Survey: why do you see sex-workers?

[Plumage]

Rachel Wootton (PhD thesis, 2016) has a section on what motivates clients to engage sex-workers. She collects together various theories and findings from the published literature. I was wondering how many of these motivations you identify with? Just tick the boxes you think probably apply to you.

 

[Stacey Heart]

My reason was because I was looking for high level kinks. And needed someone I knew would do it safely and well!! Plus that feeling of knowing they won’t hurt your emotionally because you are just there for fun is an awesome feeling

 

[Jelliicopter]

I dont have the patience for courtship. I just wanna fuck. I also don't want to leave my house

 

[Josh]

It's easier for me to offer a beautiful woman money to sleep with her than try to woo her. WLs often ask me why I don't have a girlfriend, and I respond if I met you in a bar, how am I gonna sleep with you that same night? They usually don't have an answer, or if they do it's something silly.

I love the "evolution in reverse" idea of paying for sex. Humans developed female prerogative in relationships somewhere along the line, i.e. the woman selects her sexual partner and this has guided our evolution through "sexual selection". Prostitution is the closest thing to male prerogative (except for r*pe of course).

 

[HappyPirate]

 

[LongHair]

2x2x2x2

two marriages, to old, to tired, to fucking hard to maintain permanent relationships

 

[Plumage]

Once you have done this survey, please also do her younger sister:

https://www.talkinsex.com/threads/survey-services-you-asked-a-sex-worker-to-provide-in-the-last-12-months.82681/

 

[Farm Boy 2]

Rachel Wootton (PhD thesis, 2016) has a section on what motivates clients to engage sex-workers. She collects together various theories and findings from the published literature. I was wondering how many of these motivations you identify with? Just tick the boxes you think probably apply to you.

Well Plumage the truth is that as a rule men can only do so many wank's before they need a root , you could run this past Women in prison and I think a lot of the heterosexual female inmates would concur.

 

[Plumage]

Thanks for all the replies so far: 44 'votes' to date! That is quite a large sample already by research standards. The Australia-wide million dollar Australian Survey of Sexual Health has only about 400 respondents who had paid for sex in the previous 12 months. So we are already over 10% of that, without a tax dollar spent!

 

[LongHair]

No but when I get my tax return this year I may be spending some of those tax dollars

 

[SexyKangaroo]

In my early days I started out of curiosity and emotion, that feeling of being able to get what you want just by paying generates a lot of pleasure.

 

[CraigieBoi]

For me its pain of past. Now i pay so i can walk away no strings attached. Im often asked why no girlfriend by women wheras my married mates say i am lucky to be single. So i gave up.

 

[Deleted member 55781]

After seeing porn for so long I've always been curious of what touches from a woman in areas that is intimate. It started to become an excitement for me to go again. But I've always tried to restrain myself from going since I'm quite scared if I am caught by people I know.

 

[SexyKangaroo]

After seeing porn for so long I've always been curious of what touches from a woman in areas that is intimate. It started to become an excitement for me to go again. But I've always tried to restrain myself from going since I'm quite scared if I am caught by people I know.

I think we all have that fear, to feel a little more secure, try to hire girls far from your home or where you usually stay.
As long as it's a few minutes away, it'll allow us to have some peace of mind.

 

[No idea what to do]

Why do we See WL's

Quite a few years ago I tried like crazy to get this women to remove her pant's for me
I clicked, She did not = Learn the hard way.
Simple, It is a sure as hell way to get a root without having to do the attempt at seduction process.

It's a Sure Thing​

The Frenchman

 

[janny-ammerson]

Sex workers exist for various reasons, often offering far more than sex as part of their services. The need for sexual contact has existed for as long as humans have, which is why the history of sex workers dates back as far.

 

[CDSC]

I see sex workers because I work in a job that damages social life (as in I am away for protracted periods of time). As a 65year old finding a partner is difficult. I am still sexual and miss reciprocal affection. A working lady provides this, sadly I become a little infatuated too easily. I was married for 24 years and moss the security of a relationship. I never strayed for 24 years .. now I ha e beautiful girls I can chose .. lol and a floppy dick. I will fix the dick and either have a few crazy years or settle down .. who knows the world has endless possibilities I am eager to embrace what works.

 

[langfordguy82]

I learned through marriage and divorce that sex is never free. Paying a worker is the most honest way of getting laid IMHO.

 

[johnmatilda]

I learned through marriage and divorce that sex is never free. Paying a worker is the most honest way of getting laid IMHO.

This man speaks the truth.