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Mrs Langtrees

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Maria you need a little bit more information is you want to achieve responses.Tell us what you perceive to be the perfect catch in my day it was a sex maniac that father owned a brewery.
 

viper

Gold Member
This is truly a perception based question and answer situation. To be honest the perfect catch may come in many shapes and sizes but in the end the only answer is love which blinds us, it binds us and see past flaws to see only perfection.
 
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WRXXXR

Some of the things I look for in no particular order...

Confident, physically attractive, caring, thoughtful, honest, motivated, likes out door activities but isn't a tomboy, someone who can challenge me and keep me in line... List keeps going lol
 
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Perth boy

Small build, non smoker, smart, affectioet, romantic, fit & healthy, likes kids, good family values, has a positive attatued, no hang ups, great cook, dominant in bedroom but submissive out of bedroom, and loves life.
 
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JasRob

A perfect catch would be a girl I could bring home to my mom and introduce it to the rest of my family. Someone who could cook good food for me and I can grow old with...a little drama but that's true....
 
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Naughty Thoughts

To me, a "catch" can mean different things, with different responses.

What I'd be looking for in a "perfect" one night stand is going to be drastically different to what I'd be looking for in a "perfect" long term relationship.
 
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Perth boy

To me, a "catch" can mean different things, with different responses.

What I'd be looking for in a "perfect" one night stand is going to be drastically different to what I'd be looking for in a "perfect" long term relationship.

So lone road you are talking about a good girl and a naughty girl.
 
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Naughty Thoughts

For some people, that would be the drastic simplification. A "good girl" who cooks and cleans, stays at home to raise the kids and goes to church on Sundays to be "the wife", and a "bad girl" who is kinky, a nymphomaniac, unrestrained and willing to do anything for a "one night stand" or a "holiday romance".

That's not what I'm talking about. Given the specific question asked, what would change depending on the short term / long term relationship would be just what makes for a "perfect" status.

For example, if I was looking for someone whom I wanted a short term relationship with, then I might look for someone who liked to travel. Go on the Indian Pacific, travel abroad, see the big cities in Europe. That might be considered a "perfect" trait in someone with whom I was only anticipating a short relationship.

However, if I was looking for someone for a long term relationship, then "the travel bug" could be an undesirable trait since travel is expensive. I'd need to be on a six figure income if I was in a long term relationship with someone who wanted to spend three months every year travelling the world, and doing sea cruises in the Mediterranean every winter.

Still over-simplifying, I don't think I'd like a good girl that was always good, or a naughty girl that was always naughty.
 
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Perth boy

And Loan that is ware some guys have a good girl at home and the W/L is our naughty girl.
 
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Farm Boy

What do you believe makes the perfect catch in a woman?

One that's caught , remember this

A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush

Even the bible has this .

Ecclesiastes IX - A living dog is better than a dead lion.



Other languages and cultures have their own version of this proverb, notably the Czech 'Lepsi vrabec v hrsti nez holub na strese' (A sparrow in the fist is better than a pigeon on the roof.).
 
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fourpot

Similar values is a must. Hard working (at whatever she does). And as others have said before, being a good cook is a bonus!

I also believe that she can't be too ugly. I think every guy would have an idea of what their lower limit would be (ie. a seven out of ten). They would happily go above that but generally never below (unless she had a stellar personality)
 
C

Contrarian

The perfect catch? A ladder in her stocking with a huge hole in it.

Alternatively, if her hair has knots in it. Though I guess for some people a perfect catch is a hooker - though I suspect it'd cause a lot of pain even if they are fish.

There's no such thing as a perfect catch. The catch is not to have any predeterminates of what perfection is I'd suspect or else you'd forever be disappointed.
 
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