me."

She dumped me for another guy she was seeing before we hooked up.

 

[Punk Zebra]

Yep, instant karma, made a I mistake, she believed her friend of almost 20 years & cut me off

 

[Dallas]

Have you ever fallen in love, or had an intense connection with someone, instantly , but know that it will never be able to work due to both your circumstances? ie; both have partners , or live in different cities/countries

Yes many times. The impossible circumstances were she was in a relationship, or she was single and had come out or a bad relationship and didn't want another or she was a working lady. Everyone I've met that I've fell in love with or at least felt an amazing connection with in the last two years fitted into one of those categories.

 

[Master Yoda]

Sigh......dunno where to start so I'm not going to......

 

[Faith Moana]

lol @ that guy cheers!