prostitution: should i go to one?

[chiro]

hey there.

not sure what the policy here is on double posting threads but i typed this up in the general forum then found 'adults with disablities' lol

ill keep this short, dont want to go too deeply into my life story but in a nutshell:

im on a wheelchair, ive been physically disabled since birth. i am 35 years old and have never been in a relationship, never had sex or even experience an orgasm (cant masturbate)... i have been thinking about going to a prostitute. i figure if i cant find a partner on my own i can atleast have the chance not to die a virgin. i dont consider prostitution as 'evil' as everyone makes it out to be. i have read articles about physically disabled people going to sex workers for help etc.. i am just a little scared of the consequences (people finding out, spending too much money etc...)

i would just like to know some of your opinions, do you think this is the right way to go about this?

 

[bushseeker]

seen plenty theres no shame or anything. sex is like eating - it fulfills a need




Unfortunatly the vast majority of working girls thats about all you will achieve they promise the earth but once they haveyou in the door you recieve crap service ( I have had them clean the floor and try and claim that on my time, show up with 1 condom for 1 hour, piss off after 42 minutes (1 hour paid for) make you come once in the first 15 minutes and leave after you have paid for an hour. Get you to pay for 45 min give you 1/2 hour of service than sit back and smoke bongs for the last 15 minutes and the misery goes on!) so IF you find a good girl stick to her. I only found 1 or 2 out of many and one of those I suspected my wallet was extra lightened afer I left and she ended up getting arrested for flogging a guys wallet and trying to make off out of his window with it!!
DO YOUR RESEARCH!!

 

[chiro]

thats also another problem, i wouldnt know where to start looking..... i live on the gold coast in queensland (near surfers paradise) got any tips?

 

[Sir Stefan]

Hi Chiro, No matter where you live or what your personal situation you will find there are some very accomodating Ladies in the Industry that will assist you with your needs, some are vary compassionate, not all are gold-diggers. Take youe time and make some discreet enquiries, you've waited 35 years so it's best to plan the 'big event'. Make some enquiries through your disabilities services commission (Or the QLD equivalent) they have many people in a similar position to yourself and can guide you in the best direction. Don't be embarrassed, sex is NOT a dirty word, You and I are both in this world because someone enjoyed the pleasure of having sex.... regards and good luck.... above all... Enjoy!

 

[svengali]

I wish we could get rid of that ugly word "prostitution". it has such a nasty ring to it.

Bushseeker and Sir Stefan are both right in their own ways.

Most of what Bushseeker describes I have experienced at one time or other (except for the bong-smoking bit)There are ladies out there who will take your money, promise the earth and not deliver. Not all are angels either and for that reason I would never have an escort come to my home where she could scope out my chattels and security for a later visit by low-life burglars.

On the plus side, I have known some lovely ladies who have shown me the kind of affection and consideration that many married men do not get. I treasure these ladies and treat them with the respect they deserve.

Some ladies will take on disabled guys and others can't or won't so In your shoes (or on your wheels;D ) I would scope out a quality house, contact them by 'phone and ask straight out if there is wheelchair access and if they have anyone who can handle your particular needs. If the sex industry is legal in Queensland that makes it all the easier as, perhaps, the disability services people could help. Otherwise, you may be able to find a local bulletin board like this one which could offer some inside info and tips. definitely, research thoroughly before committing yourself.

Finally, do not feel guilty or dirty about this. You only get one shot at life and more people die regretting things they didn't do than things they did.

 

[chiro]

ive researched a bit about the legal side, and in quennsland its more or less all legal unless theyre unregistered ones off the street, which i wouldnt go to in the first place.

im guessing my best bet would be legit brothels which ive found a few around my area. i cant call one to come to my house, i still live with my parents unfortunately and they are very old fashioned about the matter, ive tried talking to them about it but their ideas are that its evil and impure to pay for sex. i was caught watching porn once a few years ago and i have yet to hear the end of it..... so im trying to find the best way to get there without any evidence...

 

[Mary Anne PA]

do you have any mates that can pick you up for a bit of a night out, and they can take you there and maybe wait for you.

It's always best to talk to a receptionist in a brothel and explain everything upfront and what your looking for. If they recommend someone, then they are involving their own reputation to pick the right person for you, so should work out alright better than maybe trying to work it out yourself chatting to some of them although you can get a good idea of it.

 

[Miranda Fox]

hey

hiya Chiro,
I understand your situation, living at home etc.
As Serena suggested, a night out with a mate or two is a great idea. Visit a Brothel or two, see what they are like and what ladies they have on offer. In Queensland the Laws for the Sex Industry is Legal. Illegal in QLD is Natural Oral to a man or to a working lady.

I am a Private Working Lady and I do travel around Australia. In my travels, I have seen a number of disabled men. One man could not talk, intell disabled, his Father rang me and organised the booking to see his son.

Best of luck to you Chiro.

Miranda xxx

 

[Mary Anne PA]

Hey Chiro,

I was a stripper for 5 years (planning on going back into the clubs, after a break) and always loved disabled custies. I would even do a private dance under the horrible fluoro lights in the dressing room, as the club private rooms werent wheelchair accessable, as I think that everyone should get to have fun;-)

Dont be shy about going to see a lady, try calling around a few places and making sure that they are accessable. They may also have an expert who has experience with chair guys.

I wish you much pleasure.

Let us know how you go!

Luv C

 

[johnlou]

chiro :
try giveing Amy Munroe a call or click on link.http://www.amy-escort.com/
all the best in ur journey

 

[brokenbikerNZ]

Hey chiro.

hey there.

not sure what the policy here is on double posting threads but i typed this up in the general forum then found 'adults with disablities' lol

ill keep this short, dont want to go too deeply into my life story but in a nutshell:

im on a wheelchair, ive been physically disabled since birth. i am 35 years old and have never been in a relationship, never had sex or even experience an orgasm (cant masturbate)... i have been thinking about going to a prostitute. i figure if i cant find a partner on my own i can atleast have the chance not to die a virgin. i dont consider prostitution as 'evil' as everyone makes it out to be. i have read articles about physically disabled people going to sex workers for help etc.. i am just a little scared of the consequences (people finding out, spending too much money etc...)

i would just like to know some of your opinions, do you think this is the right way to go about this?

Mate, its been awhile since I have been with a working girl, sometimes I payed and others they came to me for free. At the end of the day the decision is all yours, however if your asking, its probably something you want to do. If I was in your situation, hell yes, I would for sure. I'm relatively new to being a paraplegic and know what its like to be with several women. Its something I hope to be able to do again, but my fiance split after my injuries. However life is not that bad as I have a female friend who as it would seem, want to help me out in that area and wanted me both before and after the accident. Being a horney male, I'm patiently waiting for her to turn up so we can have some fun. Thats what its all about brother, having fun. So if your keen on some fun of your own, go for it brother!