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When and how did you lose your virginity?

When did you lose your virginity?

  • Before I was 16

    Votes: 3 18.8%

  • At 16 years old

    Votes: 2 12.5%

  • At 17 years old

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • At 18 years old

    Votes: 4 25.0%

  • At 19 years old

    Votes: 3 18.8%

  • At 20 years old

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • After I was 20

    Votes: 4 25.0%
  • Total voters
    16
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KateandGrae

Hi everyone

This is a question I'm very curious about which you can't really ask in mixed company. :)

So... me first, I lost mine at 19 to someone I was head over heels with, because it seemed like the next thing to do.

Kate
 
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~Viccy~

I meet my husband on a friday night ... kissed him on saturday night and he moved in on sunday and sunday night I was no longer a virgin .. I was 3 weeks off being 18 .. That was Feb '79 and we are still married to this day ...
 
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Vyxxxn

I lost mine @ 15, for pretty much the same reasons as yourself....nuffin spectacular... :angel1:
 
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Vyxxxn

~Viccy~ said:
I meet my husband on a friday night ... kissed him on saturday night and he moved in on sunday and sunday night I was no longer a virgin .. I was 3 weeks off being 18 .. That was Feb '79 and we are still married to this day ...
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That is so friggin kool...way to go! Love....*sigh* ;)
 
waxenboy

waxenboy

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lost it

I lost my virginty when i was 18 at a brothel in adielade.We went there for my sister,s wedding in 1987 it was my birthday my future brother in law took myself and my brother out to crazy hoarse the strip joint then onto the casino i was so drunk that i got blueballs out of it then never had sex again for about five yrs. :hello:
 
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Dark Love

bugger! cause I hate him sooooooooooooooooooooo much!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
My X and I was 17, bastard. Then I found my beautiful Husband had fantastic sex with him and lived happily ever after. Only ever had 2 sex partners.
 
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cutensexy

i havent yet!!!!!!! lol

15-16 from memory, older guy in his 20's uummaah! mullaloo beach, and I HATED EVERY MINUTE!!!!!!
swore i would never do it again!!!!!!
 
MovesInSilence

MovesInSilence

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poll lied

umm i clicked an honest answer ..and it said i was the only one :eek:

ok so i admit .. i was 28 ... she was the first ...ever ... a simple kiss from her made my knee's go weak, we went while of kiss an fondle but never actual one on top of the other sex .. hehe
then one day we decided to go for it an umm .. well .. being who i am and a virgin at the time, most people would of said this will tell if your meant to be male or not .. she tried oral on me and ummm all i could do was wonder what i should be doing, stare at the ceiling ?
Needless to say that didn't do anything for me.
Then off to the bedroom.... 90 minutes later it had me thinking all this effort and when is it meant to pay off ? ... ok so the feeling of intimacy was nice, the fact i was not a female sucked :)
 
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KateandGrae

I'm glad you could be honest MIS... I'd like to think everyone can be on here. Keep the answers coming, I'm really interested at the variety of life!
 
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perthminx

I was 14. I was dating an older guy who said we should break up coz i was in love with his friend.... and I wasnt. So I went to this guys house to talk to him and he confessed his love for me and we had sex. He was only 14 too and a virgin too. It was nothing special. I just remember laying there looking at the ceiling! Anyways when we were done he had to get on a flight to the UK and America! He wrote me from overseas about his love for me and I wrote back that it was a mistake and we didnt speak again until I ran into him one day a few years later in Fremantle. He is a lovely guy and there are no bad feelings between us....

I have slept with 11 guys in my 9 years as a sexual being.... not too shabby. Always keen to improve my technique though :p
 
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spice-me

I was 18 and mor einterested in books and bikes...silly me.:D

She was a 27~28 yr old married woman I use to babysit for. One night she came back early and left hubbie at a party, and pop... I was no longer a virgina and her sweat-pet for three years...:)
how many, bugger to old to remember and old enuff to know it means squat....:):)

Spice-Me
 
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dockerjim

when I was 19, just before xmas at a party I was having at mum & dads, she made it pretty obvious wat she wanted, so we went up the back behind the pool and we did it twice, saw her once more after that. :) :) :)
 
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Cameron2

It looks like we are together in the over +20s section Movesinsilence.
I was 21.
It was Hay st Kalgoorlie.
It was not a very nice experience.
 
