I am in total agreement with you but I've also met two conmen (that I know of) in my life so far. One cleaned me right out... totally zero and I suffered for 8 years. I was lucky. He's gone on to different states and changes his name. In Victoria, one poor bastard lost his house. The Sherrif came with the cops to their house and poor traumatized guy was evicted from the place they'd toiled to pay along with his wife carrying her first foetus that was 8 months old. He's toiled away to rebuild.
A victim in Queensland wasn't so lucky when he lost his house to the conman. He committed suicide.
What's all this got to do with the price of eggs in China? Well for this guy to change his name will be very easy. He'll presumably lose weight by dieting, traumatizing over himself, dying his hair, stomach sleeving or "Semaglutiding". If he goes to jail (and I've many good reasons to lose faith in our wonderful legal system when it comes to conmen), so that's a big if, he'll get well and truly buttfucked by other prisoners and then he'll be put in the protected ward where nobody can harm the poor angel. Good - isolation's a fucking killer.
He'll come out (pun unintended) dye his hopefully now greying hair, wear contact lenses, be trim and slim and finally shave off that beard of his.
Voila, new identity and new life while others have to pick up the pieces of their old ones.
God, I scare myself when I'm deep, meaningul, cynical and realistic
Thank you for your response
@doox.
Firstly, let me start by saying how sorry I am to hear of your, and the other fellow victims who fell prey to this con-person.
It is never fair when good honest people are taken advantage of. It truly saddens me that there are people out there who can do such awful things to their fellow man.
The worst type of manipulator is the Wolf in Sheep’s clothing. So often victims are left with a feeling of not only loss, but that deep seated feeling of embarrassment against themselves, that they believed and trusted a bad person.
The negative impact this has on the victims is a domino affect, depression, suicide etc, is evident in your testimony; and unfortunately is a common result of these situations. It’s wrong on so many levels.
I would like to start by apologising and saying that my passionate statement in response to this thread, was hurried.
Seeing BL’s smug face everywhere makes me feel ill.
It is burned into my memory, and will never ever fade.
I do understand however that I am not everyone, and that this may not be the case for all.
You are right in saying that with time, there is the potential for BL to continue his life unsuspecting.
Massive weight loss, removal of facial hair, will most definitely go a long way to change his outward appearance, and with time, inevitable old age will too.
Change to his outward appearance, name change, and retraining in a new field however will do little to alter a persons true character.
BL has a history of behaviour, and this behaviour will not go away with a shave and a nip tuck.
A person like this ‘getting away’ with this type of case, then goes on believing their own delusions, that they can continue this same behaviour again, and get away with it again.
It isn’t a question of wether he will do something like this again, because he will. Entitlement, sleaziness, and arrogance are all tied up in this dudes ego, and that will not go away overnight.
Chatting with an educated friend about this topic just now, who pointed out that BL could go to the US.
No one there gives a shit. He could go and work for the Republicans. With them, being a sleazy rapey scumbag apears to be a necessary qualification for the top roles.
Even if he were to be convicted, they can make exceptions for him to be granted a visa. He would even be put on talk shows…despicable. Pure evil.
I hope Karma comes swiftly for BL.
just as he deserves.
