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Telltale signs if a women has an orgasm.

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Annoyance

Hey ppl thought i'll open another post on the female orgasm since every female is different. And have ppl share their success stories on how they could pick up those subtle signs.

I'll first state the obvious ones first. She vocally tells you or her body shaking from muscle spasm. With that later one I find resting 1 hand on her stomach and feeling it tense tight a good indicator, but where else can you touch her to feel that spasm best?

Ladies feel free to contribute too.

The Floor is yours.
 

Down boy

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Real of course that's the only focus in this post.
Sorry, forgot to add an emoji indicating I was joking.
I think, just like us men, there would be many different physical reactions. We obviously have one give away that makes it pretty obvious, but think about how the rest of your own body can react depending on the intensity of the moment. It can vary widely for any individual.
With a lady I’ve noticed a difference in taste, body temperature, skin clamminess or sweat, flushed face, facial features changing so quickly it looks like they’ve had a shot of something, on and on and on. Sometimes all or some or none. Maybe the best one isyour partners reaction to you instead of any physical indicators?
 
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What if you had a girl that's sensitive to your touch? She moans on the right spots(and keeps going)... grabs your hands/arms tight when she's feeling really good...Or moves her legs also?

Having a starfish girl is easy cause you can tell from the sudden change she gets. But if you have a mover what then? Yup if you're datying her then yes taste is one good indicator that she's orgasmed.

Partners reactions after is good but as men we want to know if we've done a good job or not, plus women can lie about us being studs in bed. We want to know all our hard work was worth it as we men function on results or goals.

Also what about if you're hitting the right spots and she suddenly stopped moaning for a bit?

Im just throwing out any situation in hopes that this will help other blokes too.

Yup @Down boy us men have the one main finisher that is easy to tell, but without that ender they also won't be able to tell if we orgasmed or not.
 

Phoebe

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Truth to that but if one can't not distinguish when a girl has an orgasm or it'll end with a over sensitive painful experience. As some women can only handle 1 orgasm at a time, just like us blokes that need a rest to subside that sensitivity.

You with the wrong lady.. !
 

Down boy

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“Partners reactions after is good but as men we want to know if we've done a good job or not, plus women can lie about us being studs in bed.“

Only if she thinks your ego can’t handle the truth

“We want to know all our hard work was worth it as we men function on results or goals.“

Hard work and worth it? Are you saying that if you don’t get a result that you’re happy with then it was a waste of time? It’s not a chore like putting the bins out or servicing your car.
 

Phoebe

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“Partners reactions after is good but as men we want to know if we've done a good job or not, plus women can lie about us being studs in bed.“

Only if she thinks your ego can’t handle the truth

“We want to know all our hard work was worth it as we men function on results or goals.“

Hard work and worth it? Are you saying that if you don’t get a result that you’re happy with then it was a waste of time? It’s not a chore like putting the bins out or servicing your car.

This is the problem.. sex has lost the fun and enjoyment part.. its all about ego, and getting off.. and if you can't get her off then well you failed or she did .. FFS have we ruined sex too ?

What about two lovers enjoying each other and no the moment.. NOPE Pornhub ruined it!
 
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Are you saying that if you don’t get a result that you’re happy with then it was a waste of time?

There are blokes out there that are clueless to female orgasms and do the wrong things turning off their partners, they could spend a hour and still not come close. Why do you reckon woman have the " He's a great guy but his just not that great in bed" story. He could be trying his best and it's still not even close to what she needs. And at the end they wonder why they got dumped in the first place.

With a proper man he tests things that work on his women, and if it works that's a good result. And the goal is see & hearing that she is satisfied with him. You can't tell me that your only goal is your own orgasm that's it?
 

Phoebe

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There are blokes out there that are clueless to female orgasms and do the wrong things turning off their partners, they could spend a hour and still not come close. Why do you reckon woman have the " He's a great guy but his just not that great in bed" story. He could be trying his best and it's still not even close to what she needs. And at the end they wonder why they got dumped in the first place.

