Quest for the Grail

[mrys]

I know everyone has a different punting ‘technique’ or MO particularly when searching for a regular WL. So I thought I would share mine in the hope others will share theirs too. I’m never to old to learn new tricks from seasoned punters

Here are my initial steps:

1. Find an ad I like and research the hell out of the advertiser
2. If all checks out…..a first text which is respectful, honest and interesting
3. If I get a response, analyse the response, Is it welcoming or blunt etc
4. If I like the response I will text back and ask if it’s ok to call for a chat
5. If yes I will call and have some brief banter, do I like her voice, can she string 4 words together, is she engaging
6. I will ask if she wants to meet for a coffee and I will pay for her time……no sex just chat.
7. If she agrees and the price is agreed we will meet. I will always put the cash in a nice card that I hand over at the beginning
8. We chat, I will ask questions and encourage her to do the same. Mostly superficial stuff designed to get some ‘feel’ for each other
9. After 30 minutes I will know if I want to see her again and she will know if she wants to see me again, if the chat if going well it always goes overtime
10. In the chat I always ask about favourite wine, flower etc etc so when I see her next I will bring a gift
11. Obviously I always try to be fresh, well dressed, articulate, interesting and a good listener
12. The sex is way better for me if I invest the time in finding someone I’m attracted to and like!
13. I’m single so I may ask her out for dinner/outings if she’s comfortable with that and we get along well

This process works for me, I understand it may not work for others. What’s your process to find the right regular WL for you?

 

[WildBrumby]

@mrys Great thoughts, thanks for sharing.

Biggest one for me is investing time playing the long game not just a short play.

Yes when time is invested in the lead up to intercourse it is so much more enriching for me.

I was seeing a lady for years getting waxing done and always admired her sexually but out of respect never instigated the desire to.

Then one day she surprised me and we started passionately kissing which progressed to what I feel is the most intense, beautiful sex I’ve experienced.

A couple more occasions this has happened for me also and was so beautiful. I have patience playing the long game if I know the result is worth it.

 

[mrys]

@mrys Great thoughts, thanks for sharing.

Biggest one for me is investing time playing the long game not just a short play.

Yes when time is invested in the lead up to intercourse it is so much more enriching for me.

I was seeing a lady for years getting waxing done and always admired her sexually but out of respect never instigated the desire to.

Then one day she surprised me and we started passionately kissing which progressed to what I feel is the most intense, beautiful sex I’ve experienced.

A couple more occasions this has happened for me also and was so beautiful. I have patience playing the long game if I know the result is worth it.

Thanks @WildBrumby you sum it up well with your reference to the long game! It's like most things in life.....you only get out what you put in. How good is it when a smouldering admiration for someone suddenly ignites, I bet your waxing was never the same again!!!!

 

[WildBrumby]

Thanks @WildBrumby you sum it up well with your reference to the long game! It's like most things in life.....you only get out what you put in. How good is it when a smouldering admiration for someone suddenly ignites, I bet your waxing was never the same again!!!!

I tend to smile to myself when I make mention of such things then get requests in my In-Box by hopeful punters thinking they can just walk in and get the same result first visit.

It’s all about building relationships/friendships, trust and respect.

I used to have the same result in dating apps. Take my time, obtain results.

A lot of guys think that by sending dick pics is magically going to get results or by talking dirty.

 

[mrys]

I tend to smile to myself when I make mention of such things then get requests in my In-Box by hopeful punters thinking they can just walk in and get the same result first visit.

It’s all about building relationships/friendships, trust and respect.

I used to have the same result in dating apps. Take my time, obtain results.

A lot of guys think that by sending dick pics is magically going to get results or by talking dirty.

Hahaha, you are so right with the dick pics and trash talk. What possess a man to think his dick is irresistible All bow before me and my boner WTF. Some of the wildest sex I've ever had was with a woman who I thought was very conservative at the beginning. The more trust and respect we built the more she let go.....OMG she is in my top 3 all time greats!!