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Unable to "perform"

David_San

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So I recently had my first visit to see a WL in about 2 years. Its been a long time since I've been with anyone anyway.

I went through the motions, paid my money, chose who I wanted to see, showered etc

Then we start getting down to business, except there is one problem, nothing much is happening downstairs. 10-15 minutes pass, a few positions etc but I'm not really 'there'.

I ended up getting off but it was through the WL using her hands and more than a bit of lube.

She was really nice about it and did her best not to make me feel too uncomfortable but I was a bit off-put by the whole thing.

I was just wondering if anyone has had a similar experience or if I was just unlucky enough to have one of those 'off' days that guys occasionally have, on the day I decided to go to see a WL!

This is the first time that I've had this happen to me when sober the only other time has been after 15+ beers and I've just put it down to being too pissed to get the job done.

I suppose I was more than a bit nervous with it being so long since I've been with a woman and it was the first time going to this particular brothel. I don't think that I clicked with the WL either, although she was very nice and I wouldn't fault her in any way. The whole thing was pretty embarrassing though I must admit.

I think I might go back soon to see if it happens again, maybe though I'll try be in a bit of a different mind set when I go, or maybe be more 'in the mood' for sex.
 
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Farm Boy

That is the good thing about WLs there seen that before and they know what to do to get you off and out the door.
And they don't give a hoot how it happens.
 

Miss Delights

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David, this is one of the most common things to go on in the industry! It just happens babe. Thankfully woman don't have a certain appendage so when it happens to us you don't know.. Try again & I reckon you'll be just fine.:love76:
 

Happy2

Legend Member
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You know David I have seen on these pages many comments from
Langtree Ladies. And rhey want to know if you have any little problems
so they can help with ,happy endings, I know this episode came out of the blue
but if next time you talk to the lady about any "difficulties" before hand A good time could be had by all especially you
 

PleasureForMe

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Hi David San,

This has definitely happened to me. It's just nerves especially when you haven't been with a lady before and to top things off haven't been to a brothel before. In my case anyway.

As they say practice makes perfect. THe more you do it the more comfortable and relaxed that you will be. Once your relaxed things downstairs should happen without much effort.
 

retrowolf

Horny Bugger
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Yep, it's all in mindset. Took me a few goes to realise this. My first punt was so embarrassing, it was the only time in my life to that point where I hadn't been able to get an erection. Even with you are silly. The poor girl was trying everything. I ended up telling her to stop as it wasn't going to happen.

From then on the next few times it was all I could think of, and therefore, guess what, same thing. Finally I met one amazing lady in an R'n'T that put me completely at ease. I was so relaxed I stopped worrying about it all and before I knew it I was rock hard (which was a little awkward as I was still on my stomach and she hadn't even started sexy stuff yet). From then on, knowing what the problem had been (nerves and self doubt) I have been able to manage them both and haven't had a problem. I still prefer R'n'T even now as a result though.

Hope this helps.
 
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hot_stuff_900

The WL did not turn you on. You wasted your money and have buyers remorse.
WL love to take advantage of drunk guys and impotent guys. WL do not have to do much at all to earn their easy money.
Pass out drunk your wallet and your possessions could be missing when you wake up. WL are complete strangers and they may take things when you pass out drunk.
 

Tannerone

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The WL did not turn you on. You wasted your money and have buyers remorse.
WL love to take advantage of drunk guys and impotent guys. WL do not have to do much at all to earn their easy money.
Pass out drunk your wallet and your possessions could be missing when you wake up. WL are complete strangers and they may take things when you pass out drunk.

I think you are mis-representing a large number of talented and honest W/Ls here. :boxing: :violent5:

If you go for the el-cheapo and are drunk anyway, what can you expect - plus you may get the bonus of STIs !! :laughing4
 
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