I'm actually the opposite. When I'm getting it lots I think about it lots but....otherwise I think about it and dream about it always.. like constantly. When I'm at work in my office job, all I can think of is violating the clean desk policy by doing the cute girl in the cubicle next to me right on it but actually the less I get, the more I think and fantasise about it... it totally consumes my mind and actually affects my sleep quality and reduces my concentration in my job. Lack of sex is so bad for my health, I can't work out why so many others aren't interested.