Not lasting long + W/L

lovemeamassage

lovemeamassage

Gold Member
Hi all,

So not a flattering topic but one I'm interested in getting some thoughts on.

I've had my fair share of RnT's, however I'd love to be with a beautiful W/L. My problem is I'm not confident and even just during an RnT, I build it up so much in my mind that I don't last very long, which brings me to my query.

If you know you don't last long, is it better to 'get one out of the way' early and possibly have another one within the hour, or spend more time with foreplay etc. and just cum once towards the end?

Appreciate the comments in advance :)
 
Master Yoda

Master Yoda

“Your path you must decide.”
Legend Member
I used to let it out before hand. And it helps. But beware bro that if you have already released and you're nervous its even worse when you can't reach endpoint.

And yes I too think that RnT requires a level of game to get mileage.
 
Dallas

Dallas

Legend Member
Personally I think how one may react is all part of the fun and anticipation. I'd just go along and be yourself and see what happens because it will be fun no matter what. Don't put to much pressure on your performance - the lady you see will be happy if you're clean and respectful and your confidence will improve with future visits.
 
HappyPirate

HappyPirate

Head Veto.....
Staff member
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Ahoy, confidence builds once you have a few punts, good commuincations with the W/L will help you a great deal.
Cheers and Pass the Rum
 
Happy2

Happy2

Legend Member
And don't forget many of the blokes you have spoken with about this don't last any longer than you lovemeamassage but would never be honest with you about it So who knows you may actually last longer than the norm and not know it.
And porno's aren't doco's either So there's the second main source of information gone:oops:
 
Master Yoda

Master Yoda

“Your path you must decide.”
Legend Member
True....I once saw a girl called Sophie at a place in Innaloo. Her oral skills were so good I could not last 60 seconds.

But that was a good thing.


Another time a little Hong Kong girl in bodywell Cannington. By the time we negotiated full service I was so worked up I maybe lasted 2 minutes.

Not often that happens. But they were too good.
 
homer

homer

Doh!
Legend Member
happy2 said:
And don't forget many of the blokes you have spoken with about this don't last any longer than you lovemeamassage but would never be honest with you about it So who knows you may actually last longer than the norm and not know it.
And porno's aren't doco's either So there's the second main source of information gone:oops:
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Shhhhhhhh...heheee...ok...premature is normally not my thang, but it happens sometimes. Just can't resist the extra wetness in the tunnel of love and that bang for your bucks movements. 10 mins then the Yangtze just bursts its banks...
 
Xtraman

Xtraman

珍愛生命
Diamond Member
I have been lucky to kind of master the technique of control over the years and turn the sabre on and fire when ready, but now I'm older it becomes harder to turn it back on! and the poor WL's have to work their dear little hearts out to make the electrons flow.....bzzzzzzzzzzzzz!

but hey, you take the good with the bad hahahaa
Its STILL fun! for me anyway.
 
Farm Boy 2

Farm Boy 2

Legend Member
lovemeamassage said:
Hi all,

So not a flattering topic but one I'm interested in getting some thoughts on.

I've had my fair share of RnT's, however I'd love to be with a beautiful W/L. My problem is I'm not confident and even just during an RnT, I build it up so much in my mind that I don't last very long, which brings me to my query.

If you know you don't last long, is it better to 'get one out of the way' early and possibly have another one within the hour, or spend more time with foreplay etc. and just cum once towards the end?

Appreciate the comments in advance :)
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entrée as a small course served before a larger one,
 
Trinco

Trinco

Gold Member
Simple but effective
Mind over matter
Think about something else
There are exercise you can do with your breathing that let's you control
 
A

Astro

Good thread; I have always wondered about this as well...

I mean, the WL involved won't be happy if you take 30min to 'Pompeii'.. but I am sure you be pissed if you like 'gone in 60sec.'

So is there a middle ground.. ? I remembered I actually asked one to 'slow down'.. so there's always that option.

What I love to know is.. 'do you unload first' before you go visit them.. or do you go with a loaded gun?
 
Happy2

Happy2

Legend Member
What I love to know is.. 'do you unload first' before you go visit them.. or do you go with a loaded gun?

I think that depends on whether you are 51 or 21 Astro
 
W

Wayne Kerr

This just about sums up a good punting mindset.

Dallas said:
Personally I think how one may react is all part of the fun and anticipation. I'd just go along and be yourself and see what happens because it will be fun no matter what. Don't put to much pressure on your performance - the lady you see will be happy if you're clean and respectful and your confidence will improve with future visits.
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homer

homer

Doh!
Legend Member
As the wise Yoda said, theres a risk in unloading first. Best to walk in with a loaded gun and use the force.
 
Xtraman

Xtraman

珍愛生命
Diamond Member
Only had one AMP girl unload me twice.
sadly she has moved on and the best part was she suggested it :)
So she spent the time to bring it on again...
(much to my surprise)
 
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