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honeyblonde

my birthday

I was 18 and going out with a very rich kid. He was a virgin. he threw me a toga pool party and I cam wrapped up in some old white sheet from home and my best friend came as cleo fucking patra. she seduced my boyfriend on the bathroom floor and I walked in on them. shock horror

his younger brother david was behind me and said honey let me drive you home your upset. he went via the beach and we got bogged. it was pitch black out in the darwin bush. about half dozen aboriginal men came out of the darkness and pushed us out of the sand.
one of the elders came up to me and said, girl go home do not stay with this boy.

I ingnored him
the boy had his way with me and i yelled but we were in the middle of the bush. he put his hand over my mouth, god knows why no one could hear me.
It hurt like hell and I thought it was a broom handle he was shoving into me.

I had sex with him a few more times after that as he said he would tell the everyone in the school I was a total slut( dam how silly we are at that age that we worry what outhers think). I was a great fuck I lay there looking up at the sky and thinking this is the worst thing to do and how come people rave about it.

I have two teenagers and believe me I tell them girls go with the boy that gives you pleasure without having to stick his cock in you and that way you will be ready for the big event but dont expect fireworks.

honeyblonde
 
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Mary Anne PA

Caveman

With a sabre tooth tigress , 2000years BC. Well it sure feels that long ago.
 
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KateandGrae

hey caveman i didn't know people were still living in caves in 2000BC! hope the tigress didn't do any permanent damage :)
 
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Mary Anne PA

Caveman

I tell ya I still live in a cave , yeah and the damage was permanent I can string beads through it.Perhaps I have some freudian misconception of where I should be living. It never harmed some of my mates Fred and Wilma, Barny and Betty great cave dwellers.
 
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spice-me

lol.... caveman...know just where you coming from...

my wife says I need to have cave-time at least once a day and off she flies to venus.....

but hey nothing like the feel of fur rug under the wench.....and the flicker of a naked flame on the wall off her shinny skin...:D

Spice-Me

( last of the Great Blue Cavemen )
 
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Mary Anne PA

caveman

Spice me agreed , we are a dying breed to many knew aged dudes. What ever happened to hunting ,fishing and subservient women.Well I am not really that bad but really I think I know where your at.Hope I dont get to many backs up.
 
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melly bear

but don't you need backs up if you want us on our hands and knees???? :) :) :)
 
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Dannysor

In a carpark at the age of 17 (both of us) overlooking Edinburgh. Romantic, cozy, special and one big disaster. Spent too much time trying not to hurt her (had been reading a book about breaking the hymen - bad move) Her comment was "my mothers got five kids, she must actually enjoy it""

I might still think that I m a teenager but I a
I'm glad I'm not.

We met up again sixteen years later - totally different story.
 
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strongbeau4u

Happened for me at the age of 18 at a party with some friends from work.

Was very drunk (and a lil stoned) but managed to talk to a cute lil brunette, she sat on my knee , hormones went into overdrive and I told her I wanted to make love.

Off to the bedroom we go,lights are turned off and we fumble around getting undressed (well,I fumbled lol).
She lays down on the bed,I lay down sort of around her feet (contemplated going the 'lickedy split' ,didn't feel right so aborted that idea. We start to kiss a lil then I go for the honey pot.
Wasn't going well as the lil soldier was only 'semi' up to the task (room was spinning badly,body was very numb by this stage) so she climbs on top and I start thrusting for mah dear life.
She is enjoying herself and actually says 'you sure you have never done this before' (upon hearing this my ego starts to rival anthony mundines,heh).
Not long after this she comes on my still semi manhood.I'm elated at just how good the sensation feels having her juices flow all over my cock.Things go worse from here on in though as I keep thrusting but mah lil soldier is seriously thinking about going AWOL.
Minutes later tha lil soldier has deserted camp and that brings proceedings to a rather unclimactic halt.

