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Jimmy long
Diamond Member
Sounds like your in love mate, alcohol is one cure (but not a very smart one), a non-involved person would say get back on (another) horse
Vader
Gold Member
It’s great that you had a connection with your regular lady. Believe me it’s awesome when it happens.
But she has stopped working and has moved on with her life. Time for you to do the same.
This is a great forum to look at ladies, check their reviews and for the LT ladies, or private’s on the forum you can DM them.
Get back on the horse mate.
But she has stopped working and has moved on with her life. Time for you to do the same.
This is a great forum to look at ladies, check their reviews and for the LT ladies, or private’s on the forum you can DM them.
Get back on the horse mate.
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@Vader @Jimmy long Thanks for the advice gents. Very helpful. Been trying, let’s see how it goes.
johnmatilda
Legend Member
My best advice coming from years and years of my own and others' experience: start banging other women. You will get over her pronto and you will have fun at the same time.
Kindly report back after 6 months and let us know how you went. You can thank me later
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Good luck
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Kindly report back after 6 months and let us know how you went. You can thank me later
.Good luck
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johnmatilda
Legend Member
C7Vol
Gold Member
Sure, I know the feeling. You obviously don't have any way to contact her?
What I have found difficult in the past, is contacting a shop on a day when a favourite girl is usually rostered, and being told "she doesn't work here any longer". That hurts.
What I prefer, is if a WL tells you she is finishing on a certain date, and you have a chance to say a final goodbye.
Sure, you still feel sad, but I have found that the sense of closure is important.
What I have found difficult in the past, is contacting a shop on a day when a favourite girl is usually rostered, and being told "she doesn't work here any longer". That hurts.
What I prefer, is if a WL tells you she is finishing on a certain date, and you have a chance to say a final goodbye.
Sure, you still feel sad, but I have found that the sense of closure is important.
Lukey
Diamond Member
Plenty of other WLs out there you can build connections with 
TBH that’s a pitfall of catching feelings for a WL. No closure if they just disappear on ya.
Just remind yourself (constantly if necessary) it’s primarily a business relationship & enjoy it while it lasts for what it is. Nothing more, nothing less.
Getting back out there will help you feel better the quickest.
TBH that’s a pitfall of catching feelings for a WL. No closure if they just disappear on ya.
Just remind yourself (constantly if necessary) it’s primarily a business relationship & enjoy it while it lasts for what it is. Nothing more, nothing less.
Getting back out there will help you feel better the quickest.
Well said Lukey!Plenty of other WLs out there you can build connections with
TBH that’s a pitfall of catching feelings for a WL. No closure if they just disappear on ya.
Just remind yourself (constantly if necessary) it’s primarily a business relationship & enjoy it while it lasts for what it is. Nothing more, nothing less.
Getting back out there will help you feel better the quickest.
Wooper
Legend Member
It’s ok to have a connection and if you find one you like and get along with it can make for fun times, but if it’s affecting you too deeply you have to make sure you’re going into these things understanding it is all transactional as you can leave yourself open to be taken advantage off or in situations where you can leave yourself feeling hurt, make sure you’re capable of distancing yourself
Shazaam
Gold Member
If you're looking for romantic involvement there is nightclubs and pubs and dating websites. The WL just wanted her money probably. One way to get over it... bang other women.
Shazaam
Gold Member
Keep in mind that she isn't the only one mate. Someone just as attractive or better will come along.Thanks everyone for your guidance
Vader
Gold Member
You’ll be right, just get out there and enjoy yourself.Thanks everyone for your guidance
pillinger
Gold Member
I highlighted the really important part of john's sage adviceMy best advice coming from years and years of my own and others' experience: start banging other women. You will get over her pronto and you will have fun at the same time.
Kindly report back after 6 months and let us know how you went. You can thank me later
Good luck
johnmatilda
Legend Member
Indeed, the best medicine to get over one woman is to get on top of another one!I highlighted the really important part of john's sage advice
mountainbikingateve
Gold Member
For a laugh, watch Rake (ABC TV series). A great comedy about having feelings for your WL and she disappears....
thirsty
Legend Member
I mean this in a nice/good way. Take a trip to the Philippines, Thailand, Singapore, Bali or the likes as I’m sure after a couple of days you will soon have moved on.
clicker68
Gold Member
Funny that, one of my regulars also stopped at the start of the year too. But I had another regular and I saw other girls and forgot the one that disappeared. To get over a girl get under or on top of another girl.
Shazaam
Gold Member
Are you saying not to lose your virginity to a sex worker on a whim or is there justification? I don't want to father any children so I might aswell just see sex workers. Is that sad? How so?
pillinger
Gold Member
This is a sex forum specifically related to escorting. You are here why?
I think he was just offering an opinion the same as the rest of us?
TotalGold
Gold Member
My brother we've all been there. I still miss some of my all time fave WLs who have moved on to other pursuits.
When I find a lady who I really click with I like to see her as often a possible and often find myself feeling very close to them. Over the years I've learned that there are many more beautiful, sexy, and charming women out there. In fact there are too many for me to meet in a lifetime. Give it a bit of effort and get out there and find someone else who you click with. You'll likely go through a few who don't have that same magic but after a while you'll find another. It's a lot like regular dating in that way but just a lot more efficient.
When I find a lady who I really click with I like to see her as often a possible and often find myself feeling very close to them. Over the years I've learned that there are many more beautiful, sexy, and charming women out there. In fact there are too many for me to meet in a lifetime. Give it a bit of effort and get out there and find someone else who you click with. You'll likely go through a few who don't have that same magic but after a while you'll find another. It's a lot like regular dating in that way but just a lot more efficient.
Shazaam
Gold Member
They are sayin don't see escorts on a whim without justification. Perhaps due to having their feelings hurt.