Question from Rj - talkin sex re orgasm

[Mary Anne PA]

Question from Rj - talkin sex re orgasm

Okay, this might sound weird, but when i masturbate i seem to cum and have a really intense orgasm... but when i am with a partner, i still cum, but don't seem to orgasm or enjoy it. Is this normal??? I am a 23 year old male.

 

[JaM]

There is nothing like 'knowing yourself' So... yes I think it is normal in early sex-life in my opinion.

Maybe you need to just experiment more with ur partners... build up excitement.... etc....

I have found that my orgasms were slightly different with each partner that I've had because of my feeling towards them (partner) & the mood I was in plus other stuff....

Then there is the confidence factor I guess, how confident you feel about yourself with the person you are with... The list goes on...

Just keep experimenting....

 

[David Kay]

HI R J .Knowing yourself is rigth firstly now is time to experance soul SEX .Become more sensious and as you become more balanced so your pleasure will increase .Then SEX becomes SYNERGISTIC ENERGY EXCHANGE contact me if i can advise you

 

[Ishca]

when your with yourself sweetheart, i assume, your using either visual props... (magazines or dvd), or your creating a movie within your mind.. we can be excellent directers in our own porn film. we build the moment TILL WE EXPLODE.... now when first with a new partner most of us are a little hesitant to reveal how that movie plays out in our head, it takes time to build the confidence within ourselves, enough to share this with another.
and sadly some people, even those in long term relationships sometimes never do. find a girl on your wavelength don't be afraid to share your inner sexual self, and have fun exploring options together.....good luck, and p.s.... no your not wierd !!!!