Turn off’s for the ladies 🙋‍♀️

[Nina Stone]

@Elle has made a post asking the gents what their BIGGEST turn offs are in a lady.

Naturally I must ask the same question of our female forum members.

So ladies of the forum, what are your biggest turn offs in a gentleman?

 

[Jamie Jackson]

Poor hygiene is the first and for most, bad attitude and manners is next.

 

[Jenna Reception]

Entitled / snobby mannerisms, poor hygiene, and lacking a sense of humor... Mr way too serious

 

[Anita]

Bad manners, Bad Hygiene for sure are on the top of the list

 

[Nina Stone]

Entitled / snobby mannerisms, poor hygiene, and lacking a sense of humor... Mr way too serious

Oop! Mr way too serious is definitely a turn off

 

[Elle]

Definitely bad odour (body and breath) for me. . When I can smell a client at the reception desk I just don’t know how our beautiful Langtrees ladies go through with the booking. I have massive respect for them all!

 

[Joe Ozzie]

Looks like it's a two-way street - everyone agrees on things like hygiene, respect, manners. Some guys need to life their game.

 

[John Smithl]

Looks like it's a two-way street - everyone agrees on things like hygiene, respect, manners. Some guys need to life their game.

Yes, common themes

 

[AmeliaKennedy]

Exactly the above.
●Hygiene Is key.
●Boundaries- if pushing my boundaries over sms before we've even met then I won't see them boundaries on both sides is so important. Our safety is so important.
●time management- if someone is late and hasn't told me.

In my personal life the turn off is
●showing off too much, I don't mind sharing achievements etc I mean bragging about all the things they have, how much money the have and the possessions they own like it will impress me it's the complete opposite it's a complete turn off, I am a very giving person I'm not very good at accepting gifts or having someone want to pay for me so I don't find it attractive to be trying to buy me.

 

[Perthgirl]

Hygiene

• Dirt under the fingernails

I understand this is unavoidable in certain industries which is totally fine but please don’t try to put them inside my body

• Cologn/body spray

I really dislike this, these products are fine for everyday use but we are going to be so close and I can feel smell the fragrance on my face

*** honorable mention to those using these products to mask the smell of cigarettes***

• Showering then putting your dirty clothes back on

Why? Just come out with a towel on

• Smelly hair

Especially if you work in a kitchen, I’ve had clients hair stink of garlic and onions

• stubbly facial hair

Please be mindful that this can feel like sandpaper against my body

Conduct

• calling at stupid hours
• showing up and expecting to pay by bank transfer even though I’ve listed the ways you can pay
• Do not tailgate other people into the building, the lift won’t work properly then you message me “the lift is broken”

 

[mrys]

Self absorbed women are a big turn off for me. I like real, down to earth no BS types. Extra points if you volunteer your time to help others. I hate too much perfume even if I like the fragrance if it's lathered on it's overpowering. Too much make up, bolt ons that are out of proportion, fake smiles are like fake moans we both know they aren't genuine so why bother. I could go on............

 

[Nina Stone]

Self absorbed women are a big turn off for me. I like real, down to earth no BS types. Extra points if you volunteer your time to help others. I hate too much perfume even if I like the fragrance if it's lathered on it's overpowering. Too much make up, bolt ons that are out of proportion, fake smiles are like fake moans we both know they aren't genuine so why bother. I could go on............

There is a post already by @Elle for the gents to comment on relating to biggest turn offs relating to ladies.

This post is specifically for the ladies to provide their feedback on their biggest turn offs in regards to gentlemen x

 

[Nina Stone]

Self absorbed women are a big turn off for me. I like real, down to earth no BS types. Extra points if you volunteer your time to help others. I hate too much perfume even if I like the fragrance if it's lathered on it's overpowering. Too much make up, bolt ons that are out of proportion, fake smiles are like fake moans we both know they aren't genuine so why bother. I could go on............

Here is a link to @Elle post

Turn off's....

Hey guys....Whats the one thing about a woman that will instantly turn you off?

www.talkinsex.com

 

[Happy2]

A thin wallet and a declined credit card?

 

[Jamie Jackson]

A thin wallet and a declined credit card?

Not necessarily a turn off…..just disappointment haha