Moral Dilemma

[bushseeker]

OK if youve read the gangbang thread you would know the drama i had with the lady

Now I wont go into full details but i did a crap load for this lady and thats not including the organising of her clients
the deal was i was supposed to get some action - even just a BJ would have been fine - but when i requested she looked at me as if i was silly and i gort "no--- no .... just no"
bushseeker respects women so just said thats fine sorry for asking without pionting out all id done

then i didnt even get a thanks when her friend picked her up.... i can live with all that

howver i found she had stashed $100 in the drawer after she left

shes in Waneroo doesnt have a car - im not going there - she hasnt mentioned it and to be perfectly honest id be happy to never see her again ----

OK Im upfront guy
say what you like but BUSHSEEKER IS KEEPING IT, if i told you what went on over the course of the day theres no question you would say i earned it ---- but was i entitled to it ?

you be the judge - unless she asks for it and comes to get it im keeping it

 

[johnlou]

OK if youve read the gangbang thread you would know the drama i had with the lady

Now I wont go into full details but i did a crap load for this lady and thats not including the organising of her clients
the deal was i was supposed to get some action - even just a BJ would have been fine - but when i requested she looked at me as if i was silly and i gort "no--- no .... just no"
bushseeker respects women so just said thats fine sorry for asking without pionting out all id done

then i didnt even get a thanks when her friend picked her up.... i can live with all that

howver i found she had stashed $100 in the drawer after she left

shes in Waneroo doesnt have a car - im not going there - she hasnt mentioned it and to be perfectly honest id be happy to never see her again ----

OK Im upfront guy
say what you like but BUSHSEEKER IS KEEPING IT, if i told you what went on over the course of the day theres no question you would say i earned it ---- but was i entitled to it ?

you be the judge - unless she asks for it and comes to get it im keeping it

hey bushkeeper if you ever see her again it will be far too soon and if that does happen say nothing about the money until she does and then play dumb ( like you know nothing of what she is talking about ) . you went far beyond the call of duty for no self gain.

no judgement from me .

 

[Obbie]

Still don't know why you would do all this for free sounds like you do the hard work but 100 is better than nothing !!

 

[Dallas]

I think after what you've done it's fine to hold on to it. Im sure she'll text you if she wants it, it's up to her to do that.
Thanks too for all the info you've been posting on your organising dilemmas it's been very interesting reading and I can empathise in a very small way to meeting up with good reliable girls and the logistical issues ive had so your ones sound very stressful.

 

[HappyPirate]

Ahoy;- you have earned it, go buy yourself a drink
Cheers and Have a Rum

 

[iwtt69]

Look at it this way...
You either would have gotten a bj , found the cash and return it to her..or like now, you keep the money and no bj..
I say you ahead cause if it was the former, that would have been one expensive $100 Bj!

 

[Naughty Thoughts]

Morally I want to say that the right thing to do is return the money... but some people make it hard to do the right thing.

Me, in that situation? I'd probably contact her, and then be dumb enough to go drop it off to her where I wouldn't get thanked. But I'm a "death before dishonour" kind of guy.

Going by the suggestions others have made, and having read your other posts, I'll say to say nothing. In that sort of cash based transaction environment it's up to her to keep track of her money. If she's going to let you put in that much effort without even acknowledging it then she shouldn't expect you to go above and beyond.

 

[johnlou]

my thoughts also NT. tit for tat.

 

[wr3xr]

 

[bushseeker]

fine line but im not sure wheather i was pimping or not
definitly i was acting as one - but with the agreement im not sure (another reason i have to give it away)
theres alot of stigma atached to pimping but honestly from what ive seen private ladys really can make alot more money by having an assistant or "pimp"

i think the lady would have struggled to make a cent without me . she had her own ads and got nothing from them due to her not having the time to "work them"

in case anyones interested i wouldnt mind having a beer in the city next time im back and discussing what goes on

it really is flat out with non stop messeges both text and email and placing regular adds with 98% being timewasters but it still needs to be done as i said the 2% made a grand
and i know it was a quite night because several ladys contacted me from enquirys weeks ago to see what i was up to

 

[bushseeker]

the thursday was a much better location
- now im not sure what sort of work ladys can drum up by themselves but i would have though getting 9 guys in about 6 hours for a 40 year old size 14 is probablly not bad going

 

[Master Yoda]

To me there is no right and wrong. Everything is objective to the individual going through the experience according to how the individual perceives. So only you can answer that one for yourself bro.


