Physically: It's all about the upper body for me. Broad shoulders, defined (but not overly cut) upper arm muscles, collar bone that shows just a little and the best thing of all; the dimple that occurs in gorgeously toned men, just underneath the collarbone next to the shoulder muscle. OMG, a deep shoulder dimple can make me positively weak all over.
Sensory: Gotta be the smell for me. I love smelling men, I'm a sniffer. I love gorgeous cologne, however it can't be overpowering, must be blended with natural man smell. I don't mind if they're not wearing any cologne at all, don't even mind that "I've just been for a jog smell, as long as they're not turning into body odour.
Personality: What can I say, I like a bad boy. Fantastic when they very sure of themselves, even a little cocky. I don't even mind measured doses of arrogance. I agree with Subnymphet, sense of humour, but not one that tells jokes or makes off remarks, I prefer a sardonic wit.
Ha ha, just reading back what I wrote, I just described my hubby (although he does make the odd off remark or two). Must be why I married him, he's the sexiest guy I've ever met.
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