Tipping

[AxeMan]

So in my experience everyone's got a strong view about tipping in restaurants. But what about when it comes to WLs.

Should a fun hour be rewarded with a tip? What amount/percentage is appropriate?

Personally, I have never tipped although I've wanted to with a couple of exceptional girls I've been with. The thing that has held me back is that I don't know what is an appropriate amount and I worry that too little will offend and too much might oblige me in the future.

The other thing is that I like to return when I discover an exceptional girl and both times one of the things that was really good is that I didn't feel like an ATM. The rate was really reasonable and the service exceptional for that rate. So I feel like I would set myself up for future times in that the girl might come to expect it and I would then remove one of the great things about the girl.

Well after that late night ramble, I'll hand it over to the guys and gals out there.

 

[Zeus]

Nice post.
I think tipping is a good thing. If there is incentive for people to "go that extra mile" they generally will.
If there is no incentive - as in Perth restaurants - you get cr@p service.

I would imagine the same would occur with W/L's (???)

 

[honestman]

It's simply a personal decision. Whether or not I'd tip is greatly dependent on how connected I am I guess as a client to every (one as few) in any given bookings...

It simply is a matter of how much I'm willing to spare an extra at the end of the day. Sometimes I'm willingly able to, but some days I don't.

Of course, nothing compares to the feeling of being thanked in ways more than one from both parties.

There were times where I had absolutely great experiences yet I unfortunately and ashamedly (this was me being honest and upfront with her) unable to tip at all. I am perhaps lucky thus far that I'm yet to see any W/Ls get disappointed if I'm unable to tip...for as long as I am genuinely grateful for our time and being gently honest about it the end.*

For as long as we clients respect each and everything prior to and during the session - and being honest if you're able to tip or not....either way shouldn't be a worry from my experience.

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* Though one very rare sad exception - one w/l really just interested in snatching as much out of me at one stage...this was yrs ago at Ella Bella.

 

[Maria]

What a great topic.

Personally it all comes down to the client (not he WL feeling or expectations) and even if they have tipped before a WL should not always expect it as some days we perform exceptionally well due to a better start or just a better connection with the client.

I have a few lovely gentleman that tip on occasion and I personally think that they still recieve the same (sometimes better) service.

I believe that a WL should always push herself to make each session better then the last.

A tip is not something that should be expected by anyone, but it should be appreciated when given

 

[AxeMan]

Another question: when tipping an establishment girl does she keep the entire tip or is it split with the house?

 

[bepp]

After paying the entry fee $70 for the hour then paying the girl in xcess of $100 and sometimes more than that specially when the lil head takes over , why pay more ?

 

[MikeB]

So in my experience everyone's got a strong view about tipping in restaurants. But what about when it comes to WLs.

Should a fun hour be rewarded with a tip? What amount/percentage is appropriate?

Personally, I have never tipped although I've wanted to with a couple of exceptional girls I've been with. The thing that has held me back is that I don't know what is an appropriate amount and I worry that too little will offend and too much might oblige me in the future.

The other thing is that I like to return when I discover an exceptional girl and both times one of the things that was really good is that I didn't feel like an ATM. The rate was really reasonable and the service exceptional for that rate. So I feel like I would set myself up for future times in that the girl might come to expect it and I would then remove one of the great things about the girl.

Well after that late night ramble, I'll hand it over to the guys and gals out there.

There are many ways to reward good service.

That is why many punters reward such on return visits with small gifts, more personal appreciation than cold folding. Does not have to be every time but can overcome the $ expectation.

 

[Happy2]

Must admit There are a few Not many but a few private girls with websites who have a list of "Gifts" they love to receive I remember one girl wanting Bunnings gift vouchers as well as the usual 5* priced perfumes

That was an instant turn off for me

 

[XLNC]

I never tip as such if I'm paying $250+ an hour, although once I did refuse to accept change which amounted to a 25% tip I suppose -- but that was just before Xmas and the total damage was $150 for a RnT.