We leave the room,I get a few knowing smirks of approval from my mates
and I'm jus perplexed as to what the heck happened lol.

The joys of teenhood ;)
 
sioxie

sioxie

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Most of the girls at my school lost their virginity at 13. Alot were pregnant by 14. My best friend had had 3 children by the time she was 16........Teen pregnancies abounded at our school. I think we had one of the highest rates of teen pregnancies in NSW.......what did this have to do with me losing my virginity?

Well all this frightened the hell out a me......seemed that everyone that had sex got pregnant and boy did i so not want that to happen to me.....so it was a kiss and a bit of light fondling till i was 16............

........then the only reason i did it was because my remaining girlfriends who hadnt lost their virginity of which there was 4 ( the rest had long since dropped out of school) decided that we would make a pact to all lose our virginity by the age of 16. We were all petrified of getting to 16 and still being virgins lol.........

........so one by one as each of our birthdays approached we had to find a guy and " do the deed' whether we wanted to or not so as not to break the bonds of sisterhood........

So the nite before my birthday it was my turn so they all waited till i rang up this guy i had been keen on at school and asked if he wanted to go out. He was older and had a really kewl holden monaro which made him one of the hottest guys at school ( also because he was tall blonde , blue eyed and in a punk band ) so i was rather pleased with myself when he said he would take me up to the nepean river for a drive.........

So when he showed up all my girlfriends were across the road waiting and hiding in the bushes........but i will b damned he shows up in his dads mini........monaro was off the road so off we go up to the river and he get there and says lets get in the back.......i mean has anyone ever been in the back of a mini???????? So we get in he sticks his hand down my jeans gave a quick feel then gets a condom on....well when he put his cock in it was excrutiating for me no lube no foreplay...... i was totally in shock!

NOT WHAT I EXPECTED AT ALL i screamed he came instantly and it was all over in less than five minutes flat..........we got dressed and he took me home and all i can remember thinking was was that it?????

Went out with him a few times after that but we never attempted sex and 2 years later he acknowledged to everyone that he was gay. Everyone jokingly said that i had put him off sex with a girl for ever by screaming......that i will never know............
 
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westie

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my first. well it was when i was 18 i felt i needed to experanice it as i felt all me mates had done it. i was in perth and went in to janurarys. the girl was nice and i had a fun time.

that was also the best as i done private girls and they all were fat (yuk) i am the kind of person that if i am commited i do it so it dont hurt there feelings. all the private times i was never rock hard and i know y.

they were not good lookers
 
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Mary Anne PA

caveman

Yes to answer the question . I was deep deep in the jungle maybe 15-16 stalked this absolute virginal cavewomen , for at least 3 days when she was not looking in fact she was drinking from a river I pounced like a tiger. Had my way and then dragged her by her hair about 4 clicks to my cave. Well that was the way it was done in those days.
 
sioxie

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Ive just finished watchin "Clan of the cave bear" and thats nearly virtually scene for scene what happened to daryl hannah.......lol
 
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KateandGrae

Clan of the Cave Bear

Have you read the books Siox? I haven't seen the movie but I'm sure it can't contain anything like the detail and beauty in the books. :)
 
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{slavegirl}

i was 17..it was with my childhood sweetheat..
he and i had done the old little school kids thing and began going out with one another in Grade 3 (if it can even be classed as going out with someone) you know the old so n so wants to know if you will go round with him routine...lol (kidda cute)..
we were more like best friends, he was the class clown and me well i was just trouble (always into mischief, didn't want to learn.) the perfect couple..lol
we dated all through high school and never had there been anything more between us than a kiss on the cheek in Grade 7 (my first kiss)
i guess my tale of losing my virginity isn't a horror story..it was something that finally happened after all those years, can't say it was what i expected , total nervousness after all those platonic years the mind was more worried if the relationship would fizzle out after sex..
i have a living reminder of losing my virginity..my 17 year old daughter
the relationship did end when my daughter was 8 weeks old
 
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