Should a guy lose his virginity to a WL?

[asianguy77]

Would u recommend a guy lose his virginity to a WL or does this then place unrealistic expectations and sets the bar too high for his future sex partners?:lol Im sure some of us had forgettable first sexual encounters lol

Anyone here lost their virginity to a WL?

 

[Sanrez]

I lost my virginity to a WL.

At the end of the day I thougtht it was easier to go there.

The girl was nice but unfortunately, the place closed down. Mainly due to the government (my understanding, could be wrong about it though).

 

[Interest]

I imagine it would be much better to lose your virginity the way we all do in the heat of the moment caught up in the passion and drive, not a pre planned visit to a WL. My opinion.

 

[Cristal dirtyslut hotbabe]

Definatley DO NOT loose your virginity to me.....I'm too hardcore for first timers

I will leave you too traumatized....lol


xx

 

[Farm Boy]

Definatley DO NOT loose your virginity to me.....I'm too hardcore for first timers

I will leave you too traumatized....lol


xx

Is there roaring scratching and biting ?

 

[naughtish]

I lost mine to a WL in kingscross, Sydney.. Probably not the best experience but was not too bad.. anyway I have this theory where I feel I am still a virgin, till I actually do the deed with someone I love!

 

[Sanrez]

I did go to Kings Cross before the one in Adelaide but that was just a massage so I didn't really count it.

I am not exactly good to look at so I thought it might be easier to pay for it. She was very nice.

 

[Saige]

I have done many virgins...some of which are now regualrs!!!

But also I dont know aboout you guys but my first time SUCKED...it was awkward and now that I look back very laughable...I think its great for aa guy to go to a good WL and get one away first, take the pressure off, learn some moves and then the first time with a girl he dates he can really make a memorable experience!!

 

[Ishihara]

Personally I did not lose my virginity to a WL. I think I should have. Made so many mistakes the first time it was not funny. This is embarrassing but I actually read a book first. But then again this was a very long time ago. We were both virgins and after much fumbling, false starts and bumps...talk about AWKWARD.

Would it have been better if I had lessons from a WL?

By the way, do WL give lessons?

 

[MaskedOne]

Definatley DO NOT loose your virginity to me.....I'm too hardcore for first timers

I will leave you too traumatized....lol


xx

Ah well damn
Least if I died soon after (or during) I'd fucking die a happy man ;D

 

[sexnut]

Definatley DO NOT loose your virginity to me.....I'm too hardcore for first timers

I will leave you too traumatized....lol


xx

I want to be traumatized!!!!:love10::love10::love10::laughing4:notworthy:notworthy:love10::laughing4

 

[Mary Anne PA]

Ok, so I'm a newbie here [just joined].....WL = "Working Lady"??

 

[newguy]

I'm also asking myself the same question.

 

[Jasmine69]

i have help a few clients loose there virginity as long as you tell the w/l she will try to take it slow and make it a time to remember...... well i know i do for sure i want ur first to be something of a happy memory.:icon_blow:la::-X:notworthy

 

[asianguy77]

i have help a few clients loose there virginity as long as you tell the w/l she will try to take it slow and make it a time to remember...... well i know i do for sure i want ur first to be something of a happy memory.:icon_blow:la::-X:notworthy

Does it excite u knowing its a guys first time? :la:

 

[Jasmine69]

hey there asianguy77, yes it does excite me a little, i also feel special that they chose me to loose it with:notworthy:love10: i also find that thy are wanting us to teach them how to do things so when they get a girl they know what they are doing

 

[crankmaster]

hey if the bloke wants this to be the way he loses his cherry, why not i say, wouldn't be the first or last to do this eh

 

[5ome0ne]

Me!

Advice for shy older virgin guys out there. Just do it, it doesn't help at all with sex performance. I am not sure about unrealistic expectation because I always expect every encounter will be different unlike in porn movie where the script is almost always the same (dirty talk, girl play with herself, blowjob, penetration in various position and cum shot on face where the girl reach orgasm just before the guy pull out for the cum shot. And why is the girl moaning even she is clearly not stimulated!! LOL). Although it is a good script that guys don't get sick of it.

But, losing your virginity helps a lot on the psychology and confidence.

Because I excel on things I do, I don't want to have the embarrassed moment of telling the girl I like that I am a virgin. Also, I don't have to lie to them that I am not a virgin (I don't like to lie unless for a good reason and this is not one of them).

