Performance problems

[pause78]

Two performance problems I thought I'd try and get some advice from you guys on:

1) I have a psychological problem that makes it difficult to cum with a girl, self stimulation is no problem. If someone else is in the room, much a much harder time Have had it all my sexual life.

2) When I do cum the volume is small, and I have cloudy urine afterwards. Doing research it's like retrograde ejaculation where there's a plumbing problem and the baby batter goes into the bladder, but my urologist is adamant that that's not it. As to what it IS then, no guidance was forthcoming.

Firstly, anyone had anything like either of those two issues? And secondly, what can I do about them?

I know I'll need professional help most likely, but if anyone can recommend anyone (pm if you want to keep names private) that would be VERY much appreciated!

The side effect from my issues are that (fitness permitting, another problem) I can last for hours in the bedroom and my partners love it. (If you're reading this Jasmine, this is why I can't wait to book you ) But I frequently leave my partner completely satisfied while I'm on the other side of the bed exhausted wanting to cum.

I hear about premature ejaculation and think "you lucky bastard"

If anyone can offer and advice, stories or information I'd be very grateful!

 

[svengali]

Well, I am not a doctor but I do believe that the problem is more likely to be between your ears than between your legs.

If the urologist was halfway competent he would have made sure that everything downstairs was in good working order and that is about as far as his speciality goes. It may be worth your while to ask your G.P. to refer you to a specialist is sexual dysfunction. These people are usually closer to being psychologists than medical specialists and have helped quite a lot of people with sexual problems.

 

[pause78]

Good point, thanks, will give that a go. There's 'functioning' in the physiological sense, and if that's the main or only thing the urologist is concerned with then I need to look elsewhere for help.

Thanks again

 

[Saige]

I agree 100 % and was thinking that as I read it....I see it in men SO much that and not just your issue in particular...but whatever it is for that particular person...you can see it ticking over in there brain almost and they trying too hard because they over thinking and it just goes round and round.

See someone great sex councillor at Mt Lawley clinic (google it)..but besudes that try and gett up in the moment and stop worrying about the end result.

MEN...stop worrying about how much quantity of come you have...the only one its an issue for...however if your urine is cloudy and not alot of cum...you be quite dehydrated do youb drink min 2litres of water a day??? I knw when I have on an occasson been very dehydrated I didnt get really wet like I normally do even though sex was mind blowing....

xxx

 

[aaronbell]

Your performance will not be good if you are struggling with ED problem due to which men finds difficulty to achieve erection. To Boost Your performance you can ask your doctor for the treatment and it solutions. Medications like Viagra Generic can help to such people who struggles for quality erection. It can produce outstanding results for you and your performances level will go up.

 

[greenfield]

Try consuming something that improve your blood circulation. eg, ox tail soup with tong kwai and pepper or mutton soup.
I on the other hand have a different problem, I cum too quick, but it remains interested and hard, but most ladies only offer a single shot or the level of service that they offer do not fit my category of multiple shots. Hence I mostly reserve my spending on selected touring ladies.