Stealthing

[1steelrod]

Those who remove condoms during sex.
I am sure this does happen in a normal relationship.
And I am sure it happens with those in the sex industry
We all know that these do break at times so most times we don't know it has happened. But to remove a condom by stealth is poor form .
It is and can be classed as rape aparrantly but there looks to be new laws being introduced to the criminal code.
Stealthing is a dirty and nasty practice by some who will do it just because they don't like to wear a condom . And some just do it because they are just shit men.
Any thoughts on this matter.
Any one guilty of this practice

 

[WildBrumby]

My thoughts are simple, if caught get castrated.

 

[StevieG]

Like all things related to one-on-one intimacy it will be extremely difficult to police or prosecute. But then again stealthing has never even entered my mind as something to do, so maybe I just can't actually picture what IRL stealthing is like?

 

[Goodstuff36 Bon truc in french]

Good reason to have the light on or sensiabe lighting during sex so you can see what's going on.

 

[Johnnyshakes]

My thoughts are simple, if caught get castrated.
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handsome

 

[Jamie Jackson]

My thoughts are simple, if caught get castrated.
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I concur

 

[Jamie Jackson]

Good reason to have the light on or sensiabe lighting during sex so you can see what's going on.

Every time a client asks me to turn the lights right down or off is and immediate red flag….and I keep that room lit up like Christmas lol

 

[Bambi]

Has anyone had this happen in the real world/ (not in brothel)?

 

[Jasmine Malika]

Those who remove condoms during sex.
I am sure this does happen in a normal relationship.
And I am sure it happens with those in the sex industry
We all know that these do break at times so most times we don't know it has happened. But to remove a condom by stealth is poor form .
It is and can be classed as rape aparrantly but there looks to be new laws being introduced to the criminal code.
Stealthing is a dirty and nasty practice by some who will do it just because they don't like to wear a condom . And some just do it because they are just shit men.
Any thoughts on this matter.
Any one guilty of this practice

So glad you’ve touched on this topic,, my personal experience men don’t think it’s a big deal to remove the condom with out the other person’s knowledge/consent.

 

[mrys]

Honestly some men are as dumb as a box of hammers if they attempt this. Not only is it a huge breach of trust and respect but how will they feel when they get the call to say 'I'm pregnant' and your the only person who could be the father.

 

[Channelle]

Honestly some men are as dumb as a box of hammers if they attempt this. Not only is it a huge breach of trust and respect but how will they feel when they get the call to say 'I'm pregnant' and your the only person who could be the father.

Agreed, trust and respect.
Am still learning.
This practice has never entered my head for a second, and not surprisingly, I didn't even know there was a word for it or what that word was referring to.

 

[Farm Boy 2]

Every time a client asks me to turn the lights right down or off is and immediate red flag….and I keep that room lit up like Christmas lol

Most WLs want the lights off and to do the Doggy or Reverse Cowgirl don't quite know why this happens but it been my experience almost every time .

 

[WildBrumby]

I’ve had a couple of occasions that women removed it without me initially knowing so now I always check to be sure too.

 

[Smythie]

A lot of girls i see want the lights off. I figured they think its romantic or they are shy or not confident about their body. I prefer lights on cause i admire the view of the girl.
I stop if i notice the condom is riding up and slipping off.
I punt to have no strings attached. And that means no offspring.

 

[WildBrumby]

A lot of girls i see want the lights off. I figured they think its romantic or they are shy or not confident about their body. I prefer lights on cause i admire the view of the girl.
I stop if i notice the condom is riding up and slipping off.
I punt to have no strings attached. And that means no offspring.

I suspect that was the rational of the couple of girls that had removed the condom without me noticing. Now I always check.

 

[Smythie]

Doggy position is prob the worst position in regards to stealthing for girls. I usually have my hands on her boobs. Cause i like them and she knows where my hands are.
Some girls have mirrors so they can keep an eye on the guy at all times including doggy.

 

[sircurious]

In South Australia they have just introduced legislation that if you are caught 'stealthing' you can be imprisoned for life if convicted.

Life imprisonment for 'stealthing' as SA outlaws non-consensual removal of condom

Non-consensually removing a condom during sex — an act known as "stealthing" — is set to be criminalised in South Australia, with those found guilty facing penalties of up to life imprisonment.

www.abc.net.au

 

[John Smithl]

So glad you’ve touched on this topic,, my personal experience men don’t think it’s a big deal to remove the condom with out the other person’s knowledge/consent.

Maybe it's the men you've been with. Not all men see it this way. I know I place a very high importance on STD prevention, and consent.

 

[Jack Ripper]

And some just do it because they are just shit men.

Not only men. Women do it too. Both sides.

 

[1steelrod]

Ye

Not only men. Women do it too. Both sides.

Not only men. Women do it too. Both sides.

Yep. I had it done to me in South Aussie many years ago.

 

[Kenny]

Not only men. Women do it too. Both sides.

I have known a few girls that stop taking the pill and don't tell the dude as to keep the guy, but the guy doesn't hang around but has 18 years of payments with fortnightly visits.

 

[baal6007]

I have known a few girls that stop taking the pill and don't tell the dude as to keep the guy, but the guy doesn't hang around but has 18 years of payments with fortnightly visits.

Precisely why I got the snip

 

[Deudermont]

I hope this applies to women too practically

 

[Miss Monique]

In SA it's a criminal offence. I have had it happen to be a couple times. I went off at them and threw them out. I feel it's more common with private workers then a parlour. Simply due to many parlours have security on premises. From conversations I have had with STI testing clinic it's becoming a big issue. Hence why it bought into law. But until this industry is decrimealised in SA ladies won't report it

 

[JT777]

A wl did it to me once. Later found out she was pregnant and the timing would have coincided.
Never saw or heard from her again so fingers crossed it was someone else’s baby.

 

[WildBrumby]

A wl did it to me once. Later found out she was pregnant and the timing would have coincided.
Never saw or heard from her again so fingers crossed it was someone else’s baby.

I’ve had WLs do that to me a few times, I always check.

 

[John Smithl]

Women, if they want to get pregnant, don't need to stealth. The condom could be sabotaged, or the post coital condom contents could be reinserted afterwards.

A vasectomy addresses this risk.

 

[AsianBoss]

I have heard more guys asking for raw/no condom or attempting to remove them during.
I think its absolutely disgusting and shows no respect to the worker or yourself.
So, now I show them this. Superglue will fix it..