Partners and punting

[No longer here]

Something that I have always wondered about, and since it seems a good place to ask, I will.

How many guys continue to visit W/Ls or massage girls when they enter a relationship? Or start whilst in a relationship?
Since it's not love, does it make the visits 'less' cheating?

I had my first massage in Phuket whilst visiting with a then girlfriend, and you know how massages go in Phuket right?

Well, being young, I decided to give it a go. A beautiful Thai girl offering a BJ? My girlfriend at the time was a lovely girl, and I had no complaints about the bedroom part, yet I still went ahead and tried something new.

Yep, enjoyed it.

Very much.

Very. very much.

But, as I put my pants back on and paid, I was starting to feel guilty.

That said, I'm not here to judge, and am interested to hear what you all think

 

[Dallas]

Well the minute I start another relationship I'll be saying goodbye to w/l's as awesome as they are as it's a business relationship vs a personal relationship and in a personal relationship trust is everything so I wouldn't even consider both unless it was discussed and mutually agreed upon.

That's just me though but it depends on the kind of relationship you have, I'd have to be honest but yes, I could envisage situations where visiting a w/l might be mutually agreed upon.

 

[Rochelle]

Interesting question HaBisky, wonder what the other guys have to say to your post.
And just a short comment.......for me there is a difference between sex and intimacy. Sex is can be shared with several people (good fun), true intimacy only with the one very special person in one's life........

I wouldn't feel too guilty.......what happens on tour stays on tour.........and who knows what she got up to while you were away. OK that sounds mean but I don't mean it that way........equal rights for equal people.


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[Dallas]

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And just a short comment.......for me there is a difference between sex and intimacy. Sex is can be shared with several people (good fun), true intimacy only with the one very special person in one's life........

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Yes, totally agree Rochelle ;-))

 

[Rochelle]

Yes, totally agree Rochelle ;-))

Ahhhhhh a man with taste and world wisdom.......I love it

 

[Dallas]

Ahhhhhh a man with taste and world wisdom.......I love it

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