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Wine me, dine me, sixty-nine me.Do u really like 69

Leah-Louisa

Leah-Louisa

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Personally, I can't stand that position for a couple of reasons and I'll explain. firstly let's be honest it's not the most flattering angle to view someone (anyone) from, and unless you've spent as much time grooming the downstairs area with wax, bleach, and moisturizer (and makeup for the porn stars) as most women spend on their faces there's always that question in the back of your mind. Is everything tidy down there? I thoroughly enjoy my part of the exercise but as a result, his eyes are rolling back in his head and completely incapable of anything more than a cursory pat for me. so why am I in a position that I find less than exciting? I completely understand that men are visual creatures but surely what I'm doing is enough to get you there. If you absolutely NEEEED the visual, I'll put on some porn for you!!! I promise it will be better for both of us. What are your thoughts on this? Can you enlighten me to another way of thinking or explain this from an angle I'm not seeing?
 
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Annoyance

Leah-louisa said:
Can you enlighten me to another way of thinking or explain this from an angle I'm not seeing?
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  1. Getting a Bj is great as a visual but some ppl can't stand being the only one on the receiving end and unable to touch or pleasure you in someway
  2. Giving Mutual pleasure adds connection between 2 ppl, plus if he's doing a good job the girl on the other side might improve her bj skill too.
  3. Believe it or not us men do luv looking at a females groin it the end goal the holy grail. Ever hear the song stair way to heaven? On a female's body it's from the ankles up to your groin. Also another reason why looking up skirts are so popular
  4. We like a women that trims herself as do we ourselves in turn, it shows that you care about your groin area and gives clear view on areas you want pleasure down there. Ever licked someones hair or a hairy individual? Its not really pleasant after a while and talk about getting hair stuck in your teeth or mouth.
  5. Getting a Bj while watching porn? That's like saying your not really there just an extra mouth to get him off, that it. He's fantasying about the women on TV not you infront of him. If that's the case there'll be a lot of blokes lining up to your door for a "Blow and go" only. Your putting yourself outta the picture.
If your a women that just wants to kiss, bj, add lube then sex then sure keep what your doing, and tell him your not comfortable receiving oral down there just sex. Same with shaving your body hairs, make up and dressing up, why do it if it's such a pain? Why? Cause ppl out in the world that appreciates what you do to yourself but never tells you about it.
 
Slugger1

Slugger1

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I think it is great foreplay where both of you are pleasuring the other at the same time. I personally love it but I am also ok with DATY if the lady does not like 69. Either way looking and licking at a perfectly trimmed pussy is one of lifes great pleasures for me.
 
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Annoyance

aaron.lee said:
Only if I was on top and she had no where to go.
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It'll be nice for a change to be on top in 69 for a change but i don't think the female neck works well against gravity, considering it's already hard for them to do it above. Unless she grabs your butt pulling herself into you.
Who ever is on top always gets the better positioning first, and the other person has to make do below.
 
Leah-Louisa

Leah-Louisa

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Aluicus said:
  1. Getting a Bj is great as a visual but some ppl can't stand being the only one on the receiving end and unable to touch or pleasure you in someway
  2. Giving Mutual pleasure adds connection between 2 ppl, plus if he's doing a good job the girl on the other side might improve her bj skill too.
  3. Believe it or not us men do luv looking at a females groin it the end goal the holy grail. Ever hear the song stair way to heaven? On a female's body it's from the ankles up to your groin. Also another reason why looking up skirts are so popular
  4. We like a women that trims herself as do we ourselves in turn, it shows that you care about your groin area and gives clear view on areas you want pleasure down there. Ever licked someones hair or a hairy individual? Its not really pleasant after a while and talk about getting hair stuck in your teeth or mouth.
  5. Getting a Bj while watching porn? That's like saying your not really there just an extra mouth to get him off, that it. He's fantasying about the women on TV not you infront of him. If that's the case there'll be a lot of blokes lining up to your door for a "Blow and go" only. Your putting yourself outta the picture.
If your a women that just wants to kiss, bj, add lube then sex then sure keep what your doing, and tell him your not comfortable receiving oral down there just sex. Same with shaving your body hairs, make up and dressing up, why do it if it's such a pain? Why? Cause ppl out in the world that appreciates what you do to yourself but never tells you about it.
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Thank you Aluicus, I absolutely agree with point 4. I also agree that the upskirt view of a woman is highly erotic, and for me is heightened when the view is accidental and fleeting. That will usually make me catch my breath.
And I'm not putting myself out of the picture at all what I'm saying is that I give a better blow job when I'm not distracted, this was more about my inability to focus and concentrate on his pleasure if I'm in a 69 position. Perhaps I framed it incorrectly from the start. but in offering porn as an alternative to viewing my lady bits directly in his face I'm just saying that I'm open to alternatives and discussing options to find a mutually beneficial solution. there are a bunch of reasons why people prefer one thing and not another and that's what makes sex fun... finding out what people like and what gets them going.
 
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Annoyance

Quite true it always depend on what you like @Leah-louisa and is comfortable doing. I on the other hand tend to treat 69 like a game of sorts, if your pleasuring the other person and they have to stop it means I am doing a great job while you stop to relax and enjoy the feeling. Then when im tried you can take over, but i'll be teasing with your groin with my fingers in the mean time. 69 isn't a dash to the finish that everyone thinks it is, and isn't always the orgasm finale. Just 2 ppl enjoying giving each other pleasure in turns and get more horny in the mean time. Getting a Bj on the other hand is also a finale card watch a beautiful girl take your stick for a drive.
 
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Annoyance

Instead of 69ing as an alternative do a side 69, you could face your groin towards him but on the side either in doggy state or lying on your side with your groin facing him so he can play with you if he wants to, plus explain that if he wants a good bj you need to concentrate. If a girl told me that i'll be teasing with my fingers instead of trying to eat her out. No fingering just outside teasing only so you can concentrate. ;)
 
PantySlayer

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Aluicus said:
Have you tried doing 69 on your sides? You both can curl up into a ball or get him to do that to make the distance between you. Plus with us guys we can rest our heads on your inner thigh too. :hilarious:
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Damn I'm going to have to try this out sometime.
 
Anne VIP

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Being a little on the short side I have never enjoyed this position, and I also like to concentrate on what I am doing. Would way prefer to give an amazing bj then be in a half awkward weird 69!
 
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glitch69

Anne VIP said:
Being a little on the short side I have never enjoyed this position, and I also like to concentrate on what I am doing. Would way prefer to give an amazing bj then be in a half awkward weird 69!
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I think it would make more sense if both see of similar height.. So how tall are you Anne? I'm short myself..
 
Yorkshire Lad

Yorkshire Lad

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Whilst I’m a huge fan of the 69 and appreciate the beauty of female genitalia in all its shapes and sizes my regular girl back in the UK and I adopt the reverse oral position with her laid on her back head over the edge leaving me free to slip into her mouth and be handsfree on all the rest of her
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