However, I have given a few of my favourite ladies whom I've seen several times a small (inexpensive) but often meaningful gift out of the blue occasionally and that has always gone down well. These are not meant as a tip but rather a token of my affection for them and to let them know I do listen to what they say -- the gift might relate to something they mentioned in passing months earlier -- and that I value our time together. I do not expect any 'extras' for this, of course, though the parting hug usually seems that much more genuine and heartfelt, which is always nice.

 

[XLNC]

Must admit There are a few Not many but a few private girls with websites who have a list of "Gifts" they love to receive I remember one girl wanting Bunnings gift vouchers as well as the usual 5* priced perfumes

That was an instant turn off for me

Yes, those wish lists always appear a bit presumptuous to me too, but I guess they figure it's better to give us dopey dudes some clues as to what they like rather than receiving something they are unlikely to cherish forever (like a bag of manure, sheep dip or whatever it is you take along).

 

[Happy2]

Yes, those wish lists always appear a bit presumptuous to me too, but I guess they figure it's better to give us dopey dudes some clues as to what they like rather than receiving something they are unlikely to cherish forever (like a bag of manure, sheep dip or whatever it is you take along).

You just couldn't be nice two posts in a row could you?

 

[MrBig]

Voluntary tips are given to let the receiver know that the experience was made better by their attitude and desire ensure a memorable experience. I'll search out restaurant staff that went 'above and beyond' and ensure they receive personal gratuity. I don't like to simply drop extra in a common jar since this will not let the individual(s) know that their service is appreciated.
Alas! When it comes to WLs, I'm not always able to tip as well as I'd like but hopefully able to convey my appreciation in other ways.

 

[Dallas]

In restaurants, I only tip if they've done something exceptional that stands out, then of course I'm happy to.

With working ladies, it's not that I don't want to, but I offered once and she knocked it back immediately like I was offending her. So what I've done with a w/l that I really appreciate is tip her in the form of conditions such as the best hotel room, include dinner and a massage or anything that I can think of that she likes. Once a lady I really liked was feeling sick but she said she had to work the day because she desperately needed the money, so I booked her for the whole day and let her sleep and I brought her things to eat and cuddled her. I kind of saw that as a tip for how she'd treated me other times, hope it was ok. I always struggle with tips and gifts though.

 

[MrBig]

Many years on I still remember a time when at the Witch's Cauldron entertaining a couple from Eastern states. A great night - made better by a couple of waitresses that engaged in our repertoire to help make it a night to remember. I was expecting to foot the bill but my friend from the East insisted. I searched out these waitresses on departure, thanked them and tipped the equivalent of the bill (after all - I was expecting the night to cost me that money). Other times, of course, the service is so cr@ppy that you wish to charge them in having to endure their ineptitude.
If a service provider truly generally enjoys providing that service. Then providing that service is its own reward - but I'm sure an additional tip is appreciated.

I'll shut up now.

 

[MrBig]

In restaurants, I only tip if they've done something exceptional that stands out, then of course I'm happy to.

With working ladies, it's not that I don't want to, but I offered once and she knocked it back immediately like I was offending her. So what I've done with a w/l that I really appreciate is tip her in the form of conditions such as the best hotel room, include dinner and a massage or anything that I can think of that she likes. Once a lady I really liked was feeling sick but she said she had to work the day because she desperately needed the money, so I booked her for the whole day and let her sleep and I brought her things to eat and cuddled her. I kind of saw that as a tip for how she'd treated me other times, hope it was ok. I always struggle with tips and gifts though.

That's what I'm talking about.

 

[bushseeker]

Sorry I dont get it...
tips should go the other way if they are wanting regulars.
no point seeing the same lady more than once unless theres an incentive too....
seeing the same lady again and again is what marraige is for.
ive had ladys contact me and ask if id like to see them again... they usually offer between $50 and $100 off so I do
then others when I ask thier rates just say same as last time..... so I say no thanks

 

[Maria]

Another question: when tipping an establishment girl does she keep the entire tip or is it split with the house?

