Whats it like for a working lady to have sex outside of work

dc123

Gold Member
Hi I am not sure how to word this correctly but obviously working ladies when they are at work have lots of sex but what about in their private lives when they are with someone eirther a partner/husband/boyfriend or friends with benefits someone who is not a client.....i want to know if there is a difference emotionally and physically for a working girl to be with someone they choose to be with and not for money? No idea if any of this makes sense but just thought i would ask.
 

Zara Daniels

Gold Member
Theres a huge difference! i have a girlfriend so everything is different :joyful: the emotional bond the physical connection everything!:joyful: :wacky::joyful:
i have a question for the girls who have sex outside of work as i honestly don't know...
do you still do health checks? use protection? like how does it work, your at the club and getting hot n heavy on the dance floor and then go back to his/yours and then???
have you ever treated the guy like a client?
freaked out coz you forgot to get the money? (even though you weren't meant to)
has anyone ever picked up someone with a health issue?
hope this doesnt sound rude- but ive not gone out and picked a guy up at a club before and am really interested as to how different it really is :p:hungry::smuggrin::joyful:
 

Kylie Middleton

Gold Member
I have a partner who I have sex with roughly five times a week and it's been hard to balance working lots and making heaps of money with still enjoying the sex we have. Luckily he's very understanding when I come home and just can't face one more penis. He also gets genuinely excited thinking about how other men want me so badly that they'll pay for me so we incorporate that into sex sometimes. He's also come into langtrees and booked me before and that time I did give him the "client experience" but generally the sex is very different because he knows where my buttons are. We do have sex without condoms because we trust each other to be safe with other partners.
 

Farm Boy 2

Legend Member
I have a partner who I have sex with roughly five times a week and it's been hard to balance working lots and making heaps of money with still enjoying the sex we have. Luckily he's very understanding when I come home and just can't face one more penis. He also gets genuinely excited thinking about how other men want me so badly that they'll pay for me so we incorporate that into sex sometimes. He's also come into langtrees and booked me before and that time I did give him the "client experience" but generally the sex is very different because he knows where my buttons are. We do have sex without condoms because we trust each other to be safe with other partners.



Sweetly do not let your man have other partners .fight them off .
 
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Buk

I have a partner who I have sex with roughly five times a week and it's been hard to balance working lots and making heaps of money with still enjoying the sex we have. Luckily he's very understanding when I come home and just can't face one more penis. He also gets genuinely excited thinking about how other men want me so badly that they'll pay for me so we incorporate that into sex sometimes. He's also come into langtrees and booked me before and that time I did give him the "client experience" but generally the sex is very different because he knows where my buttons are. We do have sex without condoms because we trust each other to be safe with other partners.
It sounds like you and your partner have an amazing and trusting relationship and I think that's brilliant!
 

Kylie Middleton

Gold Member
I think it would be fairly hypocritical to tell him he can't see other women when seeing men is paying for my fairly high maintenance lifestyle lol Besides I like to know that while I'm at work he's having a good time too and not just sitting at home waiting for me. It also means he can give me tips if a girl does anything he particularly likes :)
 

AxeMan

Diamond Member
I think it would be fairly hypocritical to tell him he can't see other women when seeing men is paying for my fairly high maintenance lifestyle lol Besides I like to know that while I'm at work he's having a good time too and not just sitting at home waiting for me. It also means he can give me tips if a girl does anything he particularly likes :)
Could you please let scientists clone you? :D
 

Xtraman

珍愛生命
Diamond Member
I think it would be fairly hypocritical to tell him he can't see other women when seeing men is paying for my fairly high maintenance lifestyle lol Besides I like to know that while I'm at work he's having a good time too and not just sitting at home waiting for me. It also means he can give me tips if a girl does anything he particularly likes :)

will you marry me :)

XM
 
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Jade Layne

There is such a big difference for me when it comes to the connection I have with someone I sleep with outside of work. I personally am not interested in Vanilla sex so getting paid for it is the only time I would do it. If there is not D/s connection then I don't do it for free.
Agreed!!!
 
