Unfair blacklisted
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This absolutely unacceptable behaviour. As a WL would/should abide by total discretion so should clientele.
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NO !!
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greybeard80967
what a moron
1steelrod
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Yes this is what I was thinking. It is not acceptable behaviour by any person regardless of how they view their interactions with the wl.
Once you walk out the door the wl is her own person.
And should be treated with the respect she deserves when she is out in public like any other woman.
Once you walk out the door the wl is her own person.
And should be treated with the respect she deserves when she is out in public like any other woman.
TantraShiva
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They must be new or something to the life style? Hopefully they learnt their lesson. Never approach a w/l outside of work. I will only approach if approached first.
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Definitely not acceptable for a client to approach a WL outside of a work environment! Unless something had been previously discussed or they knew each other before their session together. Still best to just pretend like you don't know each other to be safe and respectful.
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Farmboy .. what is it thats SAD about my NO !! ???
Pleezexplain yur position on publicly approaching any WL ..
1steelrod
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Did I miss something. (No). ?? Is it acceptable to approach a wl outside of work. , as in (NO) this is not acceptable. Unless the wl says,, Hi . Or hello. Maybe (YES) but when the wl is standing there getting her every day things and is interrupted by a client who has not shown any respect for her privacy. (No) is the right answer ?? . This wl says that she was shaken by this experience. Never happened before even though she see,s many clients around her area but maintains professional conduct of a working girl. See no evil . Hear no evil. Speak no evil.
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No discretion from both parties is key! I feel for the girl and I hope she's okay xx
Channelle
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Can I try and be a grammer nazi and say:
No, discretion from both ...
Otherwise it reads totally the opposite?
(I know, Im worser at grammer)
mountainbikingateve
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Agree with all the comments posted. Don’t approach a WL outside of work.
WLs have lives and families and friends, many of whom, don’t know what they do. In short don’t be a dick in public.
WLs have lives and families and friends, many of whom, don’t know what they do. In short don’t be a dick in public.
Jimmy long
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Also agree, and the same goes the other way around, they don't contact me either, which some do by text, completely unwelcome
1steelrod
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So some of the girls you have seen send you messages. It seems to me that you are a very lucky man. Obviously you are very welcome to come back. This has to be a good thing ?
But on the other hand if you are married or in a relationship I suppose this could be a problem. It might be advisable to ask not to be contacted. I contact you. Don't contact me. Status. But for a single man that is happy to see what is on offer when a new girl arrives before the hoards arrive its first in best dressed.
But still it's about the wl having to deal with a customer invading her space and creeping her out.
But on the other hand if you are married or in a relationship I suppose this could be a problem. It might be advisable to ask not to be contacted. I contact you. Don't contact me. Status. But for a single man that is happy to see what is on offer when a new girl arrives before the hoards arrive its first in best dressed.
But still it's about the wl having to deal with a customer invading her space and creeping her out.
Mark_50
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Now I mostly agree with what everyone else has said and neither WL nor Punter should approach the other
What I am not understanding is where this report originated?
Did the WL tell you that this happened?
Was it just some one else that was in the store and overheard their conversation?
If it was just someone that happened to be in the shop, are they sure about what they overheard?
1 of my last girlfriends, always thought it was funny to see peoples reactions (and mine) when she started some random crap in public - I can just imagine some of the discussions it would have created "did you see those 2 at the shops today......." meanwhile we were sitting at home laughing about it
What was said that creeped her out that much??
I mean if threats were made then it should be reported
And who was Unfairly Blacklisted?
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grammer is easy .. it's speeling that's hard .. GRAMMAR .. ROFL
Oh how I love this crazy TS place
Wonderworld1983
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English is not easy language to learn as people think both in both gramm"a"r and spe"l"ling. 
1steelrod
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It is unfair that a wl is approached while out in public. Blacklisted as in now blocked from any contact. ,hopefully,,
Channelle
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And here was me thinking "Im worser at grammer" may have a hint that I was just messing about.
Rusty
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Whether this actually happened or not is irrelevant really
What is actually the best thing about this post is the fact that we’re talking about it
Reaffirming the unwritten rules because we all need constant reminders of all aspects of this and other areas of our lives particularly people that are new to all this.
Good for this to be out there in front of us all as a reminder of etiquette towards each other
What is actually the best thing about this post is the fact that we’re talking about it
Reaffirming the unwritten rules because we all need constant reminders of all aspects of this and other areas of our lives particularly people that are new to all this.
Good for this to be out there in front of us all as a reminder of etiquette towards each other
Melody
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Really sorry to read that this happened! I hope the girl is okay. I can absolutely understand her being shook.
So good to see the conversation here though. In this industry, without prior consent it's not okay for anyone to approach another party outside the working environment.
There are lots of WL that have friends and family that don't know what they do and they'd like to keep it that way.
There are many men that have friends and family that don't know what they do and they'd like to keep it that way.
Let's all respect each other and keep interactions inside the workplace. xx
So good to see the conversation here though. In this industry, without prior consent it's not okay for anyone to approach another party outside the working environment.
There are lots of WL that have friends and family that don't know what they do and they'd like to keep it that way.
There are many men that have friends and family that don't know what they do and they'd like to keep it that way.
Let's all respect each other and keep interactions inside the workplace. xx
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It was so 'weird' .. 1 day I'm at a shopping centre food hall with other half and kids and who should sit down at table right beside ?? said WL , complete with her nazi partner .. She & I locked eyes for 1 sec ..
we had a huge laugh about it on my next visit .. and all continues discreetly to this day.
we had a huge laugh about it on my next visit .. and all continues discreetly to this day.
Channelle
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It was so 'weird' .. 1 day I'm at a shopping centre food hall with other half and kids and who should sit down at table right beside ?? said WL , complete with her nazi partner .. She & I locked eyes for 1 sec ..
we had a huge laugh about it on my next visit .. and all continues discreetly to this day.
Similar to me.
With some family members at RAC Arena for a concert, and what are the chances, but OMG, who should sit next to me ...!!
Now that was interesting.
(ok, I did buy her the ticket)