With a proper man he tests things that work on his women, and if it works that's a good result. And the goal is see & hearing that she is satisfied with him. You can't tell me that your only goal is your own orgasm that's it?

So what one are you? LOL
 
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This is the problem.. sex has lost the fun and enjoyment part.. its all about ego, and getting off.. and if you can't get her off then well you failed or she did .. FFS have we ruined sex too ?

What about two lovers enjoying each other and no the moment.. NOPE Pornhub ruined it!
Well that's the problem too if you're with someone that can't take criticism then you openly can't communicate what really needs to be fixed in-order to improve their sex life. If I meet a girl that has a fragile ego and a bad BJer, it's either break her ego and self confidence more or let it go and enjoy on what you have. That is one thing and this post topic is another.

This post is all about better understanding the female body, and helping those that need more information about how to do it. Not criticise others that just can't do it and tell them to get lost. This is why men out there keep to themselves instead of educating themselves more, and why more women are left with a vibrator to finish themselves off in secret. We just aren't addressing the problem.

The only way sex is enjoyed is together @Phoebe, if the world knows how to get a man off then what about the women Huh? We need more knowledge on women in general.
 
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Not everyone is that flexible @Phoebe.

You've definitively met ppl in your life that are unhappy with their married life or relationship but whats the word " Put up with it"
 

Phoebe

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Not everyone is that flexible @Phoebe.

You've definitively met ppl in your life that are unhappy with their married life or relationship but whats the word " Put up with it"

No I just provide a service to women that cant get it from hubby! eg the affair.. Its funny how wives can orgasm while having affairs... LOL
 
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No I just provide a service to women that cant get it from hubby! eg the affair.. Its funny how wives can orgasm while having affairs... LOL
Of course they can cause they are on a hunt to find a man that can give them what they really need. If 1 man can't do it... it's on to another till she finds the right one. But at the end of the day she still loves her hubby.

Again it's why we need to learn more about the female body.
 

Phoebe

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Of course they can cause they are on a hunt to find a man that can give them what they really need. If 1 man can't do it... it's on to another till she finds the right one. But at the end of the day she still loves her hubby.

Again it's why we need to learn more about the female body.

Want to learn about a female body maybe learn at the coal face, book someone that will show you how to turn a lady on, plenty of ladies offer that service, or watch American Pie.. stifflers mom is into Tantra... ;)
 

Phoebe

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Other signs are is.. if she calls you or sends you sms asking you to come back well you must be hitting the right spots... or at 1st you were leaving to go back home if this was a FWB deal, then she starts asking you to sleep over for longer love making sessions then well you are doing great, and other signs are she keeps the toys in the drawer... :)
 

Phoebe

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+ if this is an affair and she's the married one once she starts saying she will leave hubby for you. thats when you change your number, kill all you social media accounts and hide.. :)
 

Down boy

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There are blokes out there that are clueless to female orgasms and do the wrong things turning off their partners, they could spend a hour and still not come close. Why do you reckon woman have the " He's a great guy but his just not that great in bed" story. He could be trying his best and it's still not even close to what she needs. And at the end they wonder why they got dumped in the first place.

With a proper man he tests things that work on his women, and if it works that's a good result. And the goal is see & hearing that she is satisfied with him. You can't tell me that your only goal is your own orgasm that's it?
Here you go. You can even wear headphones and listen to it while you’re hard at work getting a result.
 

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Annoyance

Here you go. You can even wear headphones and listen to it while you’re hard at work getting a result.

That's good if you want to read a book on relationships with women on a whole @Down boy which is good and a lengthy discussion on each vital topic covered in that book, thanks for point that out for those who want a deeper understanding on relationship do's and don'ts and if she is the one.
If anyone wants a review instead of reading here it is:

But at the moment in this subject topic the important point to address is finding a way to know if your girl or the girl that's with you has just have an orgasm and telltale signs that she has one instead of skipping a few and saying " I think I counted 2 orgasms you had", and she says " Nope it's much more then that"

All good keep the good stuff flowing.
 

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I have found it can be different with th same lady, not sure if it’s mood or cycle related or another reason
 
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