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Punk Zebra

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Dahlia said:
Is it a turn on when clients only want to make you cum?
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As I have gotten older I have realized my primary concern is to ensurethegirl has a good time, strange as it may seem. I get my enjoyment when they orgasm, I love to come but I want them to have a good time. It is even better when you both connect even though there is no romantic attachment. Maybe it is ego but giving is primary, whilst receiving something back is good, it has became secondary.
 
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Yes Mr Zebra I can understand this feeling and I wonder if it is ego or the gentleman of old age that comes on. I thought for a while I was becoming a submissive when I just wanted to make the woman come as many times as I could WL or whatever it was my goal - I realized for some WL it is a bit of a bore - especially at the end of the night when all they really want is for me to cum and go....will be interesting to see what other WL say here over time...
 
Punk Zebra

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estafarr said:
Yes Mr Zebra I can understand this feeling and I wonder if it is ego or the gentleman of old age that comes on. I thought for a while I was becoming a submissive when I just wanted to make the woman come as many times as I could WL or whatever it was my goal - I realized for some WL it is a bit of a bore - especially at the end of the night when all they really want is for me to cum and go....will be interesting to see what other WL say here over time...
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Yes, that is why my visits are all before 3pm
 
Dallas

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Punk Zebra said:
As I have gotten older I have realized my primary concern is to ensurethegirl has a good time, strange as it may seem. I get my enjoyment when they orgasm, I love to come but I want them to have a good time. It is even better when you both connect even though there is no romantic attachment. Maybe it is ego but giving is primary, whilst receiving something back is good, it has became secondary.
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Yes, I am exactly the same as this. I don't know why but I really only get total satisfaction from a booking when I've also been able to please the lady and that doesn't have to be an orgasm, it could be something as simple as a massage etc.

If I book a lady at the start of her shift I usually expect that her needs will be more sexual, if it's at the end of her shift it's usually more relaxation, but then sometimes she's had a bad day, no orgasms and just wants to cum before she finishes... communication is the key :)
 
djon4u

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I agree with the mature men who find that bringing a lady to orgasm becomes more important than one's own orgasm - not by much though. No doubt having a lady orgasm is great for one's ego.
 
S2Daty

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I think it's an ego thing. Even as a teenager I prefer to make the girls cum first. Less pressure to perform intercourse later leds to better sex.
 
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