What makes a man attractive? Jaz's opinion

[Jaz]

Sure I appreciate a physically good looking man. What girl doesn't? (I was going to ask "who doesn't?" But I figure most of you gents would refute such a question ). Bum, back, eyes, smile, touch... These are all aspects I like, however there are so many more important traits involved in attracting me to a man (or several men )

Self-esteem, confidence, kindness, positivity, an ability to make me laugh - these all come to mind when I think about attractive men, whether they are 30 or 80 or anywhere in between. I like a man who takes care of himself. A man who makes an effort to be physically healthy, who puts effort into their appearance. A man who understands that in order to be loved, one must be ok with oneself - if you don't like yourself, how can you expect others to like you?

Actually, come to think of it, all of the above applies equally to women... Although with women there are additional bonus things like softness, and curves, and... Oops I'm getting off topic here, is it possible to hijack your own thread?

 

[Lord Spikey]

Sure I appreciate a physically good looking man. What girl doesn't? (I was going to ask "who doesn't?" But I figure most of you gents would refute such a question ). Bum, back, eyes, smile, touch... These are all aspects I like, however there are so many more important traits involved in attracting me to a man (or several men )

Self-esteem, confidence, kindness, positivity, an ability to make me laugh - these all come to mind when I think about attractive men, whether they are 30 or 80 or anywhere in between. I like a man who takes care of himself. A man who makes an effort to be physically healthy, who puts effort into their appearance. A man who understands that in order to be loved, one must be ok with oneself - if you don't like yourself, how can you expect others to like you?

Actually, come to think of it, all of the above applies equally to women... Although with women there are additional bonus things like softness, and curves, and... Oops I'm getting off topic here, is it possible to hijack your own thread?

I'm really close, here.

Apart from the obvious: Bum, back, eyes, smile, touch...Self-esteem, confidence, kindness, positivity, an ability to make you laugh. Makes an effort to be physically healthy, who puts effort into their appearance. A man who understands that in order to be loved, one must be ok with oneself.

I'm between 30 and 80, though and I'm hairy

 

[Master Yoda]

Sure I appreciate a physically good looking man. What girl doesn't? (I was going to ask "who doesn't?" But I figure most of you gents would refute such a question ). Bum, back, eyes, smile, touch... These are all aspects I like, however there are so many more important traits involved in attracting me to a man (or several men )

Self-esteem, confidence, kindness, positivity, an ability to make me laugh - these all come to mind when I think about attractive men, whether they are 30 or 80 or anywhere in between. I like a man who takes care of himself. A man who makes an effort to be physically healthy, who puts effort into their appearance. A man who understands that in order to be loved, one must be ok with oneself - if you don't like yourself, how can you expect others to like you?

Actually, come to think of it, all of the above applies equally to women... Although with women there are additional bonus things like softness, and curves, and... Oops I'm getting off topic here, is it possible to hijack your own thread?

Guys listen........ this is information is the real deal.......

 

[Amanda Secrets]

So many great traits are not the ones you can see and touch as you said Jas!! What person male or female wishes to be in the presence of some one who cannot show compassion, empathy, genuine kindness, is self seeking and egotistical. Those we emulate and admire for showing those qualities can drift us toward wanting to be with such people, seeking them out and enjoying their company. Iv noticed over the course of years of training people ( physical training that is lol) though the direct correlation between healthy body AND healthy mind. Aside from the endorphins that physical activity releases, the sense of worth it creates looking nice and FEELING good give us so many benefits. Its not an accident that Mental Health is entwined with physical wellbeing, getting out breathing the air, playing, exercising - so many ways to improve ourselves all round through the simple act of movement. Undervalued and unrecognised these day by many.
I absolutely love an athletic male physique - but then years spent in the gym myself also give me an appreciation of the hours and dedication required - muscle on muscle is not everyones cup of tea, but couple that with a quick mind, lively humour, kind nature and awesome biceps - Im hooked lol!!

