Perth boy is no longer. Goodbye everyone.

[Perth boy]

Being a long term member on this forum I have seen many come and go over the years. Now it’s my turn to depart and in a week I want to turn off my profile.
I have made some good friends on this forum and have met a few of you. The ones that have my personal contact details I am happy to stay in contact. I will be online for a week and if anyone wants my email PM me.
I came to this forum because I had sexual issues in my marriage. My wife was sexually abused as a child and she finds it difficult to be intimate. About 3 years ago I got busted with Steph our R&T girl because Steph sent me a text and the wife read it. Some may remember that thread. This has destroyed her over the past few years and she started drinking very heavy. Perth boy became another side of my life that I didn’t want but didn’t feel I have a choice with my sexual frustration.
Four months ago we separated and both started moving on. When I started internet dating a few weeks ago I soon realised I didn’t want any other lady for a relationship. I loved my wife, she was my soul mate and life partner. Last week I asked her back into my life. She then told me she has stopped drinking and sorting out her life. Last night we agreed to be in a relationship again. To be fair to her and to clear my head I have deleted all online forums I have been on, I have deletes all contact details for all W/L. I have a girl in Thailand that holds a place in my hart I skyped her this morning and told her I cannot contact her anymore.
So that’s Perth boy’s story. Thanks everyone for your support and chats over the years.

PB

 

[Joopdoderen]

Hi Perth Boy,

Fully understand, thanks for sharing so much.

Joop

 

[Madam Jacqui]

Hi Perth boy, It's good to see a Gentleman with a Big heart. Good on you. All the Best and Enjoy your Future with your Mrs...........

 

[Happy2]

Yep good for you Perth Boy
Heres hoping it all works out well for the pair of you

It has been fun chatting with you

 

[sunyun]

Hi Perth boy,

I have enjoyed reading your posts, and will miss you.

Hope it all works out for you.

Best wishes.

 

[sparky]

Well Done Perthboy
Gutsy move deleting all forums, hope it works out and we don't see you back again (for the right reasons).

 

[Tannerone]

Congratulations Perthboy. You have great courage in explaining your reasons for leaving and I think we all express our best wishes for you both in the future.
Goodbye.

 

[Dallas]

Hi Perth Boy, it was great to meet you last weekend and I've really enjoyed our chats. Hope it all works out for you! Will miss your posts, and the best of luck to both of you.

 

[svengali]

Good luck Perthboy.

The demon drink can be a difficult thing to overcome but if she has decided to quit for herself and got herself back on track it should work out. For your part, dumping "Perthboy" and committing to the relationship is the right move.

All the best for the future.

 

[HappyPirate]

Good Luck Bro PerthBoy, You got a big Heart and have great courage, I am sure your marriage will blossom, best wishes to you both in the future.

 

[Langtrees VIP Perth 3]

good luck Perth Boy. A good marriage takes a lot of work from both parties and I admire you for taking on this new challenge.
Also being a woman that was sexually abused as a child I can relate to your wife's hidden demons but it takes a real man to stand by her and hold her hand through what is often a very lonely dark journey.
I applaud you and today a little bit of faith in mankind has been restored xx

 

[DDxoxo]

PerthBoy..
It is good to know that you have a 2nd chance...

I can only wish you the best with the lovely wife!
I truly believe in soul mates - so Best Wishes!

So the first time I am saying ... I am hoping not to see you on line again!​

 

[Al Swearengen]

Take care, pb! I hope it works out for you! I enjoyed chatting with you the other week. Sincerely, I hope it works out the way you hope it does.

 

[colzilla]

Once a punter always a punter.

 

[Happy2]

Once a punter always a punter.

C'mon Col There is a time and place for your cynicism
Just wish PB the best Eh?

 

[sparky]

C'mon Col There is a time and place for your cynicism
Just wish PB the best Eh?

well said
gotta give people a break and wish them the best in life
cant be cynics all the time
hope it all works out PB
don't listen to the haters

 

[colzilla]

I wished him good luck via PM.

 

[Smoggy]

Perth boy I think many on this site can relate to your story. To share a voyage of sexual discovery with a loving partner is something few ever achieve. As individuals we all have our hang ups and reasons that bring us into this secret world. For some this is an outlet that saves a relationship and for others it may be pure sexual desire.

Sometimes its difficult to appreciate what you have until its gone. You have been fortunate to be given a second chance with a lady you clearly love. To give up this world for her is an easy decision and I'm sure that we all wish you and your wife well.

 

[garibaldi]

Been great reading your posts and input.

All the best Perth boy!
May it all work out well

G.

 

[weepingeye]

Big challenge PB. Wouldn't come to one not worthy of it.

All the best.

 

[Tania Admin]

May your life bring you much happiness in all you choose to do. You will be missed but good on you.
Take Care

 

[Langtrees VIP 6]

To Map out a course of action and follow it to an end requires courage,

I sense you already have that from your touching story.
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I truly believe you & your wife will be successfully xo ​

 

[Ms Sue]

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Glad to see you have found your love of your life....
Good luck with all that you both do...
xoxoxo​

 

[Rochelle]

Will miss you on the Forum.........but I think it is a great decision, good on you guys. Wish you all the best of luck.

R.xxxxxxx

 

[Lana]

Good luck Perth Boy, wishing you all the best
you will be missed on the forum

Lana

 

[Treaturself]

catchya seadog!!!!!!

 

[homer]

I thought you've gone through puberty and became PerthMan. lol...but hey all the best to you both. Good to hear you've chosen the path you want. ccasion14

 

[bushbabe]

All the very best wishes PerthBoy. Haven't met, but have always enjoyed reading your posts.
Hope that all goes well for you and the missus........ I know what you are going through as I have some of the same issues...... just needs time to sort out.
I know that when you think back to your "Forum Days" a wee smile will appear..... don't be too obvious.... LOL
CHEERS

 

[viper]

Well done to you. May the future be fruitful for both o you.

 

[Sir Stefan]

Congratulations PerthBoy, for having the Courage to share with fellow forum members...Bon Voyage and take care of each other.