 

[HappyPirate]

I did it with a W/L, I was very young and very sexually frustrated, something had to give (or blow) so I found and add, and went knocking on the door. She was very mature and smiled at me, I handed over my cash and I did not realise it at the time, but, this was my first steps in my life journey. Where ever I live and where ever I roam in this world, I have found a W/L who would open the door and smile at me. So to the first W/L who I never knew her name, I raise my cup of RUM up high and say; - Thank-you

 

[AlexandraSilk]

Ok, so I'm a newbie here [just joined].....WL = "Working Lady"??

Yes, Working Lady. Sex Worker etc

hey there asianguy77, yes it does excite me a little, i also feel special that they chose me to loose it with:notworthy:love10: i also find that thy are wanting us to teach them how to do things so when they get a girl they know what they are doing

Agreed Jasmine. Many WL's not only extremely experience but also very open with our sexuality. It is such a pleasure to be able to teach a man how to pleasure a woman. When the love of his life arrives he will be able to rock her world.

 

[Sensual ~ Vanessa]

The difference between picking up in desperation and seeing a wl...is a wl won't judge
and 'usually' knows sex well enough to be gentle enough to help a virgin get his rocks off for the first time
without all that awkard embarassment with a random desperate encounter

 

[Fleur]

asianguy77

I think its a good idea. I mean if your comfortable with it. The best thing about doing it with a WL is that you can practise, and do it any way you like, anything that your comfortable with, and doesnt put pressure on you to please your sexual partner, but rather the other way around ^_^ and if you have questions on what pleases a lady she will be too happy to show you

But my advice is not to tell her its your first time, it puts pressure on her to make sure everything goes perfect and its a big responsibility, just tell her your nervous and she will try her best to make you comfortable. Definately ask only for someone who does the GFE and passionate french kissing, as this will make your first time great. and book for an hour or more, so you can relax with some champaign and a nice spa together to chat and relax, and it will make it just perfect ^_^

and be a good judge of character, you want someone sweet and fun and down to earth with a sence of humor

Goodluck! Xxo

 

[Gentleman]

I lost my virginity to my girlfriend of the time. I think it's better to be with someone who truly wants to be with you not someone who is only there for the money.

 

[asianguy77]

asianguy77

I think its a good idea. I mean if your comfortable with it. The best thing about doing it with a WL is that you can practise, and do it any way you like, anything that your comfortable with, and doesnt put pressure on you to please your sexual partner, but rather the other way around ^_^ and if you have questions on what pleases a lady she will be too happy to show you

But my advice is not to tell her its your first time, it puts pressure on her to make sure everything goes perfect and its a big responsibility, just tell her your nervous and she will try her best to make you comfortable. Definately ask only for someone who does the GFE and passionate french kissing, as this will make your first time great. and book for an hour or more, so you can relax with some champaign and a nice spa together to chat and relax, and it will make it just perfect ^_^

and be a good judge of character, you want someone sweet and fun and down to earth with a sence of humor

Goodluck! Xxo

Good advice Fleur! Wish I was a virgin, nah come to think of it maybe not. Didn't realize this thread is quite old

 

[5ome0ne]

I lost my virginity to my girlfriend of the time. I think it's better to be with someone who truly wants to be with you not someone who is only there for the money.

I wish that as well, but if you missed the fooling around age at high school and undergrad uni, it is really embarrassing and awkward. Something just doesn't seem right on my dating profile if I write:

Mature, intelligent 24 year old with good sense of humour, will have postgraduate qualification and stable income, professional job, interest include science, computers, fine cuisine, camping and travelling and wait for it... a virgin.

Sure, I can hide the fact, but I don't want to hide it. Now I can tell the girl that I am not very experienced instead.

Like I said, it helps with psychology. You can argue that if I really try, I can still hold out and have that experience of losing virginity with GF, but the virginity thing is what makes me not get a GF first place, so the cycle must break there.

BTW, my date went ok I think. <This is for people who read my other posts.

 

[Master Yoda]

Depends on the WL. I've seen shining examples of when this happens and also seen shocking mistakes made by some poor fellas lol.

 

[stovo82]

You are a virgin guy, you will regret paying a WL. Jerk off for free and save yourself paying $300+ per hour to see a WL. IMHO, sex with a WL does not really count.

 

[Sandi Lang]

Great advice ! Wish i had lost my virginity to a W/G ... ha ha

 

[Sandi Lang]

I remember my first encounter it was awful with a fumbling partner , very memorable for the wrong reasons .

 

[5ome0ne]

You are a virgin guy, you will regret paying a WL. Jerk off for free and save yourself paying $300+ per hour to see a WL. IMHO, sex with a WL does not really count.

I believe our circumstances is just too much of a contrast for us to come to a mutual agreement on what is the best way to proceed on this matter.