I have not had good experiences with parlors - I am not young and good looking, so the girls don't come flocking to me, and then there is the whole thing of asking, 'do you do DFK ?', etc.
Yeah, I'm much the same. No longer young and whilst I do my best and try to look after myself, physically and hygiene wise, etc, etc, yeah, I'm not usually swamped
Its all fine, I understand and I'm good with it, I try to push the balance in my favour here with girls I try and like by tipping ridiculously haha, that usually works out well for second and subsequent visits
The thing with parlours I really dislike is that you can't believe basically anything that they say. They might as well say nothing at all insofar as transferral of information goes. Its all about getting you in the door.
I used to ask direct questions that required yes or no answers, such as "is Sunny working"? This type of thing - but inevitably, the answer is yes, and if you ask for specific extras that answer is always 'yes' as well - you turn up and all the girls are different, the extras are off the table, etc ,etc.
Nowadays I ask leading questions ... "who is working" and "what extras are available".
Find someone you like, and they may not be on next time - I have booked, but when I got there, she was with someone else - and the thought of waiting in a room full of strangers who all know why I am there is off-putting, and when she is free, she comes out a bit out of breath, .......
Yeah its a somewhat weird thing eh? We all know why we're there, We all know that popular shops (or privates) are going to provide the girls with 6-8-10+ customers a day, yet I still remember thinking 'ugh..' a while back when the girl I booked was running late due to an outcall. She arrived looking flustered and tired.
When I find a good private, I tend to see only her as long as she is still working, and not busy when I email.
I like to see the same few girls regularly and build a bit of a relationship so that they know me and can relax with me and I can relax with them.
Yes, definitely this. I too search out 3-4-5 girls that I really like and try to follow them as they move about, I've rarely found a private girl who stays put for more than a few months at a time.
I'd actually be happy enough with just 1 or 2, but its a constantly evolving landscape out there, girls moving on, going on holidays, or just being busy, etc, etc.