Timewasters - I dont get it

[bushseeker]

Now i know im not telling the ladys anything here , But i spent all of Monday trying to get a lady work
I could not tell you how many messeges i replyed too

now my tactic is to tell them if interested to MESSEGE YOUR NUMBER. i feel that may reduce timewaster who can directly contact me

Didnt help that much. The adds all said the location, the times, had a pic and description and said no more pics
and no anal and no bareback

Now im going to forget alot of them but heres some common ones that spring to mind bearing in mind they all go nowhere
- more pics please
- what services do you provide (probablly fair enough but why not say what your after?)
- do you do Anal
- do you do bareback (yes of course thier clean)
- do you do bareback anal (as above)
- i havnt had sex for 15 years so of course im clean so bareback?
- do you CIM+swallow
- can i trade ( this means freebie with a glass pipe)
- how about later, tomorrow, next week next month next year
- when are you free again
- Wheres that? (location) while the dipshits holding a smartphone
- whats your addy (yea right not unless your totally confirmed)
- thats too far for me (locations in the add)
- Ive got 2 grand if you book me in ----- doesnt happen of course
then theres the endless chat (well it would be if i didnt cut it off )
- HI
- wot u up 2
- hey babe howd it go last night

Ladys feel free to add the ones i missed

but basically after 10 hours solid of dealing with this level of stupid i got $1000 of bookings for her
i have ZERO idea how ladys deal with this just by themself
the lady was flat out showering, washing, buying drugs, making money etc and i was flat out on the messeges

can someone please tell me the attraction of contacting ladys if you dont at least have genuine enquirys and want to see a lady
i realise no one comands a booking but its beyond perfectly obvious most of these guys have no money let alone any intention of seeing a lady
the sheer weight of replys VS bookings - unless im doing something wrong

 

[iwtt69]

It goes both ways...
I had lady that ping pong for couple hours only to stop right after we confirm date and time..
So it's not just one way...

 

[johnlou]

a few years back i booked a lady 2 weeks in advance , lady accepted booking and said to arrive @ address 15 minutes early and to text her for the room number . i did ask if i should contact a day or 2 earlier to confirm if all was good and her reply was no need to , i will be here . i arrived @ booking time and when i messaged her, had no reply so i waited for up to 30 minutes , in case she was running late as this does happen . still nothing even up to this day . that was a waste of 3 hours of my time , i did hope she would get a little KARMA ,

 

[Obbie]

Its human nature to ask a lot of questions even when the ad tells you most of it may be they get excited at the heading gang bang and dont see anything else think you need to charge seems a stressfull hobby you have taken on there mate

 

[bushseeker]

yes no question it goes both ways
i understand now why ladys double book - your almost garanteed of at least one no show if not both
probablly no good answer too it

but the tweakes out there that deliberatly set out to waste time are possibally the biggest cause of double bookings

after all the timewasters last night i double booked because one of them said he was coming from waneroo and was in the car on his way

I hadnt given him much dtail so i thought "yea right"
poor guy came from wanneroo and showed same time as another guy -

its way too hard to get guys to comit to an actual time - most if they actually come are nearly there by the time you get the idea there actually are going to come and thats often an hour after they said - if they give you a general time in the first place

"yea gotta go by the airport drop a mate off then weell se if joe blow want to catch up first so maybe about 8 but could be 10"

 

[iwtt69]

a few years back i booked a lady 2 weeks in advance , lady accepted booking and said to arrive @ address 15 minutes early and to text her for the room number . i did ask if i should contact a day or 2 earlier to confirm if all was good and her reply was no need to , i will be here . i arrived @ booking time and when i messaged her, had no reply so i waited for up to 30 minutes , in case she was running late as this does happen . still nothing even up to this day . that was a waste of 3 hours of my time , i did hope she would get a little KARMA ,

Sounds like the one that happened to me.. focking waste of time. Lucky for me, I only wasted about two and half hour..

Ya Bush, this hobby of yours going to age you fast!.. hahaah

 

[johnlou]

i can only speak for myself. i do relise that a problem can and will happen with a drop of a hat, for either party . like every one says it takes 30 seconds to send a text message , ( yer rite ) depending on the emergency that surely never happens but it is polite and respectful to send a message in the near future , even if just to apologize for the no show .

@ least you would not get the no-booking rage that is going around , and i do realize that some time wasters are on purpose ( other w/ladies or business )

 

[sunyun]

I have a lot of trouble on the other side of this problem.

When i an told I need to go to Perth, I always try to contact a WL and book ASAP - maybe even two or three weeks in advance, so that if she is not going to be in Perth, then I can try someone else.

Then I usually text or email once a week just to let them know that I am still on track, and if they are unable to make it, to give me some warning.

Then i text or call when I get to Perth airport, then I text a couple of hours before the booking, and then call when I am outside the door to be let in.

On many, many occasions, I have arrived at the address, or texted a couple of hours before, only to be told, "Sorry, can't make it tonight, what about tomorrow ?" I NEVER go back as she has just wasted my time, and I probably will fly back in a couple of hours without a punt because most better ladies expect more than an hour's notice.

It is surprising how hard it can be to find an available WL with only a couple of hours to spare.

I will add that I usually do my research before I start out, and never ask all the stupid questions that Bushseeker listed !

Cheers.

 

[johnlou]

sunyun i am like you , do my research and make the 1st contact , keep communication open @ all times , but that is still no guaranty it will go off .