Random question for the fellas

[Wooper]

So had a bit of a discussion with someone recently and curious if anyone’s had the experience.
Not talking about actual working girls or people in the industry has anyone actually had the experience of knowing someone who offered to give you sexual services for money or been in a situation where you’ve offered it to help them out and they’ve taken you up on it? Like if so how did that go down ?

 

[offit is an understatement]

Every intimate relationship I've ever had with a woman has been an arrangement of that kind, unspoken predominantly in the beginning. I spent more money on my ex in the last 3 months of our relationship than I spent in a year on myself

 

[johnmatilda]

Every intimate relationship I've ever had with a woman has been an arrangement of that kind, unspoken predominantly in the beginning. I spent more money on my ex in the last 3 months of our relationship than I spent in a year on myself

100% facts. Similar happened to me until I woke up and realised it wasn't VFM.

 

[Shazaam]

Cheaper and easier to just see a sex worker.

 

[Shazaam]

I have had women ask me to "pay". They didn't say exactly what for or how much. A bit perplexing.

 

[Wooper]

Not talking about feeling like your relationship is transactional but it actually being a transaction

 

[Ghost462]

Back in the nineties I was approached by a young woman who needed money and offered sex in exchange. Was a good time for both of us and I never saw her again. So was a positive outcome for both parties.

 

[Vader]

A long time ago when I was 19, a friend of the family (my older sisters best friend) bought her first house. As I was working in landscaping at the time, I got dobbed in to give her garden a clean up. It was summer and very dusty and dirty work. On the first day, she offered me to use the shower.l at the end of the day. This happened each day I worked there. On the last day, I was showering as usual, when the shower curtain was pulled open and she jumped in with me. We (I) fumbled around in the shower for a while then finished off in the bedroom. We never spoke of it to each other after that day. But it made for some interesting glances whenever she was over our house.

 

[johnmatilda]

Not talking about feeling like your relationship is transactional but it actually being a transaction

I reckon all relationships are transactional as each party has something to gain from the other.

 

[sludgie]

I have dated from online sites and been asked after the second or third date can l help out financially. Also had a 25 African girl l knew who called me and asked can l help her out. Questioned what she needed, cash it was and asked what can she do. This arrangement went on and off for 8 months, enjoyed every minute and cent of it. $250 for overnight stay every 2 weeks

 

[Shazaam]

Not talking about feeling like your relationship is transactional but it actually being a transaction

You mean transactions that went through not just vague requests for money.

 

[Wooper]

I reckon all relationships are transactional as each party has something to gain from the other.

Not the point of the question and not relevant to the question

 

[kaibigan]

The short answer is no, never had sex-for-cash offer outside being a customer in the industry. The closest I've come to anything remotely resembling that scenario is being offered a freebie after I did a non-cash favour for a SW.

 

[Danny da man]

Wish had that opportunity to do so instead of looking in the industry where I have more chance getting ripped off

 

[TotalGold]

Yep. I worked in a profession where this was offered to me a few times. (gonna be a bit vague here. because I like my anonymity)

I took advantage of the opportunity several times and also turned down a few uggos.

Had an amazing year with a young lady who I saw frequently for some of the best sex of my life. She was a Mia Malkova lookalike. A PAWG.

We both ended up catching feelings for each other and it got weird in the end. The advantage of a true working lady is that you pay her and she goes away afterwards and doesn't mess with your life. In our case all the lines got blurred and it got really messy in the end. I was married (still am) and although my wife is down for polyamorous love it turned out that my PAWG was not and she wanted me to be exclusive to her.

No regrets though. That booty was sooooo good.