Bushseeker,
Not many would write that up and shown openly. At least, I would give my praise for you to be truthfully open.
However, all I can say is that if that thread is re-written in a way then it would help us in return, then none of this would happen.
A lot of you may disagree with me, all I see is a hint of logic - he's trying to share his experiences with these ladies whom all agreed; either by temptation or by ignorance - to proceed services without the condom. Yes, I know many of you would see that thread as nothing more than showing everyone his ego status.
He's done his part simply that - he's being honest. But there is something we can try to ask to learn from this.
... And that is simply one big problem we have right now - is that we don't know who these ladies are, and where they might be. How do we know these people? Who are these people? if he could PM all or even better - let the moderators to send a global message to all on who these ladies are - then I, as a potential client knows exactly who to avoid. Why through private messages? because it rules out the possibility that these ladies *COULD* be reading this forum; and this very thread for that matter as guests and hence, would panic and immediately act on their contigency plans (eg. change names, profile, ad spaces, etc).
There are two sides to every action and intent. The damage is already done, but it's a matter how we control it by sharing information discreetly so we know who to avoid.
BEFORE all of you start flaming me (as I would expect) - I stand by my own ground as honestly neutral. I am neither for nor against condoning Bushseeker for whatever he's done. There's nothing that I've said in the above in purposely or manipulatively supporting the above behaviour. All I'm saying is that this person is gutllessly honest, now that the lesson is earned & learned - it'd be best to hand over some information for the rest of us.
Put it this way, *IF* any of W/Ls that I've been with so far (either through City West, Casey's, Langtrees, etc) caught something that could seriously put my health and wellbeing at risk (upon my next onthespot booking, that is) do I wish someone else would let me knew (privately) about this sooner? Of course!
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On another note - I am open and honest to say that if all the W/Ls on this forum wishes to know my real name, my contact number, my actual health status, or my last HIV test (which was done last year as negative) then yes I'll be open to share that including a full copy&paste of tests, scans, etc. As long as it's not to the point it's used manipulatively, or if it's invasive & punitive and defenitely not in a public space. Thank you.