 

[Amanda Secrets]

When I was around 18, I looked in the mirror and said, 'You're either going to love yourself or hate yourself.' And I decided to love myself. That changed a lot of things.
Queen Latifah

 

[Locoman]

So many great traits are not the ones you can see and touch as you said Jas!! What person male or female wishes to be in the presence of some one who cannot show compassion, empathy, genuine kindness, is self seeking and egotistical. Those we emulate and admire for showing those qualities can drift us toward wanting to be with such people, seeking them out and enjoying their company. Iv noticed over the course of years of training people ( physical training that is lol) though the direct correlation between healthy body AND healthy mind. Aside from the endorphins that physical activity releases, the sense of worth it creates looking nice and FEELING good give us so many benefits. Its not an accident that Mental Health is entwined with physical wellbeing, getting out breathing the air, playing, exercising - so many ways to improve ourselves all round through the simple act of movement. Undervalued and unrecognised these day by many.
I absolutely love an athletic male physique - but then years spent in the gym myself also give me an appreciation of the hours and dedication required - muscle on muscle is not everyones cup of tea, but couple that with a quick mind, lively humour, kind nature and awesome biceps - Im hooked lol!!

This is a good thread I fit into it largely with physical endeavours like running in the middle of the night from large angry critters.

 

[Jaz]

This is a good thread I fit into it largely with physical endeavours like running in the middle of the night from large angry critters.

You certainly are coming along in leaps and bounds

 

[bepp]

Sure I appreciate a physically good looking man. What girl doesn't? (I was going to ask "who doesn't?" But I figure most of you gents would refute such a question ). Bum, back, eyes, smile, touch... These are all aspects I like, however there are so many more important traits involved in attracting me to a man (or several men )

Self-esteem, confidence, kindness, positivity, an ability to make me laugh - these all come to mind when I think about attractive men, whether they are 30 or 80 or anywhere in between. I like a man who takes care of himself. A man who makes an effort to be physically healthy, who puts effort into their appearance. A man who understands that in order to be loved, one must be ok with oneself - if you don't like yourself, how can you expect others to like you?

Actually, come to think of it, all of the above applies equally to women... Although with women there are additional bonus things like softness, and curves, and... Oops I'm getting off topic here, is it possible to hijack your own thread?

now we know what happened and why

I come close I gotta good Bum

 

[Lord Spikey]

So many great traits are not the ones you can see and touch as you said Jas!! What person male or female wishes to be in the presence of some one who cannot show compassion, empathy, genuine kindness, is self seeking and egotistical. Those we emulate and admire for showing those qualities can drift us toward wanting to be with such people, seeking them out and enjoying their company. Iv noticed over the course of years of training people ( physical training that is lol) though the direct correlation between healthy body AND healthy mind. Aside from the endorphins that physical activity releases, the sense of worth it creates looking nice and FEELING good give us so many benefits. Its not an accident that Mental Health is entwined with physical wellbeing, getting out breathing the air, playing, exercising - so many ways to improve ourselves all round through the simple act of movement. Undervalued and unrecognised these day by many.
I absolutely love an athletic male physique - but then years spent in the gym myself also give me an appreciation of the hours and dedication required - muscle on muscle is not everyones cup of tea, but couple that with a quick mind, lively humour, kind nature and awesome biceps - Im hooked lol!!

Oh well.... Back to the Gym

 

[Locoman]

Sure I appreciate a physically good looking man. What girl doesn't? (I was going to ask "who doesn't?" But I figure most of you gents would refute such a question ). Bum, back, eyes, smile, touch... These are all aspects I like, however there are so many more important traits involved in attracting me to a man (or several men )

Self-esteem, confidence, kindness, positivity, an ability to make me laugh - these all come to mind when I think about attractive men, whether they are 30 or 80 or anywhere in between. I like a man who takes care of himself. A man who makes an effort to be physically healthy, who puts effort into their appearance. A man who understands that in order to be loved, one must be ok with oneself - if you don't like yourself, how can you expect others to like you?

Actually, come to think of it, all of the above applies equally to women... Although with women there are additional bonus things like softness, and curves, and... Oops I'm getting off topic here, is it possible to hijack your own thread?

So close and yet so far away.
I am thankful you are so lovely.

