People who are having a love-sex relationship

[Clare]

People who are having a love-sex relationship are continuously lying to each other because the very nature of the relationship demands that they do because you have to make a love object of this person, which means that you editorialize about them. You cut out editorialize about them. you cut out what you don't want to see, you add this if it isn't there. And so, therefore, you're building a life.

 

[Be Nice]

Well I’m confused

 

[Nev]

People who are having a love-sex relationship are continuously lying to each other because the very nature of the relationship demands that they do because you have to make a love object of this person, which means that you editorialize about them. You cut out editorialize about them. you cut out what you don't want to see, you add this if it isn't there. And so, therefore, you're building a life.

Lying to each other, or lying to themselves?

 

[Sexty8]

They don’t have to be lying….standing, sitting, in the shower etc etc etc