If I was in that situation. I would contact her and let her make the choice. If she asks me to return it, I will.


I believe that how another person treats me is their Karma. But how I react is my Karma.

 

[bushseeker]

Thanks for that yoda
Im keeping it. No contact from her. Ill sleep well tonight

 

[Obbie]

But a some lotto tickets if you win split it with her if you don't no one misses out !!

 

[TheRoamingEyeball]

unless she asks for it and comes to get it im keeping it

Sounds like a good plan. With no contact from her rest easy indeed!

 

[homer]

Keep it, donate it...no judging here. It's your sweat.

 

[Farm Boy 2]

Keep it . your going Hell to anyway .

 

[bushseeker]

Keep it . your going Hell to anyway .

genuinely intrested is this a serious coment ?
disapointed if it is , but I can also see why you would say it im more than happy to detail what I did for this lady on a personal level let alone work - I was taken advantage of but went along with it and also made her money - Im no pimp i dont make her see clients and smack her round if she says shes tired

she had a meltdown when it came to the gang bang so i had to handle the guys there for it, get them out tactfully, then settle her down and focus her

 

[Farm Boy 2]

Its how this Guy justifies all the bad stuff he is planing to do . in other words a joke . your chain has been yanked . get over it and keep the $100.00 .

 

[bushseeker]

oh if your stuffing with me thats fine i love a good banter

but if you think what ive done is wrong - this is the forum to tell me straight

 

[johnlou]

i'm getting the feeling this thread has gone as far as it can without offending anyone .
i will give it a couple of days and then lock it ..

 

[bushseeker]

no dont do that im thick skinned - im not offended but if anyone wants to judge me then please give exact reasons why I can have right of reply or maybe agree

im truly interested but as said only from people able to give precise reasons

 

[bushseeker]

while thres many on this forum who would like to believe the sex industry is all about langtrees with high priced ladys, sanitized environments , and glamour shots the reality is the underground industry is probally much bigger

if no ones intrested in hearing about it then shut me down (please do me the courtesy of a PM though)

otherwise im happy to lay all bare but would appreciate reasoned comments back - they dont have to be positive but they should be backed up rather than just coments like "you suck"

 

[johnlou]

ok but if it gets argumentative or disrespectful then i will not have a choice

 

[bushseeker]

ok Just then if anyone thinks im full of crap the lady from thursday wants to know when the next time i can make her a weeks worth of money in an evening
texted then

 

[Obbie]

Ok I have a question all that you have posted has pretty much been about how hard it is doing this the drugs the dealers the wankers you have to deal with the stupid working ladies that piss you off so 1 why do you still do it 2 why would you do all this for fuckall or a blow job I can't figure it out mate $$$

 

[homer]

Its how this Guy justifies all the bad stuff he is planing to do . in other words a joke . your chain has been yanked . get over it and keep the $100.00 .

Winning!

 

[estafarr]

To me there is no right and wrong. Everything is objective to the individual going through the experience according to how the individual perceives. So only you can answer that one for yourself bro.


If I was in that situation. I would contact her and let her make the choice. If she asks me to return it, I will.


I believe that how another person treats me is their Karma. But how I react is my Karma.

Spoken like a true Jedi...

 

[bushseeker]

Ok I have a question all that you have posted has pretty much been about how hard it is doing this the drugs the dealers the wankers you have to deal with the stupid working ladies that piss you off so 1 why do you still do it 2 why would you do all this for fuckall or a blow job I can't figure it out mate $$$

Answer is it seemed like a good idea at the time. It genuinely intrests me making ladys money
But the reality is not what im after.