prostitution: would you go to one if you were in my position

[chiro]

hey there.

ill keep this short, dont want to go too deeply into my life story but in a nutshell:

im on a wheelchair, ive been physically disabled since birth. i am 35 years old and have never been in a relationship, never had sex or even experience an orgasm (cant masturbate)... i have been thinking about going to a prostitute. i figure if i cant find a partner on my own i can atleast have the chance not to die a virgin. i dont consider prostitution as 'evil' as everyone makes it out to be. i have read articles about physically disabled people going to sex workers for help etc.. i am just a little scared of the consequences (people finding out, spending too much money etc...)

i would just like to know some of your opinions, do you think this is the right way to go about this?

(if you feel the need to insult me or something go ahead, it just confirms what kind of person you are)

 

[littlebighorn]

wheel chair warrior or woos

Very intresting. It is quite amazing peoples perception of working girls and the pro's and cons{excuse the pun}.

Firstly from reading and observing these forums i would say that 99% of the working ladies are extremley professional.These girls provide a service .And one must remember that's what it is.
Many people use there services for multiple reasons. They do not have a girl, there spouse will not give out. There partners will not do certain things. Perhaps they have a kinky fantasy that the want to play out,maybe they do not want sex,perhaps they just need someone to chat too. Maybe they are from out of town and just want a rub and tug{massage and wank}. People that are really maimed, cripples like yourself. Most people would go to a working girl for a certain service. Look at your self you can't even have a frikin wank!!!!! I am sure there are ladies here that can help you... if you live alone perhaps they can come and see you, dressed as a nurse or carer for your privacy. These are professional people and know what they are doing. You need to do this thing for yourself and with out sounding callous it sound's like you my mate are going to have a few prob's going out and picking up a chick.So get on the phone call the receptionist say at langtrees and sort yourself out . At least you can get an indication of prices ect. Good luck to you...i hope you attain that happy ending.

 

[21yrstevo]

id go for it good luck mate

 

[melissa@talkinsex]

Hi chiro thanks for posting

If I was a woman in a wheelchair I think I would first ask my male friends if they where willing to be physical with me and if not would defiantly consider paying for a sex worker.

Are you able to get an erection and do you have wet dreams? I have put on my web site that I do see disabled guys but at the moment my only experience has been with a gentleman with slight cerebral palsy and a young guy with about 20% sight.

Have you done a search on the Internet for sex workers experienced with the disabled? I will try later.

:alien:

 

[chiro]

my condition (muscular dystrophy) is a progressive muscle weakening disorder, when i was in my teens i was able to masturbate fully, over the years my arms started to get weaker, so i can no longer move my arms very much without causing pain, i still get full erections, i just dont have the strength to do the rest...

i noticed on your website you have a link to pentagon grand brothel on the gold coast, i was wondering if you could tell me a bit about their services (how helpful they are etc) if you could send me a pm or reply here that would be great.

 

[melissa@talkinsex]

Dateline

Hi chiro was that link on Langtrees date line website? Serena or Mary Anne may know more about brothels over east, or maybe some of our eastern state forum members can help

 

[bubbyslave]

hi there

hi, im only new on this site but i have been in the indusry for a few years.
I have worked in sydney mainly and most brothells are disability friendly. And if you felt uncomfortable about going there most places also offer out calls.....

 

[bettie]

Touching Base and Sugar Touch

Hi, I've just found a couple of sites that may help.

This one is Australian, and based in NSW -

Link is broken,so has been taken down

and this one is from the US, but may advertise Australian escorts in future -

Link is broken,so has been taken down

Both have some really great information as well as stories from clients and workers.

When I get around to touring SA, I'll look you up!

 

[sumguy]

Maybe a bit late, but I'm surprised you think anyone here would have anything other than empathy for your plight.

Is there a male friend you could ask for assistance finding the right service?

You don't want to waste your time and money by spending 40 minutes for the worker to sort out the dos and don'ts before you get down to business.

It seems to me you want an experienced person who will be comfortable with your disability. Probably a home visit if possible.

As to price, if someone charges substantialy more than the average rate, ask why.

In general - forget any stereotype you had about prostitutes, or you might be disappointed. they are never like they are portrayed on television, (usually poorly portrayed), or as great as they seem in the movies.

I've only been with a handful of sex workers over the years, (last one more than a decade ago now), before I decided they weren't for me, but they ranged in personality a lot. From nice to nasty, (and I didn't even pay extra!).

Oh and for any sex workers reading this... tales about how your "only doing this because of your failed business", or about how your "boyfriend doesn't like you doing this but you've got to pay the mortgage", aren't turn-ons, maybe as a fetish to someone but not your average punter

Good luck Chiro