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Out of sync sex drives

Sensual Harmony

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I have suffered from depression in the past and had to take medication for some times, which lessened my sex drive. I have also had a few issues in my relationship which have caused my husband and I to be a little distant, so we really only had sex once a week. We went on a holiday together and it brought back the spark. Since then I have noticed that I have been more in the mood for sex, like a lot more. This has excited my husband a lot, but he is not able to keep up so to speak. If we have had sex on that day (sometimes even the day before) he is not able to get hard or stay hard. I have been getting very aroused lately and am feeling like we are not in sync. I don't know if this is a phase I am going through and this increased libido will fizzle out.
Has anyone experienced this before?
Any tips on how to approach this without hurting his feelings/ego?
 

Madyson McKensie

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Focus on enjoying the ‘play time’ with him, there are plenty if things you can do other than penetration (and let him know you want to be sexual with him but it doesn’t have to result in penetration). Perhaps introduce a toy to help get you off, but let him use it on you. Or you could watch porn together. Or give him a massage using lots of lube and slide all over him. Have fun and enjoy your increase arousal 💋💋
 

Bailey Blake

Bailey Blake
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I feel this so hard 😭 my meds make me so uninterested, and being a SWer has made me pretty desensitised to bodies and sexuality.. I can still be attracted to people and that sometimes makes my relationship rocky because I’m not sexually interested even though I’m absolutely head over heels for my parter. Rough times being on antidepressants.. I wish not being mentally unstable didn’t come with no sex drive 🤦🏻🤦🏻🤦🏻
 

TantraShiva

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Yeah in some of my tantra sessions i work to resensitise the body. Medications can be the worst for sex drives. 😟
 
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