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Wilde Amanda

Interesting conversation & great points discussed. My perspective is a little different as a WL who doesn't have a partner, so no sex out of work.
I love my job and do have a lot of very sexy experiences, which are, at times, very satisfying. Some, of course are dismal.
I find there are some clients that are good lovers, conversationalists, and given a different situation, maybe great partners.
The time between a WL and her client is private and intimate. Who knows just what buttons are pushed or chemistry connections are made. xo A
 
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Tiffany

I think it would be fairly hypocritical to tell him he can't see other women when seeing men is paying for my fairly high maintenance lifestyle lol Besides I like to know that while I'm at work he's having a good time too and not just sitting at home waiting for me. It also means he can give me tips if a girl does anything he particularly likes :)



I like the way you think
 

Master Yoda

“Your path you must decide.”
Legend Member
There is such a big difference for me when it comes to the connection I have with someone I sleep with outside of work. I personally am not interested in Vanilla sex so getting paid for it is the only time I would do it. If there is not D/s connection then I don't do it for free.


Hmmmm
 

Master Yoda

“Your path you must decide.”
Legend Member
I have a partner who I have sex with roughly five times a week and it's been hard to balance working lots and making heaps of money with still enjoying the sex we have. Luckily he's very understanding when I come home and just can't face one more penis. He also gets genuinely excited thinking about how other men want me so badly that they'll pay for me so we incorporate that into sex sometimes. He's also come into langtrees and booked me before and that time I did give him the "client experience" but generally the sex is very different because he knows where my buttons are. We do have sex without condoms because we trust each other to be safe with other partners.


Been there. While unique and an absolute privilege. Don’t envy where he is ;)
 

SexyKangaroo

Silver Member
Hi I am not sure how to word this correctly but obviously working ladies when they are at work have lots of sex but what about in their private lives when they are with someone eirther a partner/husband/boyfriend or friends with benefits someone who is not a client.....i want to know if there is a difference emotionally and physically for a working girl to be with someone they choose to be with and not for money? No idea if any of this makes sense but just thought i would ask.
Very good question, I’ve always been curious to know what difference escorts have when having sex with a client or their partner/boyfriend or a friend.
Reading the responses you’ve given, I can understand the emotional link and the level of relaxation they have with their partners, will always be different than with a client who is a complete stranger.
 

Lola Bunny

sex kitten
Silver Member
Hi I am not sure how to word this correctly but obviously working ladies when they are at work have lots of sex but what about in their private lives when they are with someone eirther a partner/husband/boyfriend or friends with benefits someone who is not a client.....i want to know if there is a difference emotionally and physically for a working girl to be with someone they choose to be with and not for money? No idea if any of this makes sense but just thought i would ask.
Personally I don’t have sex outside of work. I’ve been a WL for a little while now and wouldn’t find the need to have a sexual encounter in my personal life unless I had a real bond with that person.
I’m sure it would depend on how frequently the WL actually works. If you’re doing 4/5 days a week (like myself) I assume you might have less sexual desire in your personal life then a WL that only comes in once or twice a month
 

Farm Boy 2

Legend Member
Personally I don’t have sex outside of work. I’ve been a WL for a little while now and wouldn’t find the need to have a sexual encounter in my personal life unless I had a real bond with that person.
I’m sure it would depend on how frequently the WL actually works. If you’re doing 4/5 days a week (like myself) I assume you might have less sexual desire in your personal life then a WL that only comes in once or twice a month


That's most reassuring for me to know Lola* , and I an glad some in our Punter ranks has the wherewithal to fulfil this aspect of your life as I was under the impression after over 50 years of Punting that we were all just a nuisance and useless in bed and only aggravated a poor girls injured overused sore vagina . *A little sarcastic joke Lola but 50 years ago under Perth's a WAs containment policy there were not many Sex Workers and brothels , I am just guessing but I think is Girl wanted to work for a Madam she had to complete her shift get all those men who could past a bar set fairly low ( Sober no lice or penis discharge ) off the couch in the working room and out the door in 10 and 20 minute intervals .


Now due to Mobile Phones the internet and relatively cheap Air travel and a relaxed attitude by society and the law any young or not so young lady can go into the Sex industry charge what she likes and see who she likes , Good for Punters and Sex Workers but the endless line of customers has disappeared .
 
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