 

[Amanda Secrets]

Oh well.... Back to the Gym

Ah but personality counts for so much more sometimes lol and of course intelligence

 

[Sir Cruiser]

What can i add to this, not much as Jaz & Amanda have said it all. I really appreciate everything that they have said and i am working towards the ideal person that i want to be, somewhat earlier than i planned but as someone told me this afternoon (and others) it was meant to be. I will not be looking back only going forward although i will sometimes go back when the opportunity arises (x)

 

[GDA]

So If I exercise I'll stop being crazy?

 

[Sir Cruiser]

So If I exercise I'll stop being crazy?

Come and join me in the gym GDA and i will let yooo knooòw

 

[Sir Cruiser]

I'm really close, here.

Apart from the obvious: Bum, back, eyes, smile, touch...Self-esteem, confidence, kindness, positivity, an ability to make you laugh. Makes an effort to be physically healthy, who puts effort into their appearance. A man who understands that in order to be loved, one must be ok with oneself.

I'm between 30 and 80, though and I'm hairy

Well i am not hairy so one better eh Spikey

 

[tintbra]

I was gonna say a mullet but then I am old school (in a young body).

 

[Locoman]

What can i add to this, not much as Jaz & Amanda have said it all. I really appreciate everything that they have said and i am working towards the ideal person that i want to be, somewhat earlier than i planned but as someone told me this afternoon (and others) it was meant to be. I will not be looking back only going forward although i will sometimes go back when the opportunity arises (x)

Sir Cruiser you are talking in riddles if you are truly going forward never look or go back always let the situation or person catch up to the improved person. Nothing stays the same in my experience going over old ground is no good. A road less travelled.

 

[Sir Cruiser]

Sir Cruiser you are talking in riddles if you are truly going forward never look or go back always let the situation or person catch up to the improved person. Nothing stays the same in my experience going over old ground is no good. A road less travelled.

Whilst i can see your point in the way that it came across, i was referring to still seeing Jaz in a friendship way by going back. In all other regards i am going forward. I know that Jaz and Amanda knew that as i am friends with both of them.

 

[Locoman]

Whilst i can see your point in the way that it came across, i was referring to still seeing Jaz in a friendship way by going back. In all other regards i am going forward. I know that Jaz and Amanda knew that as i am friends with both of them.

Ok all cleared up. I know where you are coming from both of them lovely ladies.

 

[Jaz]

Ok all cleared up. I know where you are coming from both of them lovely ladies.

 

[bushseeker]

ummm I think more than anything 50 shades confirmed what us men knew...
what makes a man attractive?
- a colossal wallet

 

[Sir Cruiser]

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Yusss

 

[Bambi]

a great smile

 

[Lord Spikey]

Well i am not hairy so one better eh Spikey

No, Cruiser. Hairy is cool

 

[Happy2]

No, Cruiser. Hairy is cool

I agree it is good insulation Spikey

 

[kneaded relief]

Sure I appreciate a physically good looking man. What girl doesn't? (I was going to ask "who doesn't?" But I figure most of you gents would refute such a question ). Bum, back, eyes, smile, touch... These are all aspects I like, however there are so many more important traits involved in attracting me to a man (or several men )

Self-esteem, confidence, kindness, positivity, an ability to make me laugh - these all come to mind when I think about attractive men, whether they are 30 or 80 or anywhere in between. I like a man who takes care of himself. A man who makes an effort to be physically healthy, who puts effort into their appearance. A man who understands that in order to be loved, one must be ok with oneself - if you don't like yourself, how can you expect others to like you?

Actually, come to think of it, all of the above applies equally to women... Although with women there are additional bonus things like softness, and curves, and... Oops I'm getting off topic here, is it possible to hijack your own thread?

Totally agree with you ,I've have all the traits,a few pics of me

 

[kneaded relief]

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Totally agree with you ,I've have all the traits,a few pics of me

 

[Locoman]

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Totally agree with you ,I've have all the traits,a few pics of me

Gag, no wait PV.

 

[bushseeker]

modesty........ is not one of your gifts....

 

[Happy2]

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I will give you points,even if just for that beautiful dog KR