Jo India
Legend Member
Don’t think it’s all just how we view one another; however, a lot of the connection you feel with another person is emotional. Therefore you must be capable of responding to each other when you need something. Or as John Gottman said, “Does your partner turn toward you with equal enthusiasm? You need to ask questions and constantly update your knowledge of one another.”
If you truly want to find that person with whom you can spend the rest of your life, remember that it is YOU who creates compatibility. There is no magic formula or perfect algorithm for developing a fruitful relationship with another person. Yes, you must find the other person attractive, look up to them, and have a strong sense of familiarity, but these are only a small part of what makes a healthy and long-lasting relationship.
So, the next time you see someone who catches your eye and makes your pupils dilate with interest and enthusiasm, consider whether or not they can see the vision you have for your life, when you get that you have found a soulmate.














If you truly want to find that person with whom you can spend the rest of your life, remember that it is YOU who creates compatibility. There is no magic formula or perfect algorithm for developing a fruitful relationship with another person. Yes, you must find the other person attractive, look up to them, and have a strong sense of familiarity, but these are only a small part of what makes a healthy and long-lasting relationship.
So, the next time you see someone who catches your eye and makes your pupils dilate with interest and enthusiasm, consider whether or not they can see the vision you have for your life, when you get that you have found a soulmate.













