To show your face or not to show your face & why some clients have an issue

Isabella Rose said:
Just wondering (as an escort who doesn't show her face) why some clients continually ask for face photos when you state you are not face out? If its such an issue to see an escort's face before booking why do you not choose an escort who shows her face in her pics? Is it not my right to privacy to not show my face?
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No easy answer here, some escorts want privacy some don't, some clients don't mind not seeing a full face pic pixelated ones suffice, some clients want a full face pic to book... all depends... really its your face then body that is your selling point in this game sad to say. In a Brothel lounge situation an online face pic could mean the difference of bookings over the phone and net versus coming in and maybe no bookings.
 
Phoebe said:
No easy answer here, some escorts want privacy some don't, some clients don't mind not seeing a full face pic pixelated ones suffice, some clients want a full face pic to book... all depends... really its your face then body that is your selling point in this game sad to say.
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while I agree. I think that once a lady has said no to supplying a face pic (especially when her face is hidden in her photos) the client requesting it should respect that and either accept the fact or just move on.
 
Isabella Rose said:
Just wondering (as an escort who doesn't show her face) why some clients continually ask for face photos when you state you are not face out? If its such an issue to see an escort's face before booking why do you not choose an escort who shows her face in her pics? Is it not my right to privacy to not show my face?
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For the purposes of privacy & discretion I find it quite surprising that there are girls who are prepared to show their face online to be honest.
 
I agree to the right of "not showing your face"
In the past I used to book escorts who did not show there face, I would look at body shape, hair color, skin color and make my selection and hence my booking.
Today, most "high-end escorts" do show their face, or most of their facial features, and hence these are the ladies i look at "FIRST" for a booking.
 
I never really mind if someone asks ONCE for more photos than are in my advertising, but once I've said no (which I always do) if I keep getting asked I find it rude and disrespectful. Some men unfortunately don't understand that no means no.

In the end, if you're not going to book me because you can't see my face then that's no skin off my nose, and what's the worst thing that could really happen with not seeing my face photos? You see me and I'm not to your taste, and you walk away (or I leave). I've never understood the insistence of some people.
 
I would suggest to anyone asking to not show your face advance photo recognition software will take an 80 yr old photo and find you in 50 yrs time. Imagine how your great-grandchildren will feel.
Your photos need to be professional and truly represent your personality, where you can add video with a sexy voice messages. Men will adapt as long as you answer your phone promptly
 
Jacqui Luxe said:
I never really mind if someone asks ONCE for more photos than are in my advertising, but once I've said no (which I always do) if I keep getting asked I find it rude and disrespectful. Some men unfortunately don't understand that no means no.

In the end, if you're not going to book me because you can't see my face then that's no skin off my nose, and what's the worst thing that could really happen with not seeing my face photos? You see me and I'm not to your taste, and you walk away (or I leave). I've never understood the insistence of some people.
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Good way to sift out the ones who won’t take no for an answer during a booking too I guess..
 
Client sees the sex worker is not what he wants he swiftly says no thanks and closes the door and you go on your way. It saves time for the sex worker when she has pictures to save client's time and her time.

Sex worker is just like a grocery item, a pair of shoes, clothes, car, house, etc, she is a commodity that the client/customer decides if he wants or not.
 
Isabella Rose said:
Just wondering (as an escort who doesn't show her face) why some clients continually ask for face photos when you state you are not face out? If its such an issue to see an escort's face before booking why do you not choose an escort who shows her face in her pics? Is it not my right to privacy to not show my face?
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Every once’s got a right for privacy. If an escort don’t want to show their face the customers shouldn’t not be asking and as you rightfully say go to an escort who shows the face.
 
stovo82 said:
Client sees the sex worker is not what he wants he swiftly says no thanks and closes the door and you go on your way. It saves time for the sex worker when she has pictures to save client's time and her time.

Sex worker is just like a grocery item, a pair of shoes, clothes, car, house, etc, she is a commodity that the client/customer decides if he wants or not.
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I disagree with you I have many guys calling up for a 18 yr old they come in and end up going with a completely different age group, first and foremost we are humans and a smile can turn even an unattractive woman into a sexy lady. The best worker I ever worked with 30 yrs ago had a great body but a very unattractive face. When guys asked for the best I told them the truth and they all wanted to see why I considered her the best. Marnie was her name and she could just capture men and make them feel like the most important person in the world, she came to my home once and my father was getting out his smoking jacket and cowboy boots within 20 minutes of meeting Marnie she was magical....
 
stovo82 said:
Client sees the sex worker is not what he wants he swiftly says no thanks and closes the door and you go on your way. It saves time for the sex worker when she has pictures to save client's time and her time.

Sex worker is just like a grocery item, a pair of shoes, clothes, car, house, etc, she is a commodity that the client/customer decides if he wants or not.
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Nature of the work, human factors makes it more complex than buying a mere pair of shoes. I don’t think it’s a simple transaction as such l, there is much more at play.
 
Shannon Starr* said:
I agree... Sex Workers are still human beings and I find it degrading/disrespectful for that to be referred to simply as a "commodity"
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Pull your horns in Shannon that was not any one's intention and let's get real selling sex is selling a commodity, but the post is about whether to show face so stay to the point plz.
Too many staff are turning the forum into a personal battlefield, and I will not allow it anymore. I had to give the execution order on two members, and I personally feel that some of the ladies are taking things out of context. The forum main purpose is education and learning to look thru the eyes of the punters means you have to learn how blokes talk, what you take offence at is just bloke talk, and turning it into a personal battlefield is not allowed.
 
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Mrs Langtrees said:
Pull your horns in Shannon that was not any ones intention and lets get real selling sex is selling a commidity, but the post is about whether to show face so stay to the point plz
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I think she was trying to say, is Sex work is the commodity BUT the sex worker providing that service isn't a commodity. The ACT is The Human being behind is not!
 
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