PSE or GFE?

  • PSE- Hot & heavy

    Votes: 11 17.5%
  • GFE- Intimacy & affection

    Votes: 28 44.4%
  • Or a mix of both?

    Votes: 24 38.1%

  • Total voters
    63
A

Ava Valentine

What do you prefer as either a client or service provider- GFE or PSE, and why? Or is it a a mix of the two? What do you define as the key difference between GFE and PSE? x
 
W

wingman

GFE for the affectionate kissing

But i guess the line between the 2 has blurred a lot in recent times?
 
M

Mary Anne PA

I also like the GFE for the kissing, but as things hot up they can progress very rapidly and become more raw sex. If both parties respond well they can stimulate each other and all hell breaks loose (with Ava anyway!)
 
N

Naughty Thoughts

I always assumed that GFE would be more intimate and PSE would be a louder, over-the-top type deal.
 

Demon

Legend Member
GFE, as I like to connect with the lady. PSE is impersonal and done to you as a client by a PS.
 

ecchimiki

Gold Member
What do you prefer as either a client or service provider- GFE or PSE, and why? Or is it a a mix of the two? What do you define as the key difference between GFE and PSE? x

Definitely GFE. Kissing and eye contact are important.

Not exactly sure what PSE is actually supposed to entail.
 
S

sexnut

Can't you have them both? Start kissing cuddling and end up in wild hot sex

Define pse please
 

Miss Delights

Diamond Member
PSE can be really hot if done right & I think it should include all the intimacy that GFE has but louder & sweatier & kinkier...

I have added a poll so we can see easier.
 

Demon

Legend Member
Can't you have them both? Start kissing cuddling and end up in wild hot sex

Define pse please

GFE still includes wild hot sex.

PSE is detached, and not always wild and hot.

I find that when you have the right chemistry with a woman the sex is wilder and hotter, than when just with her for sex.

While you are paying a WL for sex, with the right chemistry it goes further to GFE.

PSE promises wild and hot. Many WLs who promise PSE, really mean they a model looks material. The sex is usually ho-hum.

Most GFE girls get wild and hot if you give them the BFE experience.

Can't expect a GFE from a lady if you don't treat her as a GF, as the lady needs to get into it as well to give a true GFE.

:eek:ccasion14
 
R

Roger1

What do you prefer as either a client or service provider- GFE or PSE, and why? Or is it a a mix of the two? What do you define as the key difference between GFE and PSE? x

I prefer the PSE. I personally don't like the GFE when it is taken to its extreme, i.e. the WL pretending to be your girlfriend. I dislike it because it is fake, not to mention pathetic (i.e. having to pay someone to pretend to be your girlfriend). In my punting experience, I have encountered WLs who try to lead you on by pretending that they like you as if they were your girlfriend with no other purpose than to attract your custom. I find this sort of behaviour from a WL to be repugnant, as I dislike dishonesty in any relationship, even that of the WL and her client.
 
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S

Saige

I like the/my perfect mix of dirty girl and girl friend experince....hot and heavy but with intimacy and connection xxx
 
G

Ghost Protocol

one requires 'fluffers' on hand, shouting "cut" when you cum early ., and a retake after the fluffers have done their job again... viagra , and alot of ecstasy fed to an unsuspecting victim , and then stealing the payment from her purse , while she is out of it .. lol

the other is someone nagging you about shopping , the new shoes she wants and generally anything but focusing on what you are doing ..

=D

its just sex for money , sounds more like role play to me
peace
j
 
A

Ava Valentine

thanks for the responses everyone- it's great that there's been such variance in opinions x
 

jlmiller

Gold Member
Quite interesting in that the I tried the GFE and was totally not into it.. mainly because she (W/L) isn't a g/f. I treat my g/f totally different wine, dine, laugh, more wine, sex or all vareity, a good cuddle and more sex.. try that in an hour and let me know if it's the same... NOT.. PSE is totally over rated and I do not see the point in degrading a woman.
I would rather we treat each other nice, be real, some talking, laughing, a nice relaxing massage to get worked up, no gfe or pse, just nice and fun intimacy and sex if requested...
 
H

humbug

Definitely GFE for me. I want an experience which is at least half real. I don't want the girl to perform. you want to make some form of connection.
 

muffdiver

Gold Member
Like to start with a bit of gfe then pse sometimes, but always like pse from the moment the door opens and we are straight into it, other times
 

Sensual ~ Vanessa

Gold Member
If there is a connection, then it takes its own personal sexual pathway.
That can vary depending on the personalities of the people connecting :)

GFE to me is a loose term to indicate what way the sexual intimacy
will sway, its not set in stone, its usually a more sensual relaxed time, has
a natural flow about it. I naturally flow into this style of intimacy, so its
my preferred way.

PSE is something I can do and is something that happens occasionally if
the chemistry is right but rarely do I flow with this style and if I have, its because
the chemistry was right for it :)
 

sunyun

Legend Member
I far prefer the GFE. All the pornos I have seen featuring professionals tend to be a bit boring. They appear to be mostly interested in how many different ways, and angles they enter the lady, and they just go on and on ! (Maybe I am a bit jealous !).

I prefer to watch amateurs who appear to be really enjoying the activity. I can relate to them more.

So then I prefer the GFE because I am not into just seeing how many angles I can enter her from !

Most of my sex happens in my head. So I look for someone to help me along, not just a pretty face/body.

Just my thoughts !

Cheers.
 
A

Alecia the Foxx

You are correct Sunyun. Amateur porn is very popular. I prefer to call it "real life porn."
 
B

BigBoy69

Yes, far more real, and in many ways can be even raunchier / dirtier than the fake stuff
 
S

Saige

I love a mix of both... a great intimate connection with that hot, sexy cant get enough of all of it PSE :)

ohhhhh yeh...and the mind wonders.....:)
 
B

BigBoy69

I love a mix of both... a great intimate connection with that hot, sexy cant get enough of all of it PSE :)

ohhhhh yeh...and the mind wonders.....:)

Let your mind, as well as the rest of you wander over my way, please Saige. ;D
 
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