What do you define as cheating? ...
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Channelle
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Everyone cheats
I see so many married men and young guys in relationships from 6 months to 30yrs of marriage which has made me wonder if it's even possible to be with one person and be completely faithful to them throughout the relationship. I was speaking to a friend tonight and she was saying she doesn't...
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Longshot
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Whatever you can't/wouldn't tell/discuss with your partner!!
No idea what to do
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IMO
As soon as you put your cock inside the upper lips or the love lips
Your cheating.
Emotion's don't come into this situation at all
It's Cheating
Unless you ask you partner for
PERMISSION
And good luck with that
HAHA
Unless you ask you partner for
PERMISSION
And good luck with that
HAHA
The Frenchman
BedBuddies
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Are sex toys cheating?
John Smithl
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It can be
BedBuddies
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For all you guys saying using a prostitute is not cheating. Let me get this right in my head. If you dont think using a prostitute is cheating because there is no emotion and just a transaction, this means you would be happy with your girlfriend blowing or fucking some guy in the toilets at a night club for money? Its just a transaction! Its all good when it works in your favour but not so much when the shoe is on the other foot.
John Smithl
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... and from my perspective, it's about telling someone before the fact, not afterwards.
ozwarlock67
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That relationship is doomed.
johnmatilda
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How about: It's not cheating if you tell your GF/wife that you have needs and you will look for it elsewhere and she tells you to go right ahead?
aaron.lee
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Ask Dave Warner with his sand paper.
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She unfortunately is trying to bluff you.. however little does she know how easy it is to go get ur pipes cleaned.
I’m in a similar situation.. she told me to go relieve myself the other week so I did… didn’t specify how.
johnmatilda
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I hear you mate, I was once told by an ex to jerk myself off. Not long after, I bailed. Over the years she tried getting back together saying things like "you were good for me". The nerve!
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Mate men need a relief it’s just not the same for women. It’s a known fact when women cheat it’s all emotional. Men we just need boobs it means nothing. That’s why we are different. As for the old lady getting up to no good in the toilets I’d be more fuming if she pocketed the money and didn’t give me any.
It’s a mans world and it’s working just fine.
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No that's self pleasure if you are masturbating.
No matter what how your partner is - like if he/she is a bomb at bed or not, you can masturbate and that's totally normal and nit cheating according to me.
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To me cheating is when you hide things from your partner.
If you know that your partner won't like you visiting a brothel or a WL, you shouldn't do that then. If you are hiding from him/her it is cheating.
If your partner shows about your transactional affair with a prostitute and that is okay with him/her then that is definitely not cheating.
Also, while you boys say no emotional attachment but transactional ones are not cheating you should be well aware that your girl is eligible to do the same thing and vice versa.
If you know that your partner won't like you visiting a brothel or a WL, you shouldn't do that then. If you are hiding from him/her it is cheating.
If your partner shows about your transactional affair with a prostitute and that is okay with him/her then that is definitely not cheating.
Also, while you boys say no emotional attachment but transactional ones are not cheating you should be well aware that your girl is eligible to do the same thing and vice versa.
Tyla Chris
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Cheating - you see someone as in date/have sex with emotion/not with emotion is cheating.
Tyla Chris
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umm yes it is.. why do you need toys if your partner is sufficient? if he or she does not help you cum then toys are your option and that is also cheating.
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But using toys together is not cheating?
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Of course not according to me. It increases pleasure and fun. It definitely brings in more element.
If you have your wife/husband or gf/bf, you are having sex with the same woman or man time and again. why make sex boring, when it is the best stress buster you can have?
Add toys and have more fun. you get so much to explore. Lera new things about your partner
Tyla Chris
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I always though it was cheating but with what @Anna KS said i might now consider having it included with my partner
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Happy to see someone convinced. Share your first time using it and the pleasure difference, we would be eager to hear that from you!
Tyla Chris
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will share
John Smithl
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These are valid points.
The reason I said that sex toys may be cheating is because a pair of people could be using Bluetooth remote controlled device/s that does not include the participation or knowledge of a partner or significant other of one, or both, participants...
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for men yea, men show loyalty differently