How long should it last?

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perthminx

Just curious as to how long people want their sexual experiences to last (foreplay not included otherwise we'd all pick hours and hours!!).
 
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BigMike

Less than 5 minutes you have to be joking ! Even by definition of a quick last longer than that
10-30 Nice fun fits in well with half time at the footy match
30-60 Ok now every one will at least fave a bit of fun.
Over an hour OK we are including the post event cuddles here arnt we
Hours and Hours Ok now we have to be talking about Duracell Barreries Over two hours just seems a little unreal well if there is a guy involved it is !


Cheers
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minimel

guess it depends on if you are having a 'quickie'.... or in a public place (which also would be a quickie, depending on where you are )
 
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BigMike

there is a fair point as well A quickie in public would probably be very quick indeed.

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milko

nothing can beat a quickie :love76: particularly with that added risk of getting caught tend to be so much more passionate tho dont get me wrong theres definately a time for long and slow...just not as ofter ;)
 

waxenboy

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how long should it last

Depends on you the person sometimes i last for a hour and other times 15minutes depends on how you feel.
 

Senile

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I'm pretty much easy. Although, I know a guy was going down on me for about an hour the other weekend and after ALMOST getting there....I just loosened up and was waiting for him to come back up to me so I could just fuck his brains out.

But then we had a half hour thing out the front....

ahaha I find quickies are only quick for the men.....It takes me a good hour to get anywhere...
 
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lickedysplit

There cant be a time limit for these things....It is in the moment.. the best sex ive had has been quick and passionate..sometimes long sex gets nauseas...Men sometimes think its expected...sometimes foreplay should be afterplay..sometimes foreplay is time waisting, just give it too me baby!!!!
 
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2dogs

how quick

myself ithink that 30mins to an hour the norm,but cyber sex can go all night love getting hot so its all night for me lol
 
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Vyxxxn

As long as it takes *wink*....Seriously though a knee trembler/quickie is always an adrenaline rush, no matter where it may be....but to have a long steamy session and walk away (well not) with jelly legs breathless and unable to stop shaking is way I like...I like it to be a full body experience...mind body & soul, when I give myself to a partner it has to be all of me. :happy4:
 
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Jerome

I agree with Lickedysplit. Let there be no rules...it's in the moment. If both people are sensitive enough to the moment then something else (other than our heads) leads the way.
 
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Jerome

I also like what Vyxxxn has to say. But I have to admit (although I enjoy getting a woman there) I have'nt yet learned how to get to the "full body" experience.
D'oh!
 
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lucinda

Let's go

Senile said:
I'm pretty much easy. Although, I know a guy was going down on me for about an hour the other weekend and after ALMOST getting there....I just loosened up and was waiting for him to come back up to me so I could just fuck his brains out.

But then we had a half hour thing out the front....

ahaha I find quickies are only quick for the men.....It takes me a good hour to get anywhere...
The longer with a hot man . All that I can take and go to a place I have not been before. My pussy lion needs to know.
 
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hotbitch99

There cant be a time limit for these things....It is in the moment.. the best sex ive had has been quick and passionate..sometimes long sex gets nauseas...Men sometimes think its expected...sometimes foreplay should be afterplay..sometimes foreplay is time waisting, just give it too me baby!!!!

I agree a quick hard f**k is alway good
 
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Lucky10

My ex, (a chronic pot smoker), used to take hours to cum and he could rarely cum during sex. It got tedious and back breaking trying to get him to cum. We couldn't ever have quickies because it just didn't work, and toward the demise of our relationship, we rarely had sex because it became too much effort (in every literal sense of the term). In the early days it was great, but in the long run constantly having sex marathons that last 2 or 3 hours wasn't easy for me to maintain, particularly as he was not a very generous lover.

I don't know if his inability to cum was because I was just crap at sex or if the pot affected his libido. Oh and I should add, that my ex said that he has never been able to cum during sex and that no other gf of his has ever been able to make him cum orally or manually.

Oh how'd I love to have a quickie one day!
 
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CasinoKing

I've never been able to go for 2 hours. At best I've maybe done 40, maybe 45 minutes but that's with a hell of a lot of swapping the play and not just going hammer and tongs. I like to have it slowly worked out of me to be honest. 2 hours! jesus christ, I'd faint. I can go twice in two hours but one session would have to be a bloody monumental effort. I've even gone twice within 1 minute of each other and that was a bit different and unexpected, didn't know I had it in me.
 
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Fergie

I have gone for 2 hours once - i was 20 (24 now). But like CasinoKing, there was a lot of mixing it up - head, fingers, kissing, different positions - had to refill the water jug twice as well.

but that's when i was a bit fitter and I had my first orgasm that night. Since then though 30 mins is good but let's all be honest - Nothin beats a quickie. For me though, a rough quickie is always the best kind.O0
 
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willMD

Never actually times the longest, but i think 40 minutes is a good average time to go for. Eating a meal, it is good to take your time and enjoy it, but taking longer isn't always better.
 
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iamspecial

Where do you find guys the time? :)
We have to fit these things in after little people are tucked away, then allow a buffer for the "Im thirsty"/ need to use the bathroom phase... by now there is little chance of a 1-2hour session when you have to be up for work at 6. ;)
 
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jessejames

Variety is the spice of life. 2 quickies today, a four hour cum five times session tomorrow.a kiss on the cheek one day and a quick pussy rub the next.Its all good
 
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iamspecial

I suppose watching the clock would be a problem in some encounters, nothing sex about being told to 'hurry up'
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Fergie

Well Casino King - I just gave you an hour and a half - and you came twice. I am very please with myself right now:icon_blow:icon_blow

I still have a tickle in the back of my throat....
 
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Miranda Fox

As long as it takes ?
So long as the Punter is happy, then I am happy.
I love to see a man smile.
:)
 
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CasinoKing

helllo.

I love the redhead matches logo. Fergie blowed me like a vacuum cleaner. Mmmmmmm. She loves my sweet pre-cum. wo taps mean "I need air". "One tap man fuck me harder in the face".

Just joking, she is afraid that you might all think she is a devil. Thruth be told and nowithstanding a better offer, she is a devil.

Bitch.

Slapper.

Mole.:3some:
 
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ohyeah27

intercourse should last for 1 to 3 hours depending on the fitness of the couple. This would be after a few hours of foreplay and repeated through out the night/day
 
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adventurous annie

oh yeah - sounds like you have been reading up on this? Gee you seem familiar... do i know you?
 
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CasinoKing

Maybe you do, maybe you don't. Just how adventurous are you? Annie sounds like a pretty name
 
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