It all depends on the establishments rules regarding tipping. The one I work for (wink burswood) allows us to keep ALL of the tipping money/gifts. It is something that doesn't need to happen all the time as the smile on the clients face after usually shows just how appreciated they are (which is enough for me).

I personally don't care whether the client tips or not. I would rather a lovely well kept client that doesn't tip over a client that has no hygiene and tips all the time. But that is just me I do enjoy the service I provide as the feedback is worth so much more then any dollar amount. And if they are a regular that is a tip in its self

Hoped that cleared things up a bit your XLNC

Xxx

 

[XLNC]

Hoped that cleared things up a bit your XLNC

Huh? Did you mean AxeMan, the OP who asked the questions?

 

[Ginger Spice]

It is not a requirement at all

If you are going to "tip" perhaps do so at the start of the service. Sounds strange but on the odd Occassion that I have been tipped at the start of the service I find I give the service my absoloute all....

Not to say that I don't give a great service but I am more inclined to add more extras etc when I know the money has been paid upfront.

It still makes me feel all warm and fuzzy when a client tips me (whether at the start or end) because it means I left him thoroughly satisfied and that's something to be proud of

 

[Maria]

Woops sorry @AxeMan. Thank you XLNC see I am human sometimes
When Im not being the green eyed minx

Xxx

 

[Ginger Spice]

But I would be even MORE happier if a regular brought me chocolates... Or cakes... Or omg Krispy kremes <3

 

[Maria]

It is not a requirement at all

If you are going to "tip" perhaps do so at the start of the service. Sounds strange but on the odd Occassion that I have been tipped at the start of the service I find I give the service my absoloute all....

Not to say that I don't give a great service but I am more inclined to add more extras etc when I know the money has been paid upfront.

It still makes me feel all warm and fuzzy when a client tips me (whether at the start or end) because it means I left him thoroughly satisfied and that's something to be proud of

Well put Ginger

 

[Maria]

But I would be even MORE happier if a regular brought me chocolates... Or cakes... Or omg Krispy kremes <3

I was thinker kinder surprises or malteasers with salted popcorn mmmmmmm

 

[Ginger Spice]

I was thinker kinder surprises or malteasers with salted popcorn mmmmmmm

Ok. Now I'm horny.

 

[MrBig]

Now I'm hungry, but what is it that I really want?

 

[Ginger Spice]

Now I'm hungry, but what is it that I really want?

To be renamed as mrbig?

 

[MrBig]

To be renamed as mrbig?

Ha! Funny girl
But then others would just think I was bragging - or being deceptive.

 

[markeys]

I consider any tipping dangerous as it muddies the waters of pay/wage/price etc

I would reward good service provided in any circumstance by taking my business/desires/requirements back to that good service.

 

[Smoggy]

I don't tip end of story. The minimum wage in Australia is high enough to ensure that workers are well above the poverty line. Sunday working at double time means at least $40 per hour which is hardly a low wage. Maybe if you really feel the need to tip it should be the business owner as they are generally the one's under the most financial pressure. If you get bad service at the restaurant you tell the owner or manager and don't go back. An entry into Urbanspoon helps spread the word as it does for those good restaurants that do provide good service. I have never tipped a WL but I do send them a thank you message if it was a good experience. If it was very good (or very bad) I would write a review. A good review is worth many more dollars than a small tip.

 

[Rochelle]

AAAAAhhhhhhh the tipping thing.........here comes put the European in me..........when you are very happy with a service provided you tip. Nothing wrong with that. I think the tipping culture improves the quality of the service in Europe. In Australia tipping is not the norm but I can assure you that every w/l appreciates a tip for an exceptional service. Talking about it.......I don't expect or play for tips. Tips come or they don't. If they do it is nice to get an appreciation of an outstanding service, if they (the tips) don't come......doesn't bother me as I don;t expect it.......but it is nice to get the recognition.
PS: just for the record.........we keep the tips......has nothing to do with the house