Sex drive fading fast

[Spunkymunky]

I have recently moved away from Perth to teach up North. I was a bit worried about it as i have a VERY high sex drive and because of the job i'm doing up here, where i'm living and the small town my options for "sexy, playtime, fun" vary from zilch to.....well pretty much zilch really. So i have come up here thinking i will have ten weeks of extreme sexual frustration followed by two weeks in Perth where i can hopefully relieve some tension, then back up here for another term etc.

But since getting here i have had NO sex drive. And for the first week i was homesick/stressed and obviously that would have an impact but it's been two more weeks now and i have no desire to jump anyone, not even myself! I am actually finding it a little concerning. Before leaving Perth i had a "friend" who i was somewhat attached to (read: unrequited feelings) and we did all sorts of dirty stuff and had some awesome sex. And i was horny ALL the time. But now i have zip. No interest. And i am not as stressed now and have spare time to actually think about it. Even dirty books don't do it!!

Maybe i am broken :-(

 

[DeeAnn D]

Maybe its because you are in a small town atm and because of your profession up there that if you would partake in anything sexual there that everybody would know about it and small towns and their gossip LOL maybe thats what frame of mind you are in up there but no doubt when u hit Perth it will be a different matter all systems GO so to speak.

 

[Spunkymunky]

So you think maybe my brain has gone "okay spunky, your body is gonna get you into trouble up here and you like this job so i'm going to kill your libido. It's for the good of us all"

Hmmmm. I like that theory. Although my brains never stepped into help me with this problem before when its gotten me into strife!!

 

[DeeAnn D]

yep i reckon thats what it is your sub conscious is telling you that the mind can be a powerful thing at times. Did you pack your toys LOL...

 

[Spunkymunky]

yep i reckon thats what it is your sub conscious is telling you that the mind can be a powerful thing at times. Did you pack your toys LOL...

Damn right i packed them! I'm sure the airport loved x-raying my bag teehee......havn't had any cause to use them yet though!

Also, i seem to have landed myself with a little itty bitty crush on the ONLY guy in a town full of miners/rig workers who doesn't believe in sex before marriage. Maybe my sub conscious is preparing me for that cos trust me, that's a bit of a change to what i am used to!

 

[DeeAnn D]

Gee

Gee a guy that doesn't believe in sex before marriage thats a rarity LOL. My advice is corrupt him LOL MMMmmmm the mind boogles hey if you get hold of him first LOL.

 

[Spunkymunky]

Well i do love a newbie.......and corruption is always such fun

 

[Spunkymunky]

Damn.....sex drive is creeping back in.....must be all the dirty books i have been reading.....give it a little bit longer (assuming the stress levels dont go through the roof again) and i will be on the prowl for a willing, hapless male to release myself on. I have not had sex or any sort of sexual activity with another person for almost a month. That's the longest i have gone in.......a long time.........

better be careful i dont suffer from internal combustion hehe

 

[westozzywaguy]

gee spunkymunky, you have been holding your self back. i find it hard going a cupple of day not thinking about sex . and i try to only have sex one a month . to enjo it more and since doing that the sex usaly lasts for hours and well if i can walk at the end then i know i should have gone longer . but the females always stop befor i realy get going .haha..

and yes those good dirty books are ok from time to time . and a good hard core dvd always helps the weeks go bye,,,,,,,

 

[Spunkymunky]

I have just been so stressed!! Got into the dirty text msgs last night with a mate as well which relieved some tension hehe. I am considering going out and looking for some discreet fun but it's hard to do in a small town where you teach so many of the kids......and can lead to disaster on the job front if i get busted.

 

[westozzywaguy]

well spunkymonky, you can pm me and we can get into enny horny things you like .....:-X:-X:-X:-X

 

[Spunkymunky]

Hahaha the problem is i live along way away!! Try 1650 kms from Perth! But thanks for the offer

 

[sexiness]

closing thread - SM has moved onto bigger things like online dating and something tells